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Topic: love or sex
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 04/12/15 03:25 PM
If I waited for love I think I could be declared a virgin again. Giving new meaning to the phrase "Born again" eh?

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Sun 04/12/15 03:52 PM
If I waited for love I think I could be declared a virgin again. Giving new meaning to the phrase "Born again" eh? Fortunately, I can't be considered "Born again". haha

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sun 04/12/15 04:53 PM
Love is most important. .jmo

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 04/12/15 04:55 PM
Oh come on 2Kids.....you ruin all the fun....I mean...I wanna sex up a ton of the ladies here.....I'm just more subtle about it.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sun 04/12/15 04:57 PM
Oh come on 2Kids.....you ruin all the fun....I mean...I wanna sex up a ton of the ladies here.....I'm just more subtle about it.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 04/12/15 05:01 PM
Love sex...hmm .. give me pain.. give me crazy desire.. .. give me lustful. yearning .and wants.... give me mind blowing pleasure.... give me craving you deeply..mmm. give me so sore.. I can't walk two days after...... .. keep your love and sex.. ..... I much prefer my way of doing things..

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 04/12/15 08:58 PM
Ok. Let's all get real here. I believe we will all agree that love is the ultimate goal. Having great sex mixed in with love will be totally awesome. I mean....who in their right mind wouldn't want THAT kind of combo. However, for each of us, love has a different definition. Think of it that way. There are certain kinds of foods that I like, and I like to have them a certain way. I love my steak cooked medium. Some may want it raw or well done. I don't want my burgers with everything on them while some will. When it comes to love, some people need tons of affection and therefore they will seek out a person who can reciprocate that. Some may want a more sexual partner in order to fall in love. Doesn't mean they are shallow. It just means that a person know what they want and are honest about it (which is a totally different thread topic, lol). Some people will want to find a person who can be a bit detached but in a weird way they "complete" them. Sex is....well....sex. Sex with love is awesome. However sex for just sex isn't bad and it still feels good. You still feel some sort of connection with a sexual partner (fwb if you will) because sexually you find that person attractive and they make you feel good. Doesn't mean you can or will love them. Just means you have awesome sex with that person. It may be a female thing but I get attached and it's hard for me to separate love from lust when I care about a person. You give a piece of your soul when you connect with someone intimately. That's why I really need to care about the man before I give myself to him. I can't have meaningless sex and enjoy it. I would feel empty and cheap.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sun 04/12/15 09:04 PM
What is important to in your life love or sex. ..? Those are my only 2 choices???...

dothis91 Joined Sat 04/11/15 Posts: 41	Sun 04/12/15 09:14 PM
I believe one thing will lead to some thing

dothis91 Joined Sat 04/11/15 Posts: 41	Sun 04/12/15 09:17 PM
U killed the game...I think 85% of ladies need dating and relationship...so go park go

dothis91 Joined Sat 04/11/15 Posts: 41	Sun 04/12/15 09:19 PM
I can help things out ma'am

dothis91 Joined Sat 04/11/15 Posts: 41	Sun 04/12/15 09:23 PM


dothis91 Joined Sat 04/11/15 Posts: 41	Sun 04/12/15 09:26 PM
Love sex...hmm .. give me pain.. give me crazy desire.. .. give me lustful. yearning .and wants.... give me mind blowing pleasure.... give me craving you deeply..mmm. give me so sore.. I can't walk two days after...... .. keep your love and sex.. ..... I much prefer my way of doing things.. u have a sweet mind and sexy spirit

ShaluKapur Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 1	Sun 04/12/15 10:15 PM
Love i sfooling each other.. sex is fun.. enjoyment and relaxation.. I need good and healthy sex

justaskmeifuwannano Joined Fri 04/10/15 Posts: 31	Sun 04/12/15 10:16 PM
love is most important sex just gets confused for love

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sun 04/12/15 10:32 PM
It may be a female thing but I get attached and it's hard for me to separate love from lust when I care about a person. You give a piece of your soul when you connect with someone intimately. Exactly... that is why I would rather go through a dry spell..

JupiterRising7 Joined Sat 04/06/13 Posts: 4	Sun 04/12/15 10:55 PM
Nothing wrong with being attracted to someone, liking them ad enjoying sex together. One of life's greatest pleasures and u end up feeling very intimate with someone as a result many times. Doesn't have to be an "either or" question. Having said that, making Love to someone u are in Love with --words barely describe. -That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.

rajputdheeraj Joined Tue 04/14/15 Posts: 1	Tue 04/14/15 10:22 PM
Love matters the most but sex is also important

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