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Topic: Is it About Sex Or Wanting Love Is Obselete?
2Fly4Wings38's photo
Sat 01/17/15 08:29 AM
Edited by 2Fly4Wings38 on Sat 01/17/15 08:48 AM
Okay, I'm back with another topic for your Brains....
Now lets say you live in a big city like New York, Philadelphia, los Angeles, Chicago, or even Miami, & you single rather you seeking dating, just friends, or relationship ,sexual encounters hell even marriage. Do people today want love anymore or is it about a casual sex. Don't get me wrong I like great sex, I like to date for the hopes to elevate to something more special but the politics of dating today seems far more " Play by Ear" or" Lets Have sex then we can talk about us being together". So what I want to know is "Is Love still factor today or casual sex is the new courting,( example we just have fun then we see if we compatible or if its not broken don't fix it mentality?". Give me your thoughts on this one ( oh Shot outs to all who living this topic....)

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 01/17/15 08:32 AM
Humm I prefer love with great sex........bigsmile

2Fly4Wings38's photo
Sat 01/17/15 08:47 AM
Edited by 2Fly4Wings38 on Sat 01/17/15 08:54 AM
wow, I agree I like good sex with our relationships....lol. What it be nice if you can date someone and have the great sex, a relationship and role play like we just met and your loved one would meet a sleezy bar and you take them home for a sexual encounter & afterwards you became together during the role play....lol

justme659's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:02 AM
Personally I think and hope it is about mutual respect. Both parties working towards developing the best intimacy for the relationship

tanyaann's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:02 AM
Edited by tanyaann on Sat 01/17/15 09:03 AM
I think technology is the new "liquid courage" where people do and say things they wouldn't before. After exchanging a few emails people think it's okay to jump in the sack. And, with less social interactions, this will only get worse.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:07 AM
Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE...

I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE!

tanyaann's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:08 AM

Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE...

I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE!


:thumbsup:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:13 AM

Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE...

I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE!


Nothing better.....:thumbsup:

bashajones's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:15 AM

Okay, I'm back with another topic for your Brains....
Now lets say you live in a big city like New York, Philadelphia, los Angeles, Chicago, or even Miami, & you single rather you seeking dating, just friends, or relationship ,sexual encounters hell even marriage. Do people today want love anymore or is it about a casual sex. Don't get me wrong I like great sex, I like to date for the hopes to elevate to something more special but the politics of dating today seems far more " Play by Ear" or" Lets Have sex then we can talk about us being together". So what I want to know is "Is Love still factor today or casual sex is the new courting,( example we just have fun then we see if we compatible or if its not broken don't fix it mentality?". Give me your thoughts on this one ( oh Shot outs to all who living this topic....)


I think the problem today is that people overthink things. Example: Your OP was a little lengthy for me to read. lol

laugh :tongue: laugh :tongue: laugh

2Fly4Wings38's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:17 AM
personally I agree with you, its always should be about love & respect for your union. so do think love is here to stay in today's world. I know before I got with my girlfriend, dating was tuff. its almost seemed like every girl I wanted to meet online was just on some other things...so I been there...now I have the love balance & its even yoked ...

2Fly4Wings38's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:22 AM
I totally agree!

msharmony's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:22 AM
I wouldn't mind love

I can take or leave sex,,,been left for a while now in fact,,,laugh

2Fly4Wings38's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:26 AM
Edited by 2Fly4Wings38 on Sat 01/17/15 09:27 AM
okay, love is where it at.....I want both....love & sex it goes together like a Plate of greens & Fried Chicken....lol

no1phD's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:32 AM
Hmm.. can I just say I" love sex"..
. isn't that a form of love!..
:angel:

2Fly4Wings38's photo
Sat 01/17/15 09:33 AM
can be ....lol
I like risky sex at a place where is a chance to get caught....then again I like private too.....
then again I want to love my girl with great sex.....is that being greedy...lol

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 01/17/15 10:10 AM
I suspect that some people are obsessed with sex because they use it as a drug.

m3k4y's photo
Sat 01/17/15 10:13 AM
I love to make love...with my love..lol..sounds sexier. ..bigsmile

dreamerana's photo
Sat 01/17/15 10:06 PM
many people choose sex because they think it's easier.
me, I prefer a lasting love

jacktrades's photo
Sat 01/17/15 11:03 PM
When I was younger if it was just sex it did not matter much to me but at this point in my life I am looking for that true love romance. Sex is so much better when its with someone you love.

no photo
Sun 01/18/15 07:33 AM

Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE...

I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE!

This.

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