Topic: Flirtationship
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Sun 04/22/18 02:03 PM




Flirting on a dating site does not always seem sincere ., more about boosting egos and popularity :wink: waving


This is true. But at least, for me life had never been a pupularity contest anyway. And if 'ego' can be seen in a positive way, it is boosted already in a very special way by a very special person :smile:
I would rather win someone's heart than their ego lars.. but I understand we all have different needs and approach flirting with different agendas waving


Dunno if it's even possible, to win someone's ego, as the ego sometimes prevents us from many things, as in false pride. But it seems, my heart has been won already :smile:
such a declaration lars .. I hope she treasures your heart in return ..

The ego is complex ., and can have an alliance with the heart . .. that is often hidden :angel:

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Sun 04/22/18 02:09 PM





Flirting on a dating site does not always seem sincere ., more about boosting egos and popularity :wink: waving


This is true. But at least, for me life had never been a pupularity contest anyway. And if 'ego' can be seen in a positive way, it is boosted already in a very special way by a very special person :smile:
I would rather win someone's heart than their ego lars.. but I understand we all have different needs and approach flirting with different agendas waving


Dunno if it's even possible, to win someone's ego, as the ego sometimes prevents us from many things, as in false pride. But it seems, my heart has been won already :smile:
such a declaration lars .. I hope she treasures your heart in return ..

The ego is complex ., and can have an alliance with the heart . .. that is often hidden :angel:


I hope the same. But I wouldn't have given it to her as a present, if I wasn't sure, she would treasure it. She didn't steal it though, I gave it to her blushing

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Sun 04/22/18 02:28 PM

β€œA flirtationship is that fun and flirty in-between place of being just friends and without claiming that you’re in a relationship,”

I just came across this word today and wanted to share it here in the forums. I am amused that there is such a word and figured this one should b e in the choices of what people here are looking for. I have been here for almost two years and experienced that a lot of people are just bored or trying to pass time. This word would save a lot of serious people from disappointments and heartbreaks. JMO :angel:


Everyone is going to have a difference in opinion on this subject, depending on what their truely searching for. It's an interesting subject for the forum, although it depends on reality of what happens with in the forum and the responses you receive. You are viewing the site from a woman's observation as what has happened with in the site, since you have been here for two years.

From a males piont of view (mine anyways), flirtationship can only happen if we actually talk with or meet someone we find attractive and interesting. Since joining the site, I have seen changes with in the profiles displayed. Went from being attractive photos of women to naked photos of them. How can you take a naked photo as being serious and only taking up space on the site, or someone displaying a naked photo of a woman that, there now enemies. From the women's side of the site, I do not know, since I do not view males profiles.

Then you have profiles that say nothing or only Hi. More space basicly being wasted on the site and making it more difficult to search out/weed out the female profiles that are real.

Therefore you have to find a real profile and someone of interest before someone can practice Flirtaionship.

It's a fun part of life getting to know someone. Friends with benefits, fun or what? Successful relationship - in someone's opinion? Let's get real about modern day society and how few possible mates we find ourselves attracted too, that they feel the same way, and want to participate in building a future together.

Thousands of different types of dating site. We are adult's we know what happens in life, what's fun, our survival, ect. Age makes a difference in whom we search out and possibly our hope's in our future. How much of this come's down to money. Most site, not all expect men to pay to talk with a woman, why what's the difference in sexes, is this an equal act with in societ, or a way in marketing the oldest profession in the world. Which would be different if people actually found love/partner that way.


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Sun 04/22/18 05:49 PM
If it wern't for the scammers, their provocative pictures, and their conversations there would be no one on here to communicate with. Sorry but many of the women on this site and most other dating sites have little to offer and certainly aren't interested in dating anyone.

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Sun 04/22/18 06:53 PM
shocked

I 've had several dates from paid sites!

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Sun 04/22/18 07:04 PM
Interesting. The ego collaborating with the heart?
Naughty naughty pitchfork

oldkid46's photo
Sun 04/22/18 07:17 PM

shocked

I 've had several dates from paid sites!
the operative question is over what length of time? This month or this year?

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Sun 04/22/18 07:57 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 04/22/18 07:57 PM


shocked

I 've had several dates from paid sites!
the operative question is over what length of time? This month or this year?


I have a man friend here in my city! I don't totally depend on online for a nice outing with. A gentleman.

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Sun 04/22/18 08:24 PM
Ok thank you for all your thoughts here and happy flirting to those who are in a flirtationship bigsmile
Now my next question would be how do you know this relationship is not what it is anymore? Will flirting become more serious thus the relationship changes or flirting becomes too sexual that its not flirting anymore. In short where is the line between just flirting and wanting to become something more? If he flirts everyday does that mean he could be interested in more? If he flirts once or twice a week then hes just bored ? If he flirts with everyone, hes just born a flirt slaphead:laughing:

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Mon 04/23/18 12:55 AM

Ok thank you for all your thoughts here and happy flirting to those who are in a flirtationship bigsmile
Now my next question would be how do you know this relationship is not what it is anymore? Will flirting become more serious thus the relationship changes or flirting becomes too sexual that its not flirting anymore. In short where is the line between just flirting and wanting to become something more? If he flirts everyday does that mean he could be interested in more? If he flirts once or twice a week then hes just bored ? If he flirts with everyone, hes just born a flirt slaphead:laughing:


