I think sometimes

It's not bad if your looking for a someone that will hop into bed with just about anyone, but if your looking for a long term relationship that's based on more then just sex you might want to avoid them. Then again what the F do I know, I can count the women I've been with on one hand and have fingers left over.

obviously everyone is different, some are more spontaneous , do what feels good now worry about consequences later types


I am not that way though, I am hesitant about being with anyone physically before I have gotten to know more about them

If I cant see them as someone I could build a family with(even though my childbearing days are over),,,its not someone I can share my body with either


and I cant tell in one date that someone has the values and standards and goals and temperament Id want to build a family with

It depends on every individual's preferences. But I would definitely not go into casual sex or one night stand, I would only give myself to my boyfriend that I gave my commitment to.

It's funny, and a bit on the ironic side, that when I was very young, it seemed important to move quickly to sex with someone. Now that I have less life before me, than behind me, I am convinced that the opposite is true.

I suppose it has to do with the life I've experienced, making me aware of how vastly more complicated it is to find someone to share what's left, than I could have known back then.

knowing myself so much better, and having learned so much about people in general, somewhat counter-intuitively resulted in my firm conviction to get to know people much MORE before intimacy. No doubt to protect myself emotionally, as well as physically.

no it's not,
if everyone knows what they want

I guess u have a point;)

nothing's bad with proper protection

1st day of what? Grade school? Then yea....

I don't think it's bad,because we need always other from various types,sex one of them, but true know each other must importent

If sex was "bad" on the first date...I think there would be a whole lot of prostitutes out of business

Nah. It's not a bad thing. Just remember to pull out before that "explosiion" hits.

it's okay to have sex on the first date if you if you love them then show it look everybody's a little insecure on the first date but if you get Good Vibes and you want him there in the morning give it a try

uh hell no

How long have you know the person? When did it all start, was this a person you've been friends with for years and too afraid to take it to dating or someone you never met. If never met you ever, absolutely not. If you've been the best part of my life for a longtime but we never went there before it could be different. Situation setting is important. If we never met before no the 1, 2, 3,4,5,6,7 dated even and longer. Depends on what is happening....you could move to friend zone possibly....idk....but you'd know if you are friend zone early on.

If you met on the internet, yes, yes it is.
Although maybe "bad" isn't the word I'd use.
Didn't you take health class?
Remember all those warnings about sex? STD's, pregnancy...

If it's the "1st day" then they're ultimately a stranger.

If you met some stranger from the internet, they handed you a pistol and said "it's okay, it's not loaded," would grabbing the gun, putting it to your head, and pulling the trigger be "bad?"

My preference is to know more about the woman before having sex with her.

1st day sex is almost never as good as sex later on.

But... sex isn't bad unless there is no happy ending.

I thought 1st day of a woman's period...Well It Is Perfectly safe....If she gets pregnant, then certainly it isn't yours.....Lolzzzz

Only on the 2nd day... when she tells you she's transgender.

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