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Being in love doesn't exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other. One of the signs of lust; you're totally focused on a person's looks and body. And a sign of love; you want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy.
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You people have unresolved issues. Women want the same thing many of us guys want: a person we can trust, can love and be loved by them, someone to do daily things and enjoy them. We want someone who will want us back: with complete disregard to any rules. Totally and unequivocally be part of each other. That's all. That's not asking much... maybe?! |
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McDonalds Yes! The Filet-O-Fish! |
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Nope no issues here lol
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I don't feel like going back and reading thru all the pages.....but this was a movie. Yeah think it had Mel Gibson in it, prior to him being an anti-semitic raving drunk.
Yup I went there......ruh roh! |
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Being in love doesn't exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other. One of the signs of lust; you're totally focused on a person's looks and body. And a sign of love; you want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy. Thumb up! |
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A loving and honest who love me and funny !
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A loving and honest who love me and funny girl in my life!
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Edited by
LUNG1954
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Sun 08/17/14 04:46 AM
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A woman asked me about my name (LUNG) I answered; "lung is one of two saclike respiratory organs responsible for transferring oxygen into the bloodstream. I chose this name for I'll be the Oxygen to my coming wife i.e. I decided to be very easy going and comfortable to her because I learnt from this life that as much you love your partner he or she'll response to that love positively if he or she fears God."
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Being in love doesn't exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other. One of the signs of lust; you're totally focused on a person's looks and body. And a sign of love; you want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy. Thumb up! I agree that we are usually "attracted" to someone, but I personally wouldn't call it "lust", but some people would. At any rate, that attraction could develop into a lasting loving relationship. It would depend on the inner character of the person as to whether he/she could see beyond the physical and focus on the inner qualities of the other person. |
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Well put
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Free mechanic?
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what about someone who will hug them and try and make them laugh when they need cheering up
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what about someone who will hug them and try and make them laugh when they need cheering up Is he a mechanic, too?... |
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Edited by
NoMindGamesPlease
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Sun 08/17/14 11:40 AM
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Being in love doesn't exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other. One of the signs of lust; you're totally focused on a person's looks and body. And a sign of love; you want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy. Thumb up! I agree that we are usually "attracted" to someone, but I personally wouldn't call it "lust", but some people would. At any rate, that attraction could develop into a lasting loving relationship. It would depend on the inner character of the person as to whether he/she could see beyond the physical and focus on the inner qualities of the other person. COULD develop, yes, but not if there is and never was any intention to look for more than just pure chemistry. The problem is that you can't tell if people honestly look for a relationship till you give them a chance. So far I had no luck, but that can change and I might find someone who is not there just to "get some" from time to time. I still didn't give up, but if they keep coming just for one reason, I can settle with a friend, or just an activity partner with similar life style. In that case that partner wouldn't have to be a man at all. |
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shoes------------ shoes ---------------shoes, and followed up with a bottle of wine to celebrate those purchases .!!!!
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shoes------------ shoes ---------------shoes, and followed up with a bottle of wine to celebrate those purchases .!!!! And you forgot...MORE shoes...!! |
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shoes------------ shoes ---------------shoes, and followed up with a bottle of wine to celebrate those purchases .!!!! And you forgot...MORE shoes...!! |
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Edited by
LUNG1954
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Sun 08/17/14 07:14 PM
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Being in love doesn't exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other. One of the signs of lust; you're totally focused on a person's looks and body. And a sign of love; you want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy. Thumb up! I agree that we are usually "attracted" to someone, but I personally wouldn't call it "lust", but some people would. At any rate, that attraction could develop into a lasting loving relationship. It would depend on the inner character of the person as to whether he/she could see beyond the physical and focus on the inner qualities of the other person. COULD develop, yes, but not if there is and never was any intention to look for more than just pure chemistry. The problem is that you can't tell if people honestly look for a relationship till you give them a chance. So far I had no luck, but that can change and I might find someone who is not there just to "get some" from time to time. I still didn't give up, but if they keep coming just for one reason, I can settle with a friend, or just an activity partner with similar life style. In that case that partner wouldn't have to be a man at all. I agree with both of you. But I think you don't love and appreciate someone because they're perfect, you love and appreciate them in spite of the fact that they are not. Truthfully, the less you expect from someone you care about, the happier your relationship with them will be. No one in your life will act exactly as you hope or expect them to, ever. They are not YOU, they will not love, give, understand or respond like you do. So in my mind as soon as the relationship is in place, both parties must do their part to nurture it. When they fail to do so, solidarity is gradually replaced with suffering. Now my story; I personally was attracted by a lady expecting this attraction could develop into a lasting loving relationship. From my side I'm sure I could make her happy. I think our inner characters are very identical. We had electronically communication I asked her to give me a chance to meet her but she didn't reply. Could you guess what this woman wants? |
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Edited by
Amelinng
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Wed 08/20/14 06:58 PM
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Being in love doesn't exclude lust. In fact, lust can lead to love. However, real love, not based on idealization or projection, requires time to get to know each other. One of the signs of lust; you're totally focused on a person's looks and body. And a sign of love; you want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy. Thumb up! I agree that we are usually "attracted" to someone, but I personally wouldn't call it "lust", but some people would. At any rate, that attraction could develop into a lasting loving relationship. It would depend on the inner character of the person as to whether he/she could see beyond the physical and focus on the inner qualities of the other person. COULD develop, yes, but not if there is and never was any intention to look for more than just pure chemistry. The problem is that you can't tell if people honestly look for a relationship till you give them a chance. So far I had no luck, but that can change and I might find someone who is not there just to "get some" from time to time. I still didn't give up, but if they keep coming just for one reason, I can settle with a friend, or just an activity partner with similar life style. In that case that partner wouldn't have to be a man at all. I agree with both of you. But I think you don't love and appreciate someone because they're perfect, you love and appreciate them in spite of the fact that they are not. Truthfully, the less you expect from someone you care about, the happier your relationship with them will be. No one in your life will act exactly as you hope or expect them to, ever. They are not YOU, they will not love, give, understand or respond like you do. So in my mind as soon as the relationship is in place, both parties must do their part to nurture it. When they fail to do so, solidarity is gradually replaced with suffering. Now my story; I personally was attracted by a lady expecting this attraction could develop into a lasting loving relationship. From my side I'm sure I could make her happy. I think our inner characters are very identical. We had electronically communication I asked her to give me a chance to meet her but she didn't reply. Could you guess what this woman wants? I don't know about other sites...but I have had my fair share of scammers and it makes us wary!! And if you move too fast too soon, it doesn't seem realistic. Just let it develop further......hope you get to meet her in the end and see how it goes from there. |
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