Topic: any real man left in the world?
bastet126's photo
Sat 11/01/14 06:58 PM

whatever self truly be within is an invisible magnet to what is exactly like it self, problem is, most are just blind to what they them self truly are, so left befuddled over the "losers" who are attracted to them.




i find this very insightful.
to thine own self be true.

mrld_ii's photo
Sat 11/01/14 08:50 PM




Dear wait for your turn there will be a day in your life that day you will have love in your life.
Keep your hope alive..


Seriously when guys address me as dear; I want to vomit.As well; not a fracking chance in hell will I have love in my life.


whoa...

it's just a false emotional trigger...

you WILL have love in your life, when one get rid of these...

some dirt bag tainted the word "dear" to be what he was when saying it...

many people say dear, and are sincerely loving and adoring people, who say it it in a totally adoring way...

just a thought.

just sad to hear one believe such based on simply a single word "dear".


Being addressed dear is a familar term and should not be used by strangers as far as I am concerned. I will also add that the men on this site that use the term dear are usually scammers. Don't lecture me on what I should do. I have the love of friends and family and I don't need a dirtbag scammer calling me dear.


Scammer or not, you had every right to be offended, as it was *said* TO be offensive and condescending.


*Odd* (and very interesting and telling) that one of his teammates felt you shouldn't be offended by its contextual use.


drinks

navygirl's photo
Sat 11/01/14 09:30 PM





Dear wait for your turn there will be a day in your life that day you will have love in your life.
Keep your hope alive..


Seriously when guys address me as dear; I want to vomit.As well; not a fracking chance in hell will I have love in my life.


whoa...

it's just a false emotional trigger...

you WILL have love in your life, when one get rid of these...

some dirt bag tainted the word "dear" to be what he was when saying it...

many people say dear, and are sincerely loving and adoring people, who say it it in a totally adoring way...

just a thought.

just sad to hear one believe such based on simply a single word "dear".


Being addressed dear is a familar term and should not be used by strangers as far as I am concerned. I will also add that the men on this site that use the term dear are usually scammers. Don't lecture me on what I should do. I have the love of friends and family and I don't need a dirtbag scammer calling me dear.


Scammer or not, you had every right to be offended, as it was *said* TO be offensive and condescending.


*Odd* (and very interesting and telling) that one of his teammates felt you shouldn't be offended by its contextual use.

drinks


Thank you for that and for understanding why I get so tired of hearing that. If someone wants to address me; then use my username.flowerforyou

Kindlightheart's photo
Sat 11/01/14 10:18 PM
I believe that tons of "real" men exist...I have had the pleasure of chatting with a few on here...and when I am bored I spend my time "stalking" profiles of men without leaving a word to say hi...I do admire beauty...and a lot of these I see I am sure are " real"...I do have to agree with navygirl on the "dear" thing though...might be a couple men that use the term trying to be polite....but I can say its over used by the scammers...and honestly I hate being called dear....

Favershamlad's photo
Sun 11/02/14 10:41 AM
Hi I'm josh I've never had an ex that would say I have don anything rong there are good guys out there you need to look for use some of us are intimidated cose you girls are very beautyful we have a hard time

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 05:15 PM


whatever self truly be within is an invisible magnet to what is exactly like it self, problem is, most are just blind to what they them self truly are, so left befuddled over the "losers" who are attracted to them.




i find this very insightful.
to thine own self be true.



damn straight, some have spoken it wisely to be.

each destiny and path of the each mortal be as unique as one's face, and it only be many trying to influence others to feel self important, that try to make others do as they think another should do, that DELAY the journey to bliss and eternal destiny of joyful self bliss that all could have FELT already, if it were not for all the "detours" on the path so many by listening to the wannabe self important leaders of what others actions should and are supposed to be.

peace unto wise fe eyes

ridewytepony's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:03 PM


Dear wait for your turn there will be a day in your life that day you will have love in your life.
Keep your hope alive..


