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Mon 10/31/16 04:50 PM
Edited by SassyEuro2 on Mon 10/31/16 04:49 PM
Toronto PD’s Muslim Chaplain: Wives Must Be Available for Sex

The city police department’s new chaplain to its Muslim officers holds rather archaic and sexist views when it comes to the role of women.

http://m.clarionproject.org/analysis/toronto-pd%E2%80%99s-muslim-chaplain-wives-must-be-available-sex#/
* Video*

Mon, October 31, 2016


Musleh Kahn

The Toronto police department has appointed a new chaplain to service its Muslim officers.

As reported by CIJ News, Musleh Khan was born in Medina, Saudi Arabia but raised in Toronto. He obtained a BA in Islamic Law from the Islamic University in Madinah in Saudi Arabia.

The chaplain not only helps Muslim police officers but also serves as a community chaplain. “If they ever are confused about certain behaviors or rhetoric thrown out on behalf of Islam, I’d like for them to have someone authentic, that has studied the religion and can say, ‘Hey, I can explain this to you’,” Khan says.

The police department says Khan’s goal is to provide support and bridge gaps. Yet, there is one gap not being addressed:  the gap between men and women inherent in his teachings – and that of “authentic Islam,” as he claims.

In 2013, Khan taught a webinar titled The Heart of the Home: The Rights and Responsibilities of the Wife.

In the webinar, Khan states the wife should be obedient to her husband at all times (since he is her protector and maintainer and supports the family). She should respect him as the ameer (lord) of the house. Moreover, women should not view this obligation as a chore, but rather as a means of gaining eternal reward. (There is no similar obligation of the husband to obey his wife.)

Also in the seminar (see video below), Khan states that a woman must be careful to ask permission from her husband to leave the house. In addition, she should be available for sexual relations whenever he desires unless she has a valid excuse (illness or fasting). But even so, Khan said,

“Even some scholars went as far as saying that even if it doesn’t feel right, or you’re just not in that emotional relationship you know it’s not the right manner, you’re not feeling that at that particular time, still try to make it happen, still try to force yourself even if you have to do that.

“Why? Because this is crucial and even scientists, even doctors, even psychologists, all of them, have proven that this here, this intimacy with your spouse is a crucial, crucial ingredient for a successful marriage.

That a woman should need permission from her husband to leave the house is demeaning and oppressive, putting women under archaic control of her husband.

That she should force herself to have marital relations when she knows it is not coming from the right place due to problems in the couple’s relationship at the time means a woman can be used like an object. (While Khan may be right that intimacy is a crucial ingredient for a successful marriage, marital relations under these circumstances are the antithesis of any real definition of intimacy).

If the Toronto police department desires to create a position to support its Muslim police officers and be a community chaplain, it should not be hiring and promoting an imam that leaves half of the community in a secondary role and teaches its officers that’s the way it is supposed to be.
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The Heart Of The Home: The Rights And Responsibilities Of The Wife

http://youtu.be/-HbN8x2KNHA/
55:35

In this webinar entitled 'The Heart of The Home: The Rights And Responsibilities of A Wife' you'll discover exactly which rights the Qur'an and Sunnah have given to wives including:

Why the wife will always have the right to be provided for -- even if she is wealthy!
How she should be treated in the home
The trust that is placed on her in her husband's absence
What it truly means to attain Jannah by adhering to your responsibilities
International speaker Sheikh Musleh Khan will insha'Allah be your guide into the rights, roles and responsibilities of sisters in a marriage...

So my dear brothers and sisters, make sure you attend this amazing webinar so you can educate yourselves and not transgress the boundaries which Allah SWT has set for you!

It doesn't matter whether you are married or not, a sister or a brother, we guarantee you'll learn things on this webinar you may otherwise never have



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Mon 10/31/16 05:02 PM
Edited by SassyEuro2 on Mon 10/31/16 05:18 PM
I know, that there is more in the Quran about sex with slaves (slaves are NON Muslim), than there is about prayer.

