Presumably, at least 'some', do it
for the same reason I do.

Just because I email a woman,
doesn't mean I want to bone her,
or even date her.

Most often, I'll send an email,
in regard to a post I found interesting.

The cheek of men thinking they can change a womans preference .No woman has ever changed her mind before .

It makes me wonder what they are looking for in a woman two or three times their age. What is wrong with them, that they are not into women nearer their own age? I would feel strange dating a man younger than my sons. Maybe a few years younger than myself, but not 20 years younger. But, to each their own. Perhaps it's about money or else perhaps a challenge. I use the filters available on this site. Makes it easier all around.

I do that a lot I write if I write an older lady defying her age restrictions its not because I didn't see it its cos I like her and would wona know her , care for her treat her like she would wona be treated so haven made up my mind to do this I give her an opportunity a chance to be loved by messaging her its up to her to take it and be happy or trow it away and keep chasing the wind...the age you may have scrapped out of your list may be where your searched result or dream is....no one can tell age is just numbers, love can ride on the ridges of age without knowing its ridged or rough.....but if the age gap is too much run!!!! 2 tyms older is wrong even 10years older too but it depends on love as for me no way... DONT QUOTE ME ON THIS OKEY?

1. they didn't read the profile.

I have had men say things about my profile & photos that make it very clear they did not read it. So some are probably scammers who do that.

2. your preferences are not as important to them as their own ego

naturally disliking pushy types of people, the "let's see if she'll change her mind" approach just leaves a bad impression. It's immature to be so egotistical.

exceptions would be people who I have known for a long time on here who I talk w/ now & then. Or someone messaging about something in the threads.

They believe in the magic of "trying".

H, I AM INTERESTED...PLZ SMS MY MAIL...

never know till you ask... if you don't try, it won't happen...

yeah right

Cause when Goof wants something, he goes for it.

See what I am saying?they never read...haahaa all women should just say wanted: male out of diapers and not yet back in them again and the rest? Depends

Maybe they believe in tossing a larger net, maybe they believe that they may be the exception to the rule. Every man thinks he is more than he is, yet many think they are less than they are, so they reach beyond what they are told they can reach. Then when it doesn't work, they can say that the other person didn't want to open their boundries. Men believe they are bigger than they are, yet don't know how far they can reach.

Oh I read. I just don't give a chit.

I have had 2 recent messages telling me how pretty I am by men who have never seen me. Clearly it would take 2 seconds to discern that I do not have a photo on here.

How can such men think they will get a response, or complain when they do not get one? (sometimes I do respond just to mess with them) lol

mostly they are wasting their time and mine , though not mine to as great a degree. But the annoyance factor runs high and it's a good indication of a person who is selfish and won't be sensitive to the needs of their partner, inconsiderate - only caring about what they want.

not someone most women on here are going to encourage