I know the feeling. Because some men do not know what they want. The perfect woman could be right on front of them and they still insist on "seeing whats out there" Or they ask you questions on here and then when you reply they don't. No wonder they have a hard time finding "The perfect woman"!

Then why bother?

I don't know I'm just confused..lol..
On again off again... maybe you're not letting him get on enough.. or maybe he's just not getting off enough..lol..
Whatever the reason it's his problem..
Do not make it yours.. I can see my stop..coming up it's time for me to get off..this bus..wink

Somehow I don't think he ever got on.
But I do hate when they try to stop me from working.

Beachfarmer, here is some punch for you.

there is an old saying ''when momma ain't happy nobodies happy'' you as a woman

set the rules and standards by which you are to treated...sounds like your not

''THE ONE''....move on.....as a man i know if she where really into me she would

want to talk or see me as often as possible.....

Women are no different in my experience, hell, most even don't bother replying on here when you message them

lol

Its always very hard breaking news to a lady that if a guy is hot for you he's taking you home that very night, not going into hiding for two weeks.
That dude is probably strutting his stuff into a multitude of babes as we speak.
Remember the golden rule, if the guy likes you then you have to pick his tongue up off the floor and toss a napkin on his lap so someone wont pitch a tent on it. And if a guy likes you he'll be taking you home and insisting he walk you passed your door to make sure you get in safe. And if he likes you he'll be marching you upstairs so he can wake you in the morning in case your alarm clock is broken. But two weeks of missing in action? Sorry to break it to you, but he's on his sixth blond by now,
Been a slice again

Men are confusing , goodness some women could drive a man straight to the looney bin lol

Men can't read our minds. If you don't mention this to him, he'll think you're fine with the way things are already going. If you feel nervous about telling him, write it down. Even try saying it different ways. Then pick out the one you feel would be least intimidating for you. If he doesn't know, he can't act on it. He needs to know ;)

Cant help but think this guy is right. In my experiences - if the guy really likes you he will make the time to drop a text but if hes so damn busy...hes prob texting other chicks

most likely you are one of his interests, not the only(or just perhaps a booty call).

"See you when I can" normally means "see you when my other options fall through"

Or perhaps he is just really busy with work, depending on his job that is a possibility. ..but I'd wager a slim one

Ha ha ha ha ha ha.....Was It Me????....Lolzzzz

100%⤴ People need to just be honest & speak their mind. The truth takes courage because it's the right thing

Haha...When I first read (title only) for some reason I defined it as an intent. ( to "confuse" VERB)

I understand how you feel, but actually it's not confusing. If a guy is really into you, he will find a way to get in touch with you no matter what . A simple and short message or call will do but if he couldn't do this, think twice......don't be an option, you are special , so be a priority. Some guys blame the girl when after how many days or weeks they are already ignored, it's simple, a girl doesn't want to be an option. No matter how much you like a guy, have the decency to protect your dignity that you can't just be at his disposal anytime he wants you at his convenient time. If he truly likes you, let him show you his intentions are honest by being consistent.

I think the key to this kind of situation is the same one that works for many, having to do with people relating.

Don't overthink it all. Don't get involved with calculations of how to behave to "signal" people, or worry about what they are "signalling" to you.

Put your energy in to making sure you are living as you want to, for your own reasons. Let the other person live as they wish.

As Rains said, there are all sorts of possible reasons for this guy's behavior, including that he IS interested but doesn't show it, or act on it in the manner you expect, and the other end, that he really isn't interested at all. If you are the sort who wants a mate who is eager to DO stuff all the time, and he's the sort who moves in a long slow arc through life, you will continue to be displeased in the long run.

And maybe he's the sort who gets on a track that you don't even realize you told him to take (because you didn't, he just thought you did), and will rue these days later, when he works it out. But if that's the case, doing anything artificial to change his track, will make things worse.

Unless you just want an artificial fling, of course. But in that case,it doesn't matter why he's acting this way. Just "go for it."

Maybe he/she not interested to you

millbank50: ". . . .goodness some women could drive a man straight to the looney bin lol "

Met my ex- have you?