Craving for a parfait rite now.

I didn't say parfait; I said Nature Valley..

Is it possible LOVE AND MARRIAGE between an artist and a professional person in science or technical field??

Do you think it would work?

Is it possible LOVE AND MARRIAGE between an artist and a professional person in science or technical field??

Do you think it would work?

Depends on if the the artist only draws pictures of Scooby Doo..

I'm big on the WHY's of things.

What I find makes relationships between SEEMINGLY very different people work well, is that the reasons WHY they came to have whatever labels they do, are where the similarities are to be found.

For possible example:

both serious science and serious art, are all about the exact same thing: discovering, identifying, and conveying to yourself and others, what is at the heart, the essence of existence. Mutual excitement over this same discovery process and expression, could very well make an Einstein fall mutually in love with a Monroe.

Well ... to be honest .. I ain't too sure about it. Being an artist and having lived with a 'science' type...

Artists are a typical kind of people. Usually impulsive, emotional, intuitive, spontaneous and maybe even moody. When they're doing their thing, they can need/require an awful lot of personal space and freedom. Can seem to be on another planet entirely.
They live from the heart.

So called "science" people usually live from the head, and this is often difficult to combine with someone who lives from the heart. Chances are high they won't really understand each other and won't be able to fulfill each other's needs in life.

At first it might work great, opposites attract. But I think in the long run it's likely to cause a lot of friction and misunderstanding.
For instance, the 'head' person coming home from work, wanting food on the table only to find the 'heart' person on another planet because he/she is painting/writing/doing their artistic thing, and not giving a chit about food, because he/she has a sudden inspiration to create ...

I'm big on the WHY's of things.

What I find makes relationships between SEEMINGLY very different people work well, is that the reasons WHY they came to have whatever labels they do, are where the similarities are to be found.

For possible example:

both serious science and serious art, are all about the exact same thing: discovering, identifying, and conveying to yourself and others, what is at the heart, the essence of existence. Mutual excitement over this same discovery process and expression, could very well make an Einstein fall mutually in love with a Monroe.

I could just see the kids. Monroe's face with Einstein's hair. If that mental image doesn't make you laugh I don't know what will.

The problem with that idea is that girls tend to inherit their looks from their fathers.

I'm big on the WHY's of things.

What I find makes relationships between SEEMINGLY very different people work well, is that the reasons WHY they came to have whatever labels they do, are where the similarities are to be found.

For possible example:

both serious science and serious art, are all about the exact same thing: discovering, identifying, and conveying to yourself and others, what is at the heart, the essence of existence. Mutual excitement over this same discovery process and expression, could very well make an Einstein fall mutually in love with a Monroe.

I like your comment; it has a lot of sense//thank you//

Why do you think it couldn't work?

And what exactly do you mean by "work?"

People build and continue the relationships that work best for them.
Not according to some idealized relationship definition printed in a book, or how a majority of people think a relationship "should" be.

I feel safe in saying that 99.99% of the time if one person has an idea of how a relationship "should" be and then demands, expects, or manipulates another person to try and live up to their one sided idea then it's not going to work.


Of course. It seems obvious.
Because foremost above any and all things people are human beings. Not artists or scientists or professionals.

People are made to love each other more so than to be scientists or artists.

Otherwise a lot of people in the far past would be royally screwed.

Maybe that's what all those cave paintings in France really mean.
Those artists were just sad that scientists and professionals in a technical field hadn't been invented yet so they could never find a mate.