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Topic: Why don't guys answer texts or phone calls?
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:34 PM


To be honest ... it sounds like you are chasing after them too much...
That works like a repellent so stop it.

Try to be the one who ends the conversations. Don't go on and on and on till he ends it.
And if he doesn't reply, NO friggin way should you phone him!
Don't spend so much time texting. Texting should be for SHORT exchange only, so a short flirty, or playful or funny thing. Longer conversations should be done by phone or meeting.

So keep it short and sweet and say goodbye before he has the change to do so. That keeps them longing for more.



Crystal offer good advice.

Thank you!
Meow! :angel:

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:36 PM
Thank you!
Meow! :angel:


Meow? You must be kitten me. :tongue:

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:41 PM
If Im texting a girl I'm interested in, and real life calls me away. If when I come back 4 hours later, and see 12 missed texts and 3 missed phone calls...I'm definitely no longer interested.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:45 PM




.. or when we're on the crapper contemplating the mysteries of the universe...

Yeah, trying to figure out how to capture 2 boogers with one foray..

yea, that's a rare occurrence... but i think you get a wish when that happens...

Fingernails with a hook??

soufiehere's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:46 PM




.. or when we're on the crapper contemplating the mysteries of the universe...

Yeah, trying to figure out how to capture 2 boogers with one foray..

Close, but could also be a pesky nose hair. :laughing:

Search & Rescue couldn't do a better job.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:48 PM

If Im texting a girl I'm interested in, and real life calls me away. If when I come back 4 hours later, and see 12 missed texts and 3 missed phone calls...I'm definitely no longer interested.

Exactly! Overkill... means she needy, clingy and insecure.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:57 PM

Thank you!
Meow! :angel:


Meow? You must be kitten me. :tongue:

Purrrrrr

TMommy's photo
Mon 01/25/16 03:57 PM


If Im texting a girl I'm interested in, and real life calls me away. If when I come back 4 hours later, and see 12 missed texts and 3 missed phone calls...I'm definitely no longer interested.

Exactly! Overkill... means she needy, clingy and insecure.
:thumbsup:

no photo
Mon 01/25/16 04:37 PM
I think if they are interested in you then they will respond more if they go hours they are just not totally in to u

no photo
Mon 01/25/16 04:45 PM
I don't text guys. They have to tell me that they want to text.

mightymoe's photo
Mon 01/25/16 04:53 PM


If Im texting a girl I'm interested in, and real life calls me away. If when I come back 4 hours later, and see 12 missed texts and 3 missed phone calls...I'm definitely no longer interested.

Exactly! Overkill... means she needy, clingy and insecure.


seems more like shes using it as a control factor... i have better things to worry about than not texting a woman back fast enough...(that game of Halo won't play itself)

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 01/25/16 05:21 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Mon 01/25/16 05:22 PM
I wonder if these expectations vary with age/generation. I know my little brother treats every text like it's an emergency and he 'has' to respond right away.

So maybe i'm just becoming an old-timer, but again if I don't text you back you right away, it doesn't mean I'm not into you. It just means I treat texts as a 'convenient' form of communication, normally because I'm don't have time/not in a place where I can call for a proper conversation.


peggy122's photo
Mon 01/25/16 06:16 PM
Hmmmm... these responses give me food for thought . My personal experience with the guys who frequently have long lapses in communication is that they usually re -merge on random other occasions and it's always to push a sexual agenda.

markc48's photo
Mon 01/25/16 10:18 PM
Obviously you text the wrong message

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