Topic: love and sex
Goofball73's photo
Sun 10/19/14 02:23 PM

Does sex have anything to do with love? Or are they separate needs/emotions with dissimilar expectations?


Didn't you hear that sex is of the devil? :tongue: laugh

dreamerana's photo
Sun 10/19/14 02:34 PM

Does sex have anything to do with love? Or are they separate needs/emotions with dissimilar expectations?


there are already many good responses on here that are better expressed than mine.

love is about an emotional connection and attachment. to a person, pet, cause, activity or profession.
it involves giving, self sacrifice and dedication.
as such it entails commitment because your ultimate goal is often far on the horizon, something for which you constantly put forth effort.

sex in and if itself is about physical gratification or satisfying a basic urge. I wont even say need because people can and do live without sex for a variety of reasons.

love comes in many forms and doesn't require sex.

you can have sex and that does not guarantee finding love.

Datwasntme's photo
Sun 10/19/14 03:15 PM

Does sex have anything to do with love? Or are they separate needs/emotions with dissimilar expectations?


that all depends on who you ask
i have a couple of friends that the last time i talked to them they where going on 20 + years together married and had never had sex with each other and they are still head over heals in love with each other

i all so know some older people who are unable to have sex anymore and they still love one another

i all so know some people that have to have it every day sometimes more then once a day so to them they could not have love with out sex

really all depends on the person

if you really want to know more you can search the forums, this topic has been posted many times before

Cheezy Freeman's photo
Sun 10/19/14 03:36 PM
Edited by Cheezy Freeman on Sun 10/19/14 03:40 PM
Assuming we are only speaking from relationship point of view (i.e. "being in love with someone" and not just "loving someone"), then permit me to say that love without sex(I mean,making love) cannot be as deep-rooted and cannot last. Sex,to me, is the essence of love...the color and flavor of love. So yeah it does have everything to do with love.

Peter's photo
Sun 10/19/14 03:59 PM
Every single person is 100% compatible with 100% of the population? Are you serious?
Just making that statement, I just know I am NOT compatible with you

Justfun_1's photo
Sun 10/19/14 04:02 PM
From a purely physical point of view,there is a big difference between (making) love,and sex.You can have better chemistry and have mind blowing sex with someone,but the emotional high from making love is completely different.

doncross79's photo
Tue 10/21/14 05:07 AM
love is 100%different to sex,take for instance,u saw a girl with naked beautyful body,all tht will go in ur mind is how can i get to sex this girls and wen u get inher tht is all,but love is emotional,like u saw a girl very dicsent in dressing and how she deal with peopl and her caracter,all tht will enter in ur mind is tht she will make a good mother gradgualy u started growning in love with her not to have sex with her but to keep her for ur self for enternity,tht is love.

Adezad's photo
Tue 10/21/14 05:16 AM
love is feeling that come out from button of the heart,if you're dating someone firstly you can only like him/her it when you have sex it is their that you will be remember the way you form before sex,my pint is that whit out sex love can never forms.

m3k4y's photo
Tue 10/21/14 05:36 AM
It does and it doesn't...if you mean it genuinely, then yes it has anything to do with love..but if your both drunk then no..

I am a living proof of my parents love with each other..

dinasour's photo
Thu 10/30/14 02:25 AM
Hye

davidben1's photo
Thu 10/30/14 03:22 AM
sex is physical pleasure.

love is caring for another.

mix the two, and va voom.

leave one part out.

and va voom again, as one heads out the door.

Philosopher8659's photo
Fri 10/31/14 03:56 PM

Does sex have anything to do with love? Or are they separate needs/emotions with dissimilar expectations?


Definition determines the principles of predication. Define your terms and then examine what may or may not be asserted or denied of each. Examine where they intersect, and where not.

We, as mind, have a very specific definition. What may be asserted or denied of us is then determined by that definition.

"Love is all the things people do together to maintain and promote their life." Reproduction is part of that process and sexual maintenance is another--however these two items are only important in proportion to the rest of one's intellectual domain. If one is an idiot, then these items must fill a void.

davidben1's photo
Sat 11/01/14 12:39 AM
how one self define what it self see create the total reality it self experience.

if one wish for a BETTER reality, than define what one see DIFFERENTLY, instead of trying to find different.

Michael88888888's photo
Sat 11/01/14 01:13 AM
I thing is a huge differents between sex and love , sex is just normal but love is something special , you must feeling so deep inside you , you don't see another person you want to spent each second with your love , not everytime but when you love someone is a gift , we can realy love in every day , is impossible , this gift is very rare , so if you are in love you are realy lucky person , don't waist your time and be natural because this is love , something natural and you are happy to not make big things , like travel or something , If you watching a movie with your partner is anough ! ( soory for my english language )

PS : Peace and love !

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Sat 11/01/14 12:37 PM
Edited by robinbad on Sat 11/01/14 12:36 PM

Does sex have anything to do with love? Or are they separate needs/emotions with dissimilar expectations?


when we talk about love between a man and a woman it is always sex love which depends o chemistry inside you. There is also another love - love to a human being which is also present in relationships betwen humans. There are also other types of love - love to pets for example, or love to your relatives, all of them are different types of love.

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Tue 11/04/14 05:50 AM
Sex is a very crucial event to be performed by matured person.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/04/14 09:33 AM
Edited for vulgarity.

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Tue 11/04/14 09:39 AM

Does sex have anything to do with love? Or are they separate needs/emotions with dissimilar expectations?


Both...whoa

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 11/04/14 09:45 AM
In my sense of romantic love, sex is a healthy expression of emotion.

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Tue 11/04/14 09:48 AM
for me making love and sex are two different things
you make love when you're in love, if that makes sense