Topic: Men turn into wimps when they get married
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Mon 05/18/15 01:15 PM

The more time men spend with women the more effeminate and weak they will become. It's just a fact. I see it all the time. Men shopping for tampax and pushing prams etc. These men have lost their sense of shame.


And Red sits back & laughs at his sexist bait thread. drinker

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Mon 05/18/15 01:19 PM
Obvious baiter thread but I find it interesting..how many come in to agree with itbigsmile

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Mon 05/18/15 01:20 PM

how about if she had ran out of tampax and needed then now, and she couldn't go to the shop herself for obvious reasons?


i would say she wasn't very good at planning ahead... not like she didn't know she was going to need them sooner or later...

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Mon 05/18/15 01:21 PM

Obvious baiter thread but I find it interesting..how many come in to agree with itbigsmile


baiter thread or not, it has a lot of truth to it...

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Mon 05/18/15 01:23 PM


how about if she had ran out of tampax and needed then now, and she couldn't go to the shop herself for obvious reasons?


i would say she wasn't very good at planning ahead... not like she didn't know she was going to need them sooner or later...


that's true lol laugh . but would you get them then?

hi moe btw flowerforyou

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Mon 05/18/15 01:24 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Mon 05/18/15 01:27 PM


All I am going to say before you open your mouth look at the bigger picture. Understand why?
To me that is helping your woman and that is one of the things that makes a man a real man.

:angry:



lol, go get your own feminine needs... just because you have a husband doesn't make him your delivery boy... i would never ask my wife to go get personal crap for me, i can go shopping just like yall can...


Don't stone me but there is a shred of common sense to what he is saying. Buying some of your own personal items are just keeping some things in the personal realm and the romance alive; even being adult. It is hard to respect someone you make your fetch person or worse your nurse as in providing products for bodily functions.

You live with someone intimately it doesn't hurt to know what various products are preferred or used for or even needed it is just not something you really want to, or need to , be involved with in the usual circumstances. Keeping a few things out of sight and using them discreetly keeps a little of the romance going.

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Mon 05/18/15 01:27 PM
Edited by mightymoe on Mon 05/18/15 01:29 PM



how about if she had ran out of tampax and needed then now, and she couldn't go to the shop herself for obvious reasons?


i would say she wasn't very good at planning ahead... not like she didn't know she was going to need them sooner or later...


that's true lol laugh . but would you get them then?

hi moe btw flowerforyou


once, maybe twice... but i won't make a habit of it...

waving flowers

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Mon 05/18/15 01:31 PM




how about if she had ran out of tampax and needed then now, and she couldn't go to the shop herself for obvious reasons?


i would say she wasn't very good at planning ahead... not like she didn't know she was going to need them sooner or later...


that's true lol laugh . but would you get them then?

hi moe btw flowerforyou


once, maybe twice... but i won't make a habit of it...

waving flowers


awwwwwwww. flowerforyou

thanks for the flowers :smile: smooched bigsmile

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Mon 05/18/15 01:31 PM
Hell's bells...of course people can shop for themselves but isn't a relationship a partnership? Ya know...do something nice for the other? Doesn't make anyone weak. That is ridiculous.

Have guys ever had cramps? Some people get sick with them and even black out on occasion.

Even if a woman doesn't...it's a nice thing to do. Just like a woman taking care of a man when he has the sniffles. Many men act like they are on their death bed. I would hate to see guys give birth or have periods laugh . No wait...I would like to see that

I think it says more about a man that can't handle picking up tampons laugh . A secure man wouldn't think anything of it. He will pick some up along with bread and milk

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Mon 05/18/15 01:33 PM


Obvious baiter thread but I find it interesting..how many come in to agree with itbigsmile


baiter thread or not, it has a lot of truth to it...


Mo, you know I adore you ... But I honestly see both sides here, let's take the feminine items off the table..Which I have to agree I would never dream of asking a man to pick these up for me anymore than I would pick up salve to stop jock strap itch just not going to happen. Somethings said person needs to buy IMO...

I personally don't believe marriage or cohabitating makes a man a wimp if he is a wimp he already was one... Pushing a pram for the life of me that has not sexuality to it.. You both made that baby so no biggie... On this one guys suck it up change the diaper and move on.

I happen to have fallen in love with a man I dont' want to take any part of his maleness away nor do I want to have him take any part of my womanliness away from me. In saying that, he can cook as well as I can, he washes dishes better than I can and I have better power tools than he does.
Does that make him a wimp and me a guy...Nope
just a smart couple that uses each others assets to the fullest.

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Mon 05/18/15 01:34 PM

Hell's bells...of course people can shop for themselves but isn't a relationship a partnership? Ya know...do something nice for the other? Doesn't make anyone weak. That is ridiculous.

Have guys ever had cramps? Some people get sick with them and even black out on occasion.

Even if a woman doesn't...it's a nice thing to do. Just like a woman taking care of a man when he has the sniffles. Many men act like they are on their death bed. I would hate to see guys give birth or have periods laugh . No wait...I would like to see that

I think it says more about a man that can't handle picking up tampons laugh . A secure man wouldn't think anything of it. He will pick some up along with bread and milk


your not married now, so what do you when you have these cramps?

