Ok so we broke up the night before thanksgiving, for the hundreth time and he is already wanting to come back home, I have no clue what to do but im sick of all the Bull ****, so how do you know when to just let it go?

I would say it is time to move on, unless you feel that he is going to change and stop playing high school games

When all your stuff is on the front porch waiting for you to get home!

sounds like it was over 99 breakups ago...

you know it's over when you say it's over the first time

You know its over when things dont go his way, he sounds childish to me. Get over it and move on he will only try
to bring you down with him. I was in a relationship like
that , THANK GOD, I got over it when I saw what he was
doing and making me feel like it was all my fault, when
really it was his fault..........

I stayed with my ex (notice EX) BF for 2 years thru probably 100 breakups.

NEVER AGAIN. Step away from the drama sweetie.
It's horribly toxic to your system ......... not to mention your heart.

I usually know it's over when the restraining orders show up.

Seriously, protect yourself. If his pattern is to hurt you over and over OR if the pattern is some broken relationship that seems to have ended for "the hundreth time", might consider a final farewell. Why live in a relationship miserable? Love yourself.

Don't let the muscles fool you, my man knows what he's talking about.

i have learned from experience... you know its over when you don't get sad about not seeing him anymore.

LMAO. That first part is just wrong.

But, yeah, it is over babygirl. I mean, he broke up with you and then turns right back around and wants to get back together? Unless you wanna go for 101 breakups, or whatever number you guys are on, stay away from him. Nuff said.

lol so true.. i dated a girl and broke up w/ her because i didnt see it going anywhere, well she most have been bipolar cuz she thought we were meant to be together and didnt want to end. well after the first week of her showin up at my job and bars i would be at and non stop calls.. i had to get a restraining order... that's what i get for hitting it right, damn i wish i wasnt soo damn good

you know it's over when you see that she's made a voodoo doll of you and it's being burned in effigy atop a pyre formed by all your belongings. The signs were probably there beforehand...but eh, I'm not too bright.

I know right? I thought that the b**** was just cold or she wanted to roast some marshmallows with me...mmmm marshmallows

You know its over when the fat lady has laryngitis.

To answer you, and not your post title directly.

It's over as of when he broke it off with you the night before thanksgiving.

That said, be thankful your single and don't have to deal with the drama anymore.

Don't answer calls, don't reply to text messages, etc.

Maybe I shouldn't be the one to preach, because my ex is doing this to me now...calling, texting, saying we can make it work, when we've probably broken up for the ump-teenth time.

It seriously is detrimental to my sanity, my time, and my well-being (loss of sleep almost nightly!).

I'll be thankful when it's all over...

Why do you keep giveing him
all these chance's, how many
more time's will he do this to
you.this is only what i think
close the door be hind him and
let him go, you need better then that....

Here's what you do get a couple of male relative who care about you to tell this to leave you alone or he's in for some naasty health problems. Do not take him back

When you have had enough of the b.s. it is over. Until then, you will continue to put yourself through it.

the fact that ur here asking and aren't sure you want him home... its over baby girl.