love does not really exist...people dont know, but the fact is that men will come ur way to just deceive u...they never really show the love that they claim they have...believe me that almost all the men in this world will never give u love as they claim. HENCE, there is never a word or phrase like true love...

And you know almost all men in the world? That was actually an opinion and not fact (unless you have stats to cite) What about some of the women. It goes both ways

Even I have to step in and take up for the men~~ You are young and have been done wrong by I would think at this point several men.. If this is so take a good look at the men you go for.. Many times if you continue to go for the same sort of guys you will only get the same results..

Now not saying it is always the other person.. For many times we need to take a deep look at our selves and correct our wrongs first in order to find what we seek..

Decide what you want from a man and don't short yourself.. Some things can be juggled what one wants from a partner..

Just make sure they actually want a relationship. If they just want to date around by pass them.. Most the time you can tell what they are looking for watch listen and ask questions..

Give those your time that actually want to be with you..for you..

There are a lot of really great men out there~~~

And believe me there are bad women just as well.. It takes two to tango as they say.. One just needs to voice their opinion, so the one they are with knows how they feel.. Communication is the key~~

Kinda depends on how you are defining it.

A lot of people seem to want it to be some magical creature that envelops them and a partner in a chrysalis transforming everything about them and their life forever and ever making sure they never feel anything but joyful loving bliss.


The fact is human beings will come ur way to just deceive u.
Politicians, lawyers, salesman, parents, jealous coworkers, police, you pick a label, someone will come ur way to just deceive u.


That's why learning to communicate is so important.


Almost all the men in this world will never communicate love the way you want them to in a way that is specifically tailored to you, completely altruistic or solely for your benefit, to your understanding and bias, absolutely clear, clear cut, and absolute.


Sure there is.
Here is what it means:
true love - one persons biased interpretation of what love is based on their experience and observation of others coming up with a term that defines what they think love "should" be and they're entitled to.
e.g. or i.e. "My grandparents were married and said they loved each other for 50 years. But they did fight, and he did cheat on her, I have insider information to the trials and tribulations of their relationship.
But I see movies like the Princess Bride, and they're all happy, and they never lie, and he dedicates his life to her, and he nearly kills himself for her, and they're all happy and never argue except in cute ways.
I don't have insider information.
But I do know I have felt really good being around someone, and I (at that point in time) really believed I had no desire to fight, or argue, or cheat, or do anything bad that might reflect poorly on me or them, only love them, and hug them, and kiss them, and laugh, and be happy happy joy joyful and give them whatever they want and do whatever I could for them.
I can't say my grandparents don't love each other....but that's not 'true' love like I know I have felt and I know exists."

Was it Rasputin who said: All you can ever know about love, is that you love someone. Probably not, anyway, love means you care more about somebody else's well being than you do about your own. People often confuse romance with love, romance has little to do with the real world and real people and their faults. Love is total acceptance, and does not come to an end. Love is not at all romantic.

Wow. I like this..

actually it exists , found here m.mingle2.com/topic/show/471664 in small amounts

Sry Darling, but you don't know what your talking about. You do sound hurt, so I won't patronize you. I will leave you with this gift instead.

One of my all time favorite hopeless romantics " For it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all". Shakespeare

Ciao, bella...

sounds like you have really been hurt, and with some left over

feelings your carrying around. our negative feelings can be wall

between us and others..the beautiful little girl in you has been

wounded.. it would be good for you to keep an eye open for mentor

like an older woman to talk to, one that's in a good healthy

relationship...I know there are a lot of great guys out there, good

luck..

try not to make those gigantic sweeping generalizations hon

one man does not equal all men

Which is your african country dear?

If your looking outside of yourself to find love, You will be deceived.... Find the love inside of yourself , start loving and maybe you will attract someone who is enable to love. Start by loving yourself. Just my opinion! and sorry for the grammar im french

GOOD ANSWER,,WE NEVER GO OUT OF OUR AWARENESS,,ITS LIKE FRIENDS ARE PEOPLE WITH

MATCHING ILLUSIONS.....

I was wondering, what percentage of 'human-beings' make an 'honest' attempt to make themselves 'lovable'?