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Topic: love or sex
SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 04/11/15 01:43 PM
as much as i like sex. i like the whole other topic more. so how do we change the topic rains? Hi Eric. I personally have and will hold out for the other before I am unzipping these jeans... I an a greedy woman I want it all.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Sat 04/11/15 01:45 PM
Erm ... there's a difference between 'right now' and 'in general'... Tough question if you separate the two ... you can have great sex without love, but great love without sex ... would be rather unacceptable... I would of course like to find love, the right match, my own Prince Charming.. preferably one that looks good in leathers and hopefully get both great love & great sex... leathers? wow I haven�t thought of it, Crystal. Now I won�t be able to sleep I know the problem ... Counting sheep should help, but all I get is men in leathers...

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Sat 04/11/15 01:48 PM
as much as i like sex. i like the whole other topic more. so how do we change the topic rains? Hi Eric. I personally have and will hold out for the other before I am unzipping these jeans... I an a greedy woman I want it all. and why shouldn't we want it all???

Ladythelma Joined Sat 03/22/14 Posts: 596	Sat 04/11/15 01:52 PM
For me love first then sex

Omesk Joined Fri 02/28/14 Posts: 140	Sat 04/11/15 02:36 PM
Both sex and love are important but the love is the basic while sex without love is just vain

Omesk Joined Fri 02/28/14 Posts: 140	Sat 04/11/15 02:42 PM
Here we go again. I'm gonna kill my laptop. love is blind

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 04/11/15 02:47 PM
Yes here we go again.....how many times must a thread titled this continue without being deleted for running its course....hahahahaha.... No freaking comment...hehe Ohhh why haven't we had a thread titled "love"...in at least 12 hours....????

Naismith007 Joined Sat 04/04/15 Posts: 4	Sat 04/11/15 02:47 PM
Love comes before sex. love grows and spread, then sex interfere

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Sat 04/11/15 08:58 PM
My plan going forward, is interesting communication -->general attraction-->establish respect-->like a lot--> love and sex in an appropriate mix. I tried sex without love a long while back, and discovered it's not for me.

KTM lover boy Joined Fri 04/10/15 Posts: 2	Sat 04/11/15 09:08 PM
Oh. ..yes . that's correct. ..or m accepted

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Sat 04/11/15 09:16 PM
neither without the other

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 04/12/15 03:40 AM


Kaustuv1 Joined Thu 03/27/14 Posts: 4365	Sun 04/12/15 03:51 AM
What is important to in your life love or sex. ..? First people have to learn the difference. 'Lovely Observation'!

Kaustuv1 Joined Thu 03/27/14 Posts: 4365	Sun 04/12/15 03:53 AM
If I were to go by 'Set Theory', I'd infer: "LOVE is the super set- SEX is a mere subset."

ronmustangs Joined Sat 12/06/14 Posts: 2	Sun 04/12/15 10:48 AM
Sex is physical, love come's from the heart

ronmustangs Joined Sat 12/06/14 Posts: 2	Sun 04/12/15 10:48 AM
Sex is physical, love come's from the heart

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sun 04/12/15 01:09 PM
as much as i like sex. i like the whole other topic more. so how do we change the topic rains? Hi Eric. I personally have and will hold out for the other before I am unzipping these jeans... I an a greedy woman I want it all. and why shouldn't we want it all??? That is why I was single for so long...

T0N1QUE Joined Sat 04/11/15 Posts: 2	Sun 04/12/15 01:15 PM
you can have sex and likeit or leave it..but when you love someone you don't want to leave and eventually the sex will come

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 04/12/15 02:54 PM
Ok. Let's all get real here. I believe we will all agree that love is the ultimate goal. Having great sex mixed in with love will be totally awesome. I mean....who in their right mind wouldn't want THAT kind of combo. However, for each of us, love has a different definition. Think of it that way. There are certain kinds of foods that I like, and I like to have them a certain way. I love my steak cooked medium. Some may want it raw or well done. I don't want my burgers with everything on them while some will. When it comes to love, some people need tons of affection and therefore they will seek out a person who can reciprocate that. Some may want a more sexual partner in order to fall in love. Doesn't mean they are shallow. It just means that a person know what they want and are honest about it (which is a totally different thread topic, lol). Some people will want to find a person who can be a bit detached but in a weird way they "complete" them. Sex is....well....sex. Sex with love is awesome. However sex for just sex isn't bad and it still feels good. You still feel some sort of connection with a sexual partner (fwb if you will) because sexually you find that person attractive and they make you feel good. Doesn't mean you can or will love them. Just means you have awesome sex with that person.

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Sun 04/12/15 03:13 PM
If I waited for love I think I could be declared a virgin again.