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Mon 05/18/15 01:36 PM
Dude...when I was a teenage boy I used to get embarrassed to go to the store and buy condoms....and buying condoms for a teenage boy is like a signal that you are about to get some....which should have made me do that old "Oh What a feeling...Toyota" jump. Maybe I was just too "feminine" and not man enough to admit I was about to get laid? :tongue: laugh

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Mon 05/18/15 01:37 PM



Obvious baiter thread but I find it interesting..how many come in to agree with itbigsmile


baiter thread or not, it has a lot of truth to it...


Mo, you know I adore you ... But I honestly see both sides here, let's take the feminine items off the table..Which I have to agree I would never dream of asking a man to pick these up for me anymore than I would pick up salve to stop jock strap itch just not going to happen. Somethings said person needs to buy IMO...

I personally don't believe marriage or cohabitating makes a man a wimp if he is a wimp he already was one... Pushing a pram for the life of me that has not sexuality to it.. You both made that baby so no biggie... On this one guys suck it up change the diaper and move on.

I happen to have fallen in love with a man I dont' want to take any part of his maleness away nor do I want to have him take any part of my womanliness away from me. In saying that, he can cook as well as I can, he washes dishes better than I can and I have better power tools than he does.
Does that make him a wimp and me a guy...Nope
just a smart couple that uses each others assets to the fullest.


my whole point is that when your not married, you would have to do these things for yourself.. so what i'm hearing here is that when people are married, they lose that self support they once had? what changed since getting married?

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Mon 05/18/15 01:40 PM
A secure man wouldn't think anything of it.

He might not but I would... I honestly think there are some things that should be private. And this is one of them

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Mon 05/18/15 01:40 PM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Mon 05/18/15 01:40 PM


Hell's bells...of course people can shop for themselves but isn't a relationship a partnership? Ya know...do something nice for the other? Doesn't make anyone weak. That is ridiculous.

Have guys ever had cramps? Some people get sick with them and even black out on occasion.

Even if a woman doesn't...it's a nice thing to do. Just like a woman taking care of a man when he has the sniffles. Many men act like they are on their death bed. I would hate to see guys give birth or have periods laugh . No wait...I would like to see that

I think it says more about a man that can't handle picking up tampons laugh . A secure man wouldn't think anything of it. He will pick some up along with bread and milk


your not married now, so what do you when you have these cramps?


I do stock up but if there was an emergency, my kid is secure enough to get them (and has before)

Are tampons really that scary to men?

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Mon 05/18/15 01:40 PM


All I am going to say before you open your mouth look at the bigger picture. Understand why?
To me that is helping your woman and that is one of the things that makes a man a real man.

:angry:



lol, go get your own feminine needs... just because you have a husband doesn't make him your delivery boy... i would never ask my wife to go get personal crap for me, i can go shopping just like yall can...


The only time my husband brought them was when i couldn't leave the house and that was after using the three damn packets I had within two weeks. I ended up in hospital.
I was always prepared but sometimes life throws a curve ball.
This is what I was meaning by the bigger picture.
Sorry for coming across angry.

TMommy's photo
Mon 05/18/15 01:41 PM
I'd be more worried that he would bring home wrong damn onesbigsmile

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 05/18/15 01:43 PM

A secure man wouldn't think anything of it.

He might not but I would... I honestly think there are some things that should be private. And this is one of them


I guess I don't think of it that way. It's a natural thing like buying toilet paper to wipe your butt. I do my shopping any way and always have but things happen. Just like I take care of a guy when they aren't well (even had to clean the bathroom after) why shouldn't they do something to help a woman.

I don't see how it's a big deal. I think men and women know about periods

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Mon 05/18/15 01:45 PM



All I am going to say before you open your mouth look at the bigger picture. Understand why?
To me that is helping your woman and that is one of the things that makes a man a real man.

:angry:



lol, go get your own feminine needs... just because you have a husband doesn't make him your delivery boy... i would never ask my wife to go get personal crap for me, i can go shopping just like yall can...


The only time my husband brought them was when i couldn't leave the house and that was after using the three damn packets I had within two weeks. I ended up in hospital.
I was always prepared but sometimes life throws a curve ball.
This is what I was meaning by the bigger picture.
Sorry for coming across angry.



i was under the impression that he was talking about an "all the time" occurrence on this... helping out is one thing, all the time is another...

mightymoe's photo
Mon 05/18/15 01:47 PM



Hell's bells...of course people can shop for themselves but isn't a relationship a partnership? Ya know...do something nice for the other? Doesn't make anyone weak. That is ridiculous.

Have guys ever had cramps? Some people get sick with them and even black out on occasion.

Even if a woman doesn't...it's a nice thing to do. Just like a woman taking care of a man when he has the sniffles. Many men act like they are on their death bed. I would hate to see guys give birth or have periods laugh . No wait...I would like to see that

I think it says more about a man that can't handle picking up tampons laugh . A secure man wouldn't think anything of it. He will pick some up along with bread and milk


your not married now, so what do you when you have these cramps?


I do stock up but if there was an emergency, my kid is secure enough to get them (and has before)

Are tampons really that scary to men?


i can't speak for all men, but yea, to me... i never heard a woman ask a guy to buy her makeup or underware for her, this should be the same..