Well.. tomorrow, I am whipping out the maps to see just how far I am from Ontario.... because this shite isn't NOT happening here.


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Mon 10/31/16 05:12 PM
In the webinar, Khan states the wife should be obedient to her husband at all times (since he is her protector and maintainer and supports the family). She should respect him as the ameer (lord) of the house. Moreover, women should not view this obligation as a chore, but rather as a means of gaining eternal reward. (There is no similar obligation of the husband to obey his wife

____________________________________________________________________

There ya go....so much for woman's right in th Muslim world.

Unbelievable.. in this day and age.

I can only imagine what would be thrown at me if I announced... "the Lord of the house" is home for dinner and sex now.... serve, then lay down.


Rock's photo
Mon 10/31/16 05:20 PM
Tonight, we're gonna party like it's 1499.

grumble


I can't see treating women,
like a possession.


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Mon 10/31/16 05:21 PM

In the webinar, Khan states the wife should be obedient to her husband at all times (since he is her protector and maintainer and supports the family). She should respect him as the ameer (lord) of the house. Moreover, women should not view this obligation as a chore, but rather as a means of gaining eternal reward. (There is no similar obligation of the husband to obey his wife

____________________________________________________________________

There ya go....so much for woman's right in th Muslim world.

Unbelievable.. in this day and age.

I can only imagine what would be thrown at me if I announced... "the Lord of the house" is home for dinner and sex now.... serve, then lay down.




×4 Wives

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Mon 10/31/16 05:23 PM
“Why? Because this is crucial and even scientists, even doctors, even psychologists, all of them, have proven that this here, this intimacy with your spouse is a crucial, crucial ingredient for a successful marriage.


I agree that sex is an important part in a marriage, but basically telling your wife to get into the bedroom and spread 'em because God says so, is hardly going to make a marriage better.

This is some funny stuff. I wonder what he says should happen if the wife say's **** No!

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Mon 10/31/16 05:27 PM


In the webinar, Khan states the wife should be obedient to her husband at all times (since he is her protector and maintainer and supports the family). She should respect him as the ameer (lord) of the house. Moreover, women should not view this obligation as a chore, but rather as a means of gaining eternal reward. (There is no similar obligation of the husband to obey his wife

____________________________________________________________________

There ya go....so much for woman's right in th Muslim world.

Unbelievable.. in this day and age.

I can only imagine what would be thrown at me if I announced... "the Lord of the house" is home for dinner and sex now.... serve, then lay down.




×4 Wives


My heart really goes out to those woman who have to live that life.. It really does. It must be a misrible life.

And I can never understand those woman who chose that life.. they don't have to live it.. the choose to. And abide by these ridicules rules, plus scores more.


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Mon 10/31/16 05:44 PM
Edited by LittleLeftofRight on Mon 10/31/16 05:47 PM
it shouldnt because most of the women your heart is going out to would fight to keep it that way. That is the inherent beauty in different cultures and why freedom of religion is accepted to be an inherent right by everyone except the courts who destroys it at nearly every turn.





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Mon 10/31/16 05:59 PM

Toronto PD’s Muslim Chaplain: Wives Must Be Available for Sex

The city police department’s new chaplain to its Muslim officers holds rather archaic and sexist views when it comes to the role of women.

http://m.clarionproject.org/analysis/toronto-pd%E2%80%99s-muslim-chaplain-wives-must-be-available-sex#/
* Video*

Mon, October 31, 2016


Musleh Kahn

The Toronto police department has appointed a new chaplain to service its Muslim officers.

As reported by CIJ News, Musleh Khan was born in Medina, Saudi Arabia but raised in Toronto. He obtained a BA in Islamic Law from the Islamic University in Madinah in Saudi Arabia.