Seriously when guys address me as dear; I want to vomit.As well; not a fracking chance in hell will I have love in my life.

*Mouth drops open*
Certainly not with that attitude ..elk?..lol.. is that better.

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:46 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Sun 11/02/14 07:07 PM





Dear wait for your turn there will be a day in your life that day you will have love in your life.
Keep your hope alive..


Seriously when guys address me as dear; I want to vomit.As well; not a fracking chance in hell will I have love in my life.


whoa...

it's just a false emotional trigger...

you WILL have love in your life, when one get rid of these...

some dirt bag tainted the word "dear" to be what he was when saying it...

many people say dear, and are sincerely loving and adoring people, who say it it in a totally adoring way...

just a thought.

just sad to hear one believe such based on simply a single word "dear".


Being addressed dear is a familar term and should not be used by strangers as far as I am concerned. I will also add that the men on this site that use the term dear are usually scammers. Don't lecture me on what I should do. I have the love of friends and family and I don't need a dirtbag scammer calling me dear.


Scammer or not, you had every right to be offended, as it was *said* TO be offensive and condescending.


*Odd* (and very interesting and telling) that one of his teammates felt you shouldn't be offended by its contextual use.


drinks


hehehe...

i don't know him from adam, but read his exact post and sentiment on that particular post, and all i read from THAT post was true sincere caring and empathy...

but hey, some do indeed feel them self wise enough to accurately read and know all the feelings and thoughts and interventions of ALL in the world, which let's see, would be this one would be deeming them self smart and insightful enough to know the thoughts, intentions and true feelings of 7.1 billion people...

but hey, we got some god damn smart people in the world, that's for sure.

rock on 7.1 billion accurate mind reader.

oh how small minds do adore them self.

no photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:52 PM

I've been burned so many times by guys as im sure a lot of women have. Yes you need to date losers to figure out what u want, now I know what I want and it seems impossible to find. Am I the only one?


Yes, there are, but they are too far and I don't want a long distance relationship. Wish I could make that distance disappear...

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 06:56 PM
tis so sad how many sit in their lonely chairs and empty beds and demand how and what the rest of 7.1 billion can speak to them, tis it a sad wonder they are there.

mrld_ii's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:03 PM






Dear wait for your turn there will be a day in your life that day you will have love in your life.
Keep your hope alive..


Seriously when guys address me as dear; I want to vomit.As well; not a fracking chance in hell will I have love in my life.


whoa...

it's just a false emotional trigger...

you WILL have love in your life, when one get rid of these...

some dirt bag tainted the word "dear" to be what he was when saying it...

many people say dear, and are sincerely loving and adoring people, who say it it in a totally adoring way...

just a thought.

just sad to hear one believe such based on simply a single word "dear".


Being addressed dear is a familar term and should not be used by strangers as far as I am concerned. I will also add that the men on this site that use the term dear are usually scammers. Don't lecture me on what I should do. I have the love of friends and family and I don't need a dirtbag scammer calling me dear.


Scammer or not, you had every right to be offended, as it was *said* TO be offensive and condescending.


*Odd* (and very interesting and telling) that one of his teammates felt you shouldn't be offended by its contextual use.


drinks


hehehe...

i don't know him from adam, but read his exact post and sentiment on that particular post, and all i read from THAT post was true sincere caring and empathy...

but hey, some do indeed deem *them self* feel wise enough to accurately read and know all the feelings and thoughts and interventions of ALL in the world, which let's see, would be this one would be deeming **them self** smart and insightful enough to know the thoughts, intentions and true feelings of 7.1 billion people...

but hey, we got some god damn smart people in the world, that's for sure.

rock on 7.1 billion accurate mind reader.

oh how small minds do adore *them self*.


*themselves*
**oneself**


I never believed for one minute that your mind-reading skills, which you used to defend the offensive and condescending use of "dear" within this context, had anything to do with superior intellect.

drinks

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:05 PM
as picky as one self is about what others do and speak, is precisley equally how picky one should allow others to be about what one self do and what one self can say.

no wonder those who live on one way streets in their minds live on dead ends.

