I'm looking for female perverts-lolol

Yes, I agree before things go too far one should acertain if they are real or fake.

No, Just a moderator on another site much bigger than this one. When you are a moderator, you learn about people. Guys moan and groan all the time saying there are more men than there are women. It's only in numbers. Just this past week I sent 22 male profiles to administration for them to deal with. I can't say too much about it. All I will say, they were real winners. By the end of the month, I will handle anywhere between 200 to 300 profiles of really nasty guys.

When you see what I see almost every day, well, it's like I said, it's only in numbers. When you get right down to it, for every one guy that is dating material, there is 50 to 70 that are not. Hate to say it, but it's the truth. dating sites attract some really messed up people. For every one woman that is reported for being perverted some kind of way, Well, in one month I may get 5 to maybe 10, usually less, perverted women reported that I have to handle. The amount of men is way higher. And I am not the only moderator. There are 7 of us right now.

You may not believe it, but the amount of men that will post pictures of themselves fully nude and fully erect. And honestly think that it's OK. And some get really upset because their profile was deleted. Women on large dating sites have very slim pickings. Some know it. Some don't. All I can say is like I already said, there is not really that many real datable men on dating sites. At least larger ones. I don't know about here.

lol

I could have told you that. As a matter of fact, let's broaden that even more. There are not that many real datable men. Period

Well, I really didn't want to say that. But at the same time I can't argue with it. If what I see when I'm online is any indication of what's out there in the real world, I feel sorry for decent men and women. From what I see, You have about as good of a chance on dating sites of finding a good match, Someone you can stay with the rest of your life, as you do of winning the lotto.

I say it also depends on possibly the day or night ... seems I see both a bout equal sometimes but some men more and then some more of women ... matter of who is on that time... men or then women ...

Aside from the group the opposite sex considers desirable, you also have to look at the active members. I see a lot of profiles that have been inactive for a long time.

If you look at your matches that are online at any given time of day or night, the numbers are very few.

When you weed out the fakes, you get into the single digits. There are a lot of fakes on here and also on the mainstream sites such as Match, etc.

Overall, my conversations with women and men who have tried online dating indicates the women have the pick of the litter and the men not so much. Women get a lot more email and messages but many from undesirable men. Men don't get many women making the first move. I think we are still guided by the old fashion rules where women suffer from the Madonna/Whore syndrome. If they make the first move, they think they will be perceived as easy.

I can see why many men have low self-esteem when attempting to date online. You think there are qualities in your favor as mentioned by many women, but in the end, as for both men and women, it comes down strictly to looks in the online dating world. You have to somehow message like a marketing program with images that strike a fancy.

Online dating misses the initial human interaction where a lot of overt and subliminal information is being exchanged. Pheromones don't get exchanged by keyboard.

In general, aren't more women than men verbal and better communicating through words? A lot of men just want to share as little as possible, and say women overshare. lol Early on here I have tried to initiate conversations, but now I feel that I want a guy to write to me. I don't know if there are more women than men, just different communicating.

I messaged matutum for fun, but he has a strict idea for who will message him. OK.

friggin great I don't even play the lotto

mmmmm online dating sites broaden the sheer amount of people that you may come in contact with


so for example..say you went out in your own town to a nice restaurant or upscale bar or mixer

you would meet say twenty or so people who live close to you
who could afford to eat at that restaurant or buy those drinks at 8 bucks a shot


say you went to your cousin's wedding reception in another state
you might meet and dance with quite a few people who do not live in your area


online is like a wedding reception that includes most of United States, Canada and all over the world


but you really have no idea what kind of family they are from, where they like to go out to eat or drink at or what kind of person they are

so ..it's probably gonna take a lot of weeding out if ya know what I mean

always a safe answer.

I think many of the women are men (judging from some extremely vague, complimentary, transparent, enticing emails). Thank goodness for the forums.

Women are more verbal but the content can often be expressed more concisely. Women tend to, in my experience, add a lot more narrative and introduce a lot of peripheral information to bolster their point of view.

I also think both men and women filter their information just like companies and job applicants do during an interview.

It seems that certain subjects and preferences such as sex and sexual preferences, money, religion, general biases, to name a few are difficult to discuss for most people.

The 3 questions still remain: What do you want? What don't you want? Why?

So...

Women talk more

No full disclosure

Discussing sex, religion or money, not cool

I may or may not agree or disagree with part or all of that statement

Well ya know what they say darl'in, if ya can't dazzle'em with your brilliance....baffle'em with your bulls**t.

Remember that next term come exam time.



wait, what was this thread about? Flips back....reads.....mmm.mmmm.mmm.mmmmmmm.mmmm.

Oh Yeah, I have no idea.

now how ya think I made the dean's list three years running?


sometimes I know the answer
sometimes I just sound like I do

Well heck girl, you're ready for your PhD

Piled higher and deeper.

More scammers than anything. Whether male or female, they f*ckin need a life