The chaplain not only helps Muslim police officers but also serves as a community chaplain. “If they ever are confused about certain behaviors or rhetoric thrown out on behalf of Islam, I’d like for them to have someone authentic, that has studied the religion and can say, ‘Hey, I can explain this to you’,” Khan says.

The police department says Khan’s goal is to provide support and bridge gaps. Yet, there is one gap not being addressed:  the gap between men and women inherent in his teachings – and that of “authentic Islam,” as he claims.

In 2013, Khan taught a webinar titled The Heart of the Home: The Rights and Responsibilities of the Wife.

In the webinar, Khan states the wife should be obedient to her husband at all times (since he is her protector and maintainer and supports the family). She should respect him as the ameer (lord) of the house. Moreover, women should not view this obligation as a chore, but rather as a means of gaining eternal reward. (There is no similar obligation of the husband to obey his wife.)

Also in the seminar (see video below), Khan states that a woman must be careful to ask permission from her husband to leave the house. In addition, she should be available for sexual relations whenever he desires unless she has a valid excuse (illness or fasting). But even so, Khan said,

“Even some scholars went as far as saying that even if it doesn’t feel right, or you’re just not in that emotional relationship you know it’s not the right manner, you’re not feeling that at that particular time, still try to make it happen, still try to force yourself even if you have to do that.

“Why? Because this is crucial and even scientists, even doctors, even psychologists, all of them, have proven that this here, this intimacy with your spouse is a crucial, crucial ingredient for a successful marriage.

That a woman should need permission from her husband to leave the house is demeaning and oppressive, putting women under archaic control of her husband.

That she should force herself to have marital relations when she knows it is not coming from the right place due to problems in the couple’s relationship at the time means a woman can be used like an object. (While Khan may be right that intimacy is a crucial ingredient for a successful marriage, marital relations under these circumstances are the antithesis of any real definition of intimacy).

If the Toronto police department desires to create a position to support its Muslim police officers and be a community chaplain, it should not be hiring and promoting an imam that leaves half of the community in a secondary role and teaches its officers that’s the way it is supposed to be.
---------------
The Heart Of The Home: The Rights And Responsibilities Of The Wife

http://youtu.be/-HbN8x2KNHA/
55:35

In this webinar entitled 'The Heart of The Home: The Rights And Responsibilities of A Wife' you'll discover exactly which rights the Qur'an and Sunnah have given to wives including:

Why the wife will always have the right to be provided for -- even if she is wealthy!
How she should be treated in the home
The trust that is placed on her in her husband's absence
What it truly means to attain Jannah by adhering to your responsibilities
International speaker Sheikh Musleh Khan will insha'Allah be your guide into the rights, roles and responsibilities of sisters in a marriage...

So my dear brothers and sisters, make sure you attend this amazing webinar so you can educate yourselves and not transgress the boundaries which Allah SWT has set for you!

It doesn't matter whether you are married or not, a sister or a brother, we guarantee you'll learn things on this webinar you may otherwise never have





Maybe Islam isn't so bad after all! bigsmile

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Mon 10/31/16 06:36 PM
Edited by NotPay4Play on Mon 10/31/16 06:28 PM


In the webinar, Khan states the wife should be obedient to her husband at all times (since he is her protector and maintainer and supports the family). She should respect him as the ameer (lord) of the house. Moreover, women should not view this obligation as a chore, but rather as a means of gaining eternal reward. (There is no similar obligation of the husband to obey his wife

____________________________________________________________________

There ya go....so much for woman's right in th Muslim world.

Unbelievable.. in this day and age.

I can only imagine what would be thrown at me if I announced... "the Lord of the house" is home for dinner and sex now.... serve, then lay down.




×4 Wives


X4 cast iron frying pans upside the head..

LittleLeftofRight's photo
Mon 10/31/16 06:48 PM
I just want the 72 virgins!!!! drinker

Rock's photo
Mon 10/31/16 07:09 PM
Anyone, who feels, that a spouse should be treated
as property.....

