how far are you willing to go to find your soul mate?

About as far as he's willing to go for me.

Within my state... of mind.

Hope you keep it in a healthy state...

As far as Walmart, which has these.

ummmmm lemme see


I am going to the store later ...

You are in error sir. Finding a mate is NOT akin to anything involving "guts."

If anything, it takes "guts" to recognize when someone WONT work out for you, and to politely cease chasing them, despite your deep desire for a mate.

I am willing to move to another country for the right guy.

I suspect in the next decade that more and more die hard romantics will be gravitating towards long distance dating , with the aim of one person migrating to the other person's country.

Finding a compatible accessible partner is becoming a growing challenge it seems for people from all parts of the globe in the 21st century.

As for the issue of guts, yes I do think it takes guts or courage to seek.out and maintain a fulfilling relationship, and I do have the guts to put in the work required.

I use to be willing to crawl through the frozen waists on the bloody stumps that were once my hands and knees while wild animals savaged my back taring the very flesh from my bones. Now I just except that we were born worlds away and a lifetime apart from each other.

Basically, it appears to me that if you HAVE to "show guts," or stamina, or bravery, or willingness to sacrifice to the nth degree or so an and blah-blah...

...that means you aren't compatible to begin with.

Yanno ... I get the guts thing in finding that certain person. .
The laying yourself bare to that special person and that takes guts..

So if we are talking about actual miles as in Distance I would have said to the end of the earth for him.. Now I am not so sure I believe in SoulMates..

so probably in this point in time not very far.

Now. If you were to ask instead, what I would do FOR my mate, AFTER I found them, and they me...

...that's when I get to the "ends of the earth and beyond" kind of thing.

I am a commitment kind of person. Not a "track the benefits and bail when they fall off" kind.

To me, this "make sacrifices" idea during the SEARCH phase, is what's problematic. I've experienced that getting too "brave" and getting too caught up with proving myself, actually has gotten in the way of simply perceiving and being in the here and now with the people I am dealing with, during my search.

It is the avoidance of self-blinding that I'm on about with this, not being a stick-in-the-mud.

OMG I tried those things and I had such blisters from the ridges I could not walk for three days.

Probably is how far is he willing to go to find me because my traveling days are pretty much done with my retirement budget.

Ok.. if I was on holiday and met someone and fell in love maybe I would ..move to their City.. but if I had never met them...and only new them from online..ummm.. probably would not..move.