All want from this ****en life i live in peace!! With a smal house and lovley wife who really care about me and two kids make our life better... why so hard ?

I feel you brother. Life can be #$@% sometimes. We just gotta keep our heads up, and keep on moving forward.....if not, we get stepped on. I've learned that the hard way.

Why so hard?...
. Grabs his box of Kleenex and leaves the room shaking his head.... great! how I'm going to explain this one..lol

People were created to be love things were created to be used .

Today's world however things are being loved and people are being used .

well.. I'm being loved and used at the same time.. but I kind of like it..lpl

Is that on a time rental ? Lol

Sounds like a good ambition, and it's true to say that nothing comes easy in life you have to work at it, good luck.

You're only 21 ... you prolly barely shave yet, and you need a wife and two kids to feel happy?
Get a life instead of a wife and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Or, if you're so miserable about your ****en life, stay single and whinge for the next 60 odd years. At least that way you don't ruin someone else's life too.

That is the reality of human being ✌✌✌

What is ??

A mortgage on the house, and a wife with two kids in tow... That's a full plate... Are you sure you're that hungry?

Life has always its ups and downs. We all go through hardships in life. But Raou, at your age......you are still young and wanting a wife, with 2 kids and a small house is too early to dream about it now. You still have a lot of opportunities ahead of you. Enjoy life first and prepare for the future. Do you think you are ready to settle down now? Do you think it would be easy to raise a family? Do you have a stable job? Are you financially,emotionally and spiritually stable now? Having a family would be a big responsibility. It's okay to dream about it, but when you really want it so much, then you have to be ready to work on it. Focus on the good things in life for now, be patient to wait for the right time while building yourself and your dreams to become realized. Good luck and may you find the right girl to build your dreams with.

Careful what you wish for as it might come true... I am sure you will find the lovely lady you desire some day and then have kids. My advice is to remember the only constant in life is change... so be proactive and change your life to find the one you want and be lovely man that cares for her..

I hate to brake it to you but anytime children are involved there is no such thing as a peaceful life. I may not have any myself but I have a few nieces and a nephew and from my limited experience, raising children is an adventure which boarders on driving you crazy.

Honestly, It is normal to want these things, and yet I would caution you to enjoy the moments as they come.
There will be a time when you have all of this and the responsibilities will at times be overwhelming.

Let's see. Having two kids will run you about $10-$15K a piece. The small house can be economical if you find the right deal and your credit is decent. The wife? She will cost you about half your stuff in the future divorce. But hey man.....aim high Willis!

Half? You're an optimist.

At your age I would be more concerned with getting drunk and laid rather than wife and kids

A little advise my boy. Whining like a plugged sheep, never fixed one problem. Grow up, get educated, and get a job, before you go making a new generation of whiners.