Should, perhaps, invest in an inflata-mate.
Just keep a tire patch kit nearby
So, she'll always be "ready and willing".


From a human point of view...
A, partner, who actually WANTS sex,
is a helluva lot more exciting, than a
"mandated" hole - in -the - mattress .


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Mon 10/31/16 08:07 PM
I agree with the rock.
You can look up google for them lol.


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Tue 11/01/16 12:26 AM
50 Shades of Shïte.tongue2

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Tue 11/01/16 01:30 AM

“Why? Because this is crucial and even scientists, even doctors, even psychologists, all of them, have proven that this here, this intimacy with your spouse is a crucial, crucial ingredient for a successful marriage.


I agree that sex is an important part in a marriage, but basically telling your wife to get into the bedroom and spread 'em because God says so, is hardly going to make a marriage better.

This is some funny stuff. I wonder what he says should happen if the wife say's **** No!

Then,under Shariah,he has the "Duty" to beat her for her own good!noway grumble grumble

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Tue 11/01/16 02:18 AM
rofl That's funny!
Feminists rejected and fought Western Masculinity, thereby undermining a whole society, and end up opening the doors for women-repressing and oppressing Radical Islamists.
Do you hear feminists speak up against places where women aren't allowed to drive?
Do you hear feminists speak out against places where they throw gays off of buildings?
Do you hear feminists speak out against places where it's forbidden to kiss in public places?
No. Why?
Because feminists and the Left don't have it in for brown Men. They only have it in for white men, because... the Patriarchy.
When Islam takes over the Western world, and it's happening NOW, and starts denigrating and stoning women in the middle of Times Square or under Paris Thiumphal Arch, will all white men turn White Knight or will they actually respond with a REAL Patriarchy, a Christian one?
Because have no illusions about it. The only power there really is against Radical Extremist Islam is Christianity. That's why Christians are executed by the thousands in war-torn Middle - East... and not ONE word about it in the MSM.
Personally, I wash my hands of it all. This society has chosen the poisons by which it's demise will come. It's collective suicide and suicide isn't part of my God - worshipping ways.

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Tue 11/01/16 04:26 AM

it shouldnt because most of the women your heart is going out to would fight to keep it that way. That is the inherent beauty in different cultures and why freedom of religion is accepted to be an inherent right by everyone except the courts who destroys it at nearly every turn.







I don't know about that. There has been a uprising in the Muslim culture.. by the women.. because of the treatment they receive by their men

They don't like it.

And I fail to see the beauty into being forced to have sex because the guy wants to.... nothing sensual there... because it is your duty?.. because he says so?.

And the penalty for refusing this order... is what?.. beating?

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Wed 11/02/16 06:51 PM

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Thu 11/03/16 10:13 PM
After some consideration I think some parts of the month should be refrained from sex.

Ewwwe just saying somethings should be left alone.

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Fri 11/04/16 12:59 AM


it shouldnt because most of the women your heart is going out to would fight to keep it that way. That is the inherent beauty in different cultures and why freedom of religion is accepted to be an inherent right by everyone except the courts who destroys it at nearly every turn.







I don't know about that. There has been a uprising in the Muslim culture.. by the women.. because of the treatment they receive by their men

They don't like it.

And I fail to see the beauty into being forced to have sex because the guy wants to.... nothing sensual there... because it is your duty?.. because he says so?.

And the penalty for refusing this order... is what?.. beating?


:thumbsup:

Canada... all ready has a CULTURE.
When did Ontario ask or need Islamic/ Sharia 'instructions'? laugh

And you are right, "Ban The Burqa" is happening all over the world. Including by Muslim women. And Muslim divorce is at an all time high.
The more Muslim women are exposed to the real world & Western culture. The more freedoms & rights & privileges (like driving & not requiring a male escort), they want.


*That a girl flowers *

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