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I'm sure we have all done this at one point.. but women have made an art of it..
. You know!!.. they message you! you message them back !.this goes on for a week.. you do the meet and greet.. it feels right it goes good.. you sleep with them..ok.. you!! don't sleep with them, you go out on several more dates than you sleep with them..lol.. .. and now the waiting game begins.. Typically I will message them right after intimacy. .. but on the rare occasion when I get busy and do not!!.. .and then She does not send me a message..!! So now I play the waiting game.. Two to three days later.. she will message me.... insert example of message..lol You have not messaged me I thought you were special different I thought we were to going to have a relationship.. To which I reply.. but baby I've been busy sorry.. and I thought you were special too.. so why didn't you message me then.. earlier..hmm... Dating it is such a double edged sword..   .... so do you play the waiting game.. who's going to make the first and next move. After intimacy.hmm.. again women have made an art of this one... it's some kind of weird test..lmao... you know!! like the .. does my *** look big in these jeans... test..wink Which I typically answer with.. no baby your *** is perfect just the jeans are two sizes too small..wink wink Now remember not everything I post is a true representation of myself.. how I conduct myself offline... it's more of a .. slightly skewed facsimile.... okay I am a dog though.. |
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Edited by
CallMeMB
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Thu 10/08/15 08:52 AM
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*Woof*
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Meow.
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So .. if it's not a real situation, not about you ...
how much does Mingle pay you to post these topics to spice things up? Are there more vacancies?  Okay, let's get serious here ... Why do you point fingers --> women play the waiting game.. Who says they are playing a game? Usually you perceive what someone is doing by your own standards, meaning you are the one (prone to) playing games. The saying "You measure my corn by your bushel" I'm thinking mostly in such situations the woman would feel she's bumped into another player for the umpteenth time. If there's really something special between a couple, he would've messaged. If he's after sex only, and has been leading her on by dating her several times, he's an major selfish a-hole that ruins things in the dating world for men that are serious and genuine. I do find it typical that it's always men moaning about playing games. I'm still thinking about this corn and the bushel ... |
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They throw a mars bar down into the sub basement from time to time as payment..lol
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They throw a mars bar down into the sub basement from time to time as payment..lol Is that all? Dammit ... I was seeing this glorious new career here! Company car ... perks ... pension ... free gigolos
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And don't forget all the spam you can eat.. spam highly nutritious..6..
I'm going to have that spam coat in no time..lol |
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Humm all I can say if I have been intimate with a guy and they all of a sudden stop messaging me after we have been for a week or so.. Then to me that speaks volumes no one is ever that busy to where they just stop messaging you, after you have had sex with them. Normally that is a sign they got what they wanted and moved on..
 So don't blame the waiting game on the women when I know more men are guilty of it then women are.. 
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 10/08/15 09:56 AM
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Ummmm, what's the question?
ETA: Never mind, I see it buried in there about half way down. OT: No, I never did and hopefully will never have to deal with crap like that again. Why do people make this so complicated? Why do we have to time our communication perfectly? This is just another reason so many stay single for so long. |
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Ummmm, what's the question? Hahahah yea had to decipher it myself...maybe that is why he forgot to text her after having sex he forgot he even knew her... 
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Lol yes I suppose you do need a decoder ring for this one lol.. the question is is no message always a message.... or are we simply waiting for them to make the first move... women tend to do this a lot.. wait for the man to make first contact after the initial meeting... somewhat like how women.. wait for the man to ask her to have this dance..yup.. that clears it all up lol
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There is very little that is more important to a relationship than communication. If it ever became a form of game I was done./
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oooooo I somehow doubt that I would ever have a problem communicating
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oooooo I somehow doubt that I would ever have a problem communicating Why do you say that? 
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Edited by
TMommy
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Thu 10/08/15 10:44 AM
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cause I iz a redhead with an edjumacation and an extensive vocabiliary
 alright now ya'll beter be right about what the actual question was in that rambling ..since all I did was go of what ya said pffft like I got time to read that  lemme get this straight guy I been seeing for awhile talking and texting and day after we get it on he drops off face of planet he better be dead |
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Yeah I don't blame you I am a bit of a Rambler and a gambler..
You gotta know when to Hold'em you gotta know when to fold'em you gotta know when to walk away, and when to run..lol |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Thu 10/08/15 11:51 AM
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Never count your money while you're sitting at the table.. there will be time enough for counting. when the dealings done.. ((COME ON EVERYBODY.))... so you got no when to fold'em .. know when to Hold'em.. know when to walk away and know when to run..lmao
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Thu 10/08/15 11:20 AM
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Some guy pursue me just long enough and just serious enough to get in my panties then is suddenly "too busy" to call can drive himself off a cliff and I won't notice because I will never be and option in anyone's life when I should be a priority. I don't treat a man that way; so why would I put up with it. You can't say you care about someone and want to be intimate and then just pretend it is a convenience.
I do think many women make themselves a convenience to hound dog type men when they clearly say that is exactly what they are so I don't see why they should be shocked. |
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I would have to say, if that happened to me (guy disappears after finally nailing it) it is indeed a portent of things to come. Neglect. Inability to empathize. Too busy to communicate. All this before commitment? Pass. |
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Yeah I don't blame you I am a bit of a Rambler and a gambler.. You gotta know when to Hold'em you gotta know when to fold'em you gotta know when to walk away, and when to run..lol Mmm... the mods don't agree with you ... I think you can forget about this weeks mars bar, and prolly next weeks too Poor No1, going without chocolate for two weeks! But better for ya teeth... the toffee always sticks and that bleeping hurts! I prefer Snickers ... I like me nuts
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