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:08 PM







Dear wait for your turn there will be a day in your life that day you will have love in your life.
Keep your hope alive..


Seriously when guys address me as dear; I want to vomit.As well; not a fracking chance in hell will I have love in my life.


whoa...

it's just a false emotional trigger...

you WILL have love in your life, when one get rid of these...

some dirt bag tainted the word "dear" to be what he was when saying it...

many people say dear, and are sincerely loving and adoring people, who say it it in a totally adoring way...

just a thought.

just sad to hear one believe such based on simply a single word "dear".


Being addressed dear is a familar term and should not be used by strangers as far as I am concerned. I will also add that the men on this site that use the term dear are usually scammers. Don't lecture me on what I should do. I have the love of friends and family and I don't need a dirtbag scammer calling me dear.


Scammer or not, you had every right to be offended, as it was *said* TO be offensive and condescending.


*Odd* (and very interesting and telling) that one of his teammates felt you shouldn't be offended by its contextual use.


drinks


hehehe...

i don't know him from adam, but read his exact post and sentiment on that particular post, and all i read from THAT post was true sincere caring and empathy...

but hey, some do indeed deem *them self* feel wise enough to accurately read and know all the feelings and thoughts and interventions of ALL in the world, which let's see, would be this one would be deeming **them self** smart and insightful enough to know the thoughts, intentions and true feelings of 7.1 billion people...

but hey, we got some god damn smart people in the world, that's for sure.

rock on 7.1 billion accurate mind reader.

oh how small minds do adore *them self*.


*themselves*
**oneself**


I never believed for one minute that your mind-reading skills, which you used to defend the offensive and condescending use of "dear" within this context, had anything to do with superior intellect.

drinks



hehehe...

kinds sounds like the same mentality howard hughs used...

rock on to whatever your mind thinks.

mrld_ii's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:11 PM

as picky as one self is about what others do and speak, is precisley equally how picky one should allow others to be about what one self do and what one self can say.

no wonder those who live on one way streets in their minds live on dead ends.


Thanks for the wise words, but personally, I live on a cul-de-sac.


It works as a[nother] visual to direct and remind others to "move along". biggrin









davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:12 PM
and i who wonder who be scammin to get that i wonder.

sad sader sadest sometimes it just be.

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:15 PM
oh my oh my, how oh how could it be...

oh my oh my, how could it be...

that some in the world sincerely do believe that the entire 7.1 billion population of humans should speak words based upon what their own feelings want and demand and insist.

sadder somehow could not exist.

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:17 PM


as picky as one self is about what others do and speak, is precisley equally how picky one should allow others to be about what one self do and what one self can say.

no wonder those who live on one way streets in their minds live on dead ends.


Thanks for the wise words, but personally, I live on a cul-de-sac.


It works as a[nother] visual to direct and remind others to "move along". biggrin











uh, a cul de sac is a dead end.

smiles

oh my oh my, how some do immerse them self in them self.

davidben1's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:19 PM
oh the brilliance of mind and words doth blot out the sun and moon.

mrld_ii's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:21 PM
Edited by mrld_ii on Sun 11/02/14 07:24 PM



as picky as one self is about what others do and speak, is precisley equally how picky one should allow others to be about what one self do and what one self can say.

no wonder those who live on one way streets in their minds live on dead ends.


Thanks for the wise words, but personally, I live on a cul-de-sac.


It works as a[nother] visual to direct and remind others to "move along". biggrin











uh, a cul de sac is a dead end.

smiles

oh my oh my, how some do immerse them self in them self.



Nahhhh...a cul-de-sac has a circular end to it...designed to give others enough room to turn around, heading back from whence they came.


YOU know.


Continue to enjoy your self-immersion withOUT my continued participation; frankly, it's just not interesting enough for me to continue TO engage.

waving






bashajones's photo
Sun 11/02/14 07:23 PM
Can we get some popcorn in here? Anyone?