Topic: Disgusted
julie2312's photo
Mon 05/16/16 09:46 AM
Just joined today and my first message was filthy. Really no need

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 05/16/16 09:56 AM

Just joined today and my first message was filthy. Really no need


Just report such nonsense and block whoever sent it.

Anyway, welcome to the site.

Movie07's photo
Mon 05/16/16 10:05 AM
flowerforyou waving
Hello and Welcome

ErotiDoug's photo
Mon 05/16/16 10:13 AM

Just joined today and my first message was filthy. Really no need


* Often just kids being kids. :banana:
** Finish your profile about the type of person you hope too meet. Clarity often removes problems.

TMommy's photo
Mon 05/16/16 10:21 AM
wanna bet it does? huh

just get good at blocking em
or telling em off

whichever ya want bigsmile

no photo
Mon 05/16/16 11:15 AM

Just joined today and my first message was filthy. Really no need


I have only been on here about a month but have learned they are many men looking for many different things... and that's okay... The first message I get like that I just delete and if they didn't take that as my answer..... I would block them....

Good luck to you.. I'm still learning my way around..

Jaan Doh 's photo
Mon 05/16/16 11:40 AM
Welcome to Mingle,
Shame your first message was filthy!

Good luck in finding what you seek.


Maybe we should have a thread where we "Name and Shame"
any dodgy people for all to see and be aware of them?


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mzrosie's photo
Mon 05/16/16 08:51 PM


Maybe we should have a thread where we "Name and Shame"
any dodgy people for all to see and be aware of them?



We wish!
but against TOS so our mods won't like it.

drinker

mzrosie's photo
Mon 05/16/16 08:54 PM
Hi julie2312

The trolls get their high from your reaction.
Report the arsehole and block.

Welcome to Mingle
and good luck in your search
:smile:

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 05/16/16 08:55 PM
Hi welcome to Mingle
Just delete and block.
It would help if you filled out your profile
sorry if that sounds cruel but it is true

Wilberr's photo
Tue 05/17/16 12:16 AM
I'm looking for a long term relationship :heart: Feel free to contact me smitten

mikey5360's photo
Tue 05/17/16 12:23 AM

Just joined today and my first message was filthy. Really no need

Sorry to hear this...
The dark underbelly of any dating site rears its head too often...
I have had a couple of female friends in the past couldn't handle the gross mail and left...
My advice if your strong enough to stay is to report then block...
And then hang in there...there are plenty of nice guys here to hopefully balance the ledger...

Welcome and good luck...drinker

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 05/17/16 12:45 AM
The site has a report system unless you report it he will continue to do it to others~~~ So we ask that you report them first then block them. They will not be able to e-mail you. If they follow you to the forums and do the same report the post. Let the Mods handle that for we do not allow it within the forums..

So please report if everyone reported the same one several times it will show up they have. Vulgar e-mails could get one suspended or banned if that is all they are sending.

Also take time to set your filters to keep from getting some of those type of e-mails.. Most have they are searching for intimate encounter. If you set your filters and they have that on their profile they will not be able to e-mail you. It helps to set the filters..

Go to this link and click on limit who can e-mail me make sure to click on update after there are several links there to go and look at to see what they offer.

http://mingle2.com/user/show_settings


Enjoy the forums~~~bigsmile

no photo
Wed 05/18/16 04:37 AM
Welcome and enjoy your being in this site!
There are always some rotten eggs in the basket .. just don't let them spoil your sunny day .. it's not worth it.
Have fun in forums and you'll see that there are a lots of nice guys as well to friend with flowers

no photo
Wed 05/18/16 04:43 AM
Why is everyone looking at me???
(€¿€ )?surprised

blah..blah..'s photo
Wed 05/18/16 04:49 AM
Hi Julie, welcome, post in the forums if you get chance, here is where the friendly, normal (ish) people are :smile:

good luck.

BHawkins's photo
Wed 05/18/16 06:47 AM

Just joined today and my first message was filthy. Really no need

I wasn't being filthy ...I was referring to the sheep & the midget in a whimsical manner.....I'm misunderstood yet again :wink: