Yes you need to ask a question.

That is very much what end stage caregiving feels like Ruth. Your cup is drained and you are just on auto pilot not knowing if you will crash into a mountain or finally be able to fly over it. The helpless feelings do erode even the strongest but as the burden passes so will the faith return and I would read it the sticks finally become more tied together to form shelter for a new home life. I found the ones that do not step up in the process of loosing a parent become even more worthless later and it is easier to forget them.

This relationship has a good foundation but what is lacking is more honest and open communication about what you both need. Needs can only be met when the other party is aware of those needs. If you need reassuring about something you need to tell him. It's not a sign of weakness or desperation to want your man to tell you he's going to take care of you. I think that by telling him your fears you will find he had fears of his own that he would like to talk about and this is a good opportunity to grow closer together.

Also you need to focus less on exactly how things will work out (they will) and more on having some fun together. A lot of fun.

(((((Ruth))))))Thank you

Thank you.

No one can be a full time caregiver without the risk of becoming completely drained leaving an empty shell. Caregivers need to be sure they take extra good care of themselves.

true dat.
true dat.
true dat.



(worth repeating. )

Thank you again Ruth! I love this stuff! What do I have to do find this, do I have to move or change my career?

Thanks

Bonus card I pulled for Sherrie.

Nope. Just be patient.

Because tequila gives me telekinesis!

I think I did a few too many readings today and gave myself a headache.

Peace out Mingle Peeps. Remember, you are awesome!

Feel free to continue leaving questions. I'll be back. (Said Terminator-style)

Ruth, would you happen to have the winning lottery numbers because I really want the Acura TL.

Morning ((( Ruth )))

Thanks again for offering your time, knowledge and energy, reading cards for free...

I like this. It also makes a lot of sense. It's like describe a typical routine day, sharing it with someone you love.

Hi Ruth, Whenever you are ready I'd like to ask a quick question out of curiosity....

Any chance of travel for me in the next 12 months?

Thank you. Much appreciated and don't wear yourself out.

Morning ((((Storm))))

Hi Ruth..when you are ready. Here are the questions.

Am I making the right decision regarding my nephew?
Do you see a road trip ahead?

Thank you

I'll do more readings throughout the day.

Here's a little Tarot tip:

If your reading does not make immediate sense to you, take some time to just "sit" with it. It may become clearer to you in the following days or weeks.

One time I got a Tarot reading and I dismissed it immediately because the reader talked about my "husband". Well I wasn't married. I was discussing the reading with my mom and sister who pointed out that the reading made perfect sense and that the "husband" was my ex whom I am still raising children with. They were right. The reading was completely accurate and helped me a lot once I realized this fact.

As a reader it can be difficult to put all the information you're getting into paragraph form that the querent will immediately understand. So, don't immediately discount what you hear. Some of the details may be wrong or slightly off, but the underlying message is probably useful for you.