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Topic: I'm married, but my wife isn't.
Tkn4grnted Joined Fri 10/30/15 Posts: 8	Fri 10/30/15 10:06 PM
Just moved to Vegas...looking for friends and comrades. My wife is out looking for herself. Drove over 2000 miles for a fresh start, and she started without me. I need an outlet. Just wanna chill out over some drinks and conversation. Maybe luck up on her replacement. Lol. Someone who knows what loyalty and commitment is. She seems to have forgotten. She says she's "doing her" 8 years wasted...except for my kids. They see dad trying to hold on...patients Is wearing thin. Tired of limbo. Let's meet and mingle.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Fri 10/30/15 10:18 PM
I'm married, but my wife isn't. Was she at the ceremony? Welcome :-)

1Marie63 Joined Sat 09/05/15 Posts: 6737	Fri 10/30/15 10:18 PM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Fri 10/30/15 10:24 PM
what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Fri 10/30/15 11:03 PM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. Perfectly said, Marie

craigstevens11 Joined Sun 03/15/15 Posts: 113	Sat 10/31/15 12:27 AM Edited by craigstevens11 on Sat 10/31/15 12:28 AM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. I thought it was two rights..make a left....

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Sat 10/31/15 12:35 AM
what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas unless you tell everybody on mingles2,,,,,LOL,,,,

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sat 10/31/15 05:46 AM
Just moved to Vegas...looking for friends and comrades. My wife is out looking for herself. Drove over 2000 miles for a fresh start, and she started without me. I need an outlet. Just wanna chill out over some drinks and conversation. Maybe luck up on her replacement. Lol. Someone who knows what loyalty and commitment is. She seems to have forgotten. She says she's "doing her" 8 years wasted...except for my kids. They see dad trying to hold on...patients Is wearing thin. Tired of limbo. Let's meet and mingle. if you are trying to maintain the facade of a marriage because kids are involved it will not work sounds like you had issues before moving and trying to make a fresh start sounds like she is no longer vested in the marriage and you are not either you are now jumping into the " I am gonna out do you " arena of who can sleep with the best or most as means of revenge or out of being lonely your marriage sounds over to me ya might want to think about filing the paperwork

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Sat 10/31/15 05:52 AM Edited by eric22t on Sat 10/31/15 05:53 AM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. I thought it was two rights..make a left.... no you are thinking of connecticut lefts and those are 3 rights

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 10/31/15 06:21 AM
You come across as a man who still loves his wife but is frustrated with her behavior. Why not try to do the crazy things she said she never tried together. Try your best to get the fire started again and if it all fails at least you tried your best.Your being honest with your intentions and I wish you the best of luck Sir.

cheechako Joined Tue 05/14/13 Posts: 735	Sat 10/31/15 08:18 AM
Just moved to Vegas...looking for friends and comrades. My wife is out looking for herself. Drove over 2000 miles for a fresh start, and she started without me. I need an outlet. Just wanna chill out over some drinks and conversation. Maybe luck up on her replacement. Lol. Someone who knows what loyalty and commitment is. She seems to have forgotten. She says she's "doing her" 8 years wasted...except for my kids. They see dad trying to hold on...patients Is wearing thin. Tired of limbo. Let's meet and mingle. Maybe she has issues she needs to sort out. What do you know about her past? Issues that were buried but not forgotten.

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Sat 10/31/15 08:52 AM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. Plus one. As with the rest of us who have suffered the excruciating pain of discovering that we were attached to an entirely dishonorable mate, I sympathize with your pain. But if you decide to COPY her behavior yourself, as revenge or expression of your resentment, my sympathy drops to zero. I have to suffer enough vilification in the world, living in a state where finalizing a divorce is so expensive and complex that I'm still only Legally Separated after almost a decade, I don't need ANOTHER completely married person running around making even more people hate me in advance.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Sat 10/31/15 09:48 AM
Plus one. As with the rest of us who have suffered the excruciating pain of discovering that we were attached to an entirely dishonorable mate, I sympathize with your pain. But if you decide to COPY her behavior yourself, as revenge or expression of your resentment, my sympathy drops to zero. I have to suffer enough vilification in the world, living in a state where finalizing a divorce is so expensive and complex that I'm still only Legally Separated after almost a decade, I don't need ANOTHER completely married person running around making even more people hate me in advance. Yikes dude, you need Perry the Mason!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 10/31/15 10:34 AM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. I thought it was two rights..make a left.... no you are thinking of connecticut lefts and those are 3 rights ..hmmm. ...I thought it was two wagons makes a wagon train..

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sat 10/31/15 10:45 AM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. I thought it was two rights..make a left.... three rights and you're back where you started...

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Sat 10/31/15 10:50 AM
actually no1 it has a reason. connecticut seems to have more one way streets than any where else i have traveled. so to take a left on maple st when it says one way do not enter you take the right, then one block later you take a right, then 2 blocks later you take a right and one block later you take a right on maple. easy peasy

graygentleman Joined Sat 10/03/15 Posts: 1412	Sat 10/31/15 11:11 AM
Two wrongs don't make it right. If you are unhappy get a divorce. I thought it was two rights..make a left.... three rights and you're back where you started... It isn't two lefts and your out?

Tkn4grnted Joined Fri 10/30/15 Posts: 8	Sat 10/31/15 11:35 AM
Lol.

Tkn4grnted Joined Fri 10/30/15 Posts: 8	Sat 10/31/15 11:55 AM
Not looking for revenge or get back. I'm not that type.

sanwindow000 Joined Thu 04/10/14 Posts: 1	Sat 10/31/15 12:00 PM
Thay sounds great to me nice comment sir