i stopped going to bars a while ago. they are loud obnoxious and are a place where people just want to hook up. granted they only marginally beat online dating but at least i still have my hearing. besides id rather pick up sober women , its no fun when they are stumbling drunk. you cant date that. id rather meet some one who has their wits about them.

I agree with you man

I used to go to clubs in my younger days. There was a place called Club Domino in Toronto back in the late '70's. It was New Wave music. We had a great time those days. For me, it was more about the music. I wasn't much of a drinker.

I used to waste a lot of money on eight ball, and stumbling women.. I probably wouldn't change much of it...

If you don't drink at all, there is no reason to be in a bar except if that's where you are meeting your friends & then going to dinner in the restaurant attached to the bar LOL...

I don't drink & so no doubt have lost out on meeting a few males b/c they were in a bar when I wasn't LOL...

The bars attached to clubs are just as bad b/c then you have all the drunkenness, plus the loud music from the dance floor. Clubs don't make $ from the admissions fees but from the alcohol served. That's why they have vip areas, bottle service "lounges" etc. To sell more alcohol.

As a non-drinker I really think it's very unattractive to when a drunk person tries to hit on someone (male or female)...how can that ever make a good first impression?

Bars if it's just a drinking establishment aren't much fun unless you have friends with you.
Sports bars can be more interesting because people are there to enjoy the game. There's the excitement of the sport and the friendly bantering and trash talking about sports.
You might skip bars entirely and explore hobbies or pastimes. Join a team. Join a club or group.
Good luck on your search

'hic' I ushed to lub gobbin to barsh, bu den de starteb lettinsh wemens in. Nowb I jush shtay hom an drinks.

I never was one for the bar scene. I really believe that you meet the most people in places not affiliated with dating

One hot spot.. and not really meant to be (I think) is the food supermarket.. especially the cold cut waiting line. You both are just standing there.. you smile at each other B/S a bit about if Boars Head brand is really that much better then the store brand.... and bingo.

A person doesn't have to drink in a bar, but I see the point that people can get obnoxious if drinking. One of the worse things to me, other than how loud it can get, is all the smoke. I haven't been inside a bar in over 10 years.

The best pizza, wings, or jalapeño cheesy breaf is at my favourite sports bar. I don't have to drink to go and enjoy

o'rly...explain that hat choice then

I agree with the title of this thread.



Wait. What kind of bars are you Humans talking about?

lol at the cartoon. but in all ive been to bars in the us, and Germany . not much is different other than the language . Dating at all in any place is a train wreck any more,maybe I reached the you kids get off my lawn stage to early in life. but i detest large crowds.

Dude. You should so hit your local Target. The women that shop there.....Oh My! Head over to the frozen food section and when you see a hot chick there, just walk up to her and state..."You know...you shouldn't be over here standing in the frozen food section". She will then ask you, "Why not?". To which you respond, "Because you could melt all of this stuff". Ahhhhhhh.....her panties will fall.

QUOTE: "Dude. You should so hit your local Target. The women that shop there.....Oh My! Head over to the frozen food section and when you see a hot chick there, just walk up to her and state..."You know...you shouldn't be over here standing in the frozen food section". She will then ask you, "Why not?". To which you respond, "Because you could melt all of this stuff". Ahhhhhhh.....her panties will fall."


More than likely she will either just walk away or report you to the manager (for the bad pick-up line).