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Topic: Your take on "I'll tell you later"
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Sun 07/10/16 08:14 PM
For me, as soon as I read that, big turn off. I'm sure some think it leaves an air of mystery, but really it doesn't. My take, it either shows someone as being too lazy, or lacks the confidence to commit to the process. And a lot of women, maybe men as well, with "I'll tell you later from my short time here have been scammers, or at least, misrepresenting themselves.

We are all entitled to our opinions, so what's yours?

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 07/10/16 08:17 PM
I don't give it much thought...
NEXT!!!!

msharmony's photo
Sun 07/10/16 08:19 PM
I dont judge whether they scam or not

but its a good indicator they are too busy to take time on the site, which is not a good indicator they would make any time to take time on me through this site,,,


markc48's photo
Sun 07/10/16 08:40 PM
I take it they will tell me laterlaugh

Robxbox73's photo
Sun 07/10/16 08:51 PM
I'll tell you later..pitchfork noway :banana:

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Sun 07/10/16 09:00 PM
One of two things, ether a serious lack of imagination or a scam.

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 07/10/16 09:06 PM
The same thing I think when I see, "if you want to know anything just ask" Or, txt me at XXX XXXX

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Sun 07/10/16 09:12 PM
A whole lot of them are scammers from the best I can tell. Also, Many of them that don't take the time to fill out the profile feel like they don't have to because they have the look that men like. So, Some of them think all they have to do is look good. And for the most part,they are right. Men will write them anyway. Others lack the confidence they need to even be here.

But, either way, you cut it, to me, It comes off as lazy. Also, I've noticed that many that do this are what I call "conversationally challenged." Talking to them is like pulling teeth, with nothing to dull the pain. You can't get much of anything out of them. You have to pull info out of them. I've come across many that don't seem to know the art of conversation. So, If they can't fill out their profile, I don't even attempt to try to talk to them. NEXT.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 07/10/16 09:49 PM
Uh, tis a default answer, it means they left it blank.
Sorry to kill the paranoia :-)

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Tue 07/12/16 05:01 PM
Well thanks for the posts, like I had sated, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Definitely a turn off. Thanks again.

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Tue 07/12/16 05:06 PM

Uh, tis a default answer, it means they left it blank.
Sorry to kill the paranoia :-)


no kidding?, is the double "hi" also default? laugh flowerforyou

soufiehere's photo
Tue 07/12/16 05:38 PM

no kidding?, is the double "hi" also default? laugh flowerforyou

I think you're double high, de fault of de green :-)

mzrosie's photo
Tue 07/12/16 05:40 PM
^^ oh soufie laugh laugh laugh

no1phD's photo
Tue 07/12/16 05:55 PM
I don't know !!!..I'll tell you later..
Lol..

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Tue 07/12/16 08:59 PM
It doesn't really matter that much to me if somebody fills up the profile or not, and I don't care if they are scammers or not, though it does help to have some idea about the person. But we cannot judge people by what is written or not written there. We can only know someone if we take time to sincerely and honestly connect with each other.

Argo's photo
Tue 07/12/16 09:05 PM
it means...i asked her too soon...

Robxbox73's photo
Tue 07/12/16 09:05 PM
Well IMO, if you don't fill out your profile, you are not a decent conversationalist or have any imagination. Translation, boring.

:b

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Tue 07/12/16 10:05 PM
Edited by howed on Tue 07/12/16 10:06 PM
I'll tell you later usually gets de activated the next few days is what I have found.:cry: brokenheart brokenheart embarassed :angry: mad explode rant yawn yawn

no1phD's photo
Tue 07/12/16 10:22 PM
I'll tell you later..
Means you better keep a close watch on your wallet..lol... and your precious little puppy dog too... flies away on his broom cackling like a witch.. from The Wizard of Oz

mysticalview21's photo
Thu 07/14/16 11:56 AM

I'll tell you later..
Means you better keep a close watch on your wallet..lol... and your precious little puppy dog too... flies away on his broom cackling like a witch.. from The Wizard of Oz


laugh

I don't give the person another thought ... I have seen a lot say that ... I just move on ... but he took my broom ... so now I have to run away ... laugh

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