It becomes more serious, if someone prevents me from going to bed. And me not complaining about it, because listening to my sunshine's beautiful voice is more important than anything else flowerforyou


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Mon 04/23/18 10:16 PM


Ok thank you for all your thoughts here and happy flirting to those who are in a flirtationship bigsmile
Now my next question would be how do you know this relationship is not what it is anymore? Will flirting become more serious thus the relationship changes or flirting becomes too sexual that its not flirting anymore. In short where is the line between just flirting and wanting to become something more? If he flirts everyday does that mean he could be interested in more? If he flirts once or twice a week then hes just bored ? If he flirts with everyone, hes just born a flirt slaphead:laughing:


It becomes more serious, if someone prevents me from going to bed. And me not complaining about it, because listening to my sunshine's beautiful voice is more important than anything else flowerforyou



Have you been flirting Larsi tongue2 youll be knocking her off her feet winking

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Tue 04/24/18 05:21 AM



Ok thank you for all your thoughts here and happy flirting to those who are in a flirtationship bigsmile
Now my next question would be how do you know this relationship is not what it is anymore? Will flirting become more serious thus the relationship changes or flirting becomes too sexual that its not flirting anymore. In short where is the line between just flirting and wanting to become something more? If he flirts everyday does that mean he could be interested in more? If he flirts once or twice a week then hes just bored ? If he flirts with everyone, hes just born a flirt slaphead:laughing:


It becomes more serious, if someone prevents me from going to bed. And me not complaining about it, because listening to my sunshine's beautiful voice is more important than anything else flowerforyou



Have you been flirting Larsi tongue2 youll be knocking her off her feet winking


Not flirting, I think. Just flattering kind of stuff laugh

And should I ever knock her off her feet, I will gently pick her up and carry her into safety and happyness :smile:

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Fri 04/27/18 11:21 PM




Ok thank you for all your thoughts here and happy flirting to those who are in a flirtationship bigsmile
Now my next question would be how do you know this relationship is not what it is anymore? Will flirting become more serious thus the relationship changes or flirting becomes too sexual that its not flirting anymore. In short where is the line between just flirting and wanting to become something more? If he flirts everyday does that mean he could be interested in more? If he flirts once or twice a week then hes just bored ? If he flirts with everyone, hes just born a flirt slaphead:laughing:


It becomes more serious, if someone prevents me from going to bed. And me not complaining about it, because listening to my sunshine's beautiful voice is more important than anything else flowerforyou



Have you been flirting Larsi tongue2 youll be knocking her off her feet winking


Not flirting, I think. Just flattering kind of stuff laugh

And should I ever knock her off her feet, I will gently pick her up and carry her into safety and happyness :smile:

Flattery always gets someone somewhere i guess:angel: but please do not forget your own happyness :thumbsup:

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Fri 04/27/18 11:45 PM
Flirtationship sounds like it may hold promise, and either lead somewhere, or leave you in an awkward painful friendzone. slaphead

I don't like it. mad

Declare your intentions first and then flirt as seems appropriate. winking

A Flirtationship with someone who is married is big trouble. pitchfork

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Fri 04/27/18 11:45 PM
waving tongue2

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Sat 04/28/18 12:37 AM
Flirting becomes more when he ask you out on a date. tongue2

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Sat 04/28/18 02:39 AM

Flirtationship sounds like it may hold promise, and either lead somewhere, or leave you in an awkward painful friendzone. slaphead

I don't like it. mad

Declare your intentions first and then flirt as seems appropriate. winking

A Flirtationship with someone who is married is big trouble. pitchfork

And i agree

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Sat 04/28/18 02:39 AM

waving tongue2

tongue2waving

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Sat 04/28/18 02:40 AM

Flirting becomes more when he ask you out on a date. tongue2

More flirting on the date itself shades

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sat 04/28/18 04:21 AM





Ok thank you for all your thoughts here and happy flirting to those who are in a flirtationship bigsmile
Now my next question would be how do you know this relationship is not what it is anymore? Will flirting become more serious thus the relationship changes or flirting becomes too sexual that its not flirting anymore. In short where is the line between just flirting and wanting to become something more? If he flirts everyday does that mean he could be interested in more? If he flirts once or twice a week then hes just bored ? If he flirts with everyone, hes just born a flirt slaphead:laughing:


It becomes more serious, if someone prevents me from going to bed. And me not complaining about it, because listening to my sunshine's beautiful voice is more important than anything else flowerforyou



Have you been flirting Larsi tongue2 youll be knocking her off her feet winking


Not flirting, I think. Just flattering kind of stuff laugh

And should I ever knock her off her feet, I will gently pick her up and carry her into safety and happyness :smile:

Flattery always gets someone somewhere i guess:angel: but please do not forget your own happyness :thumbsup:


My own happiness? Looks like, I am really happy, not only the usual happy, whenever I chat with my Sunshine. Can't imagine how it will be, meeting her for the first time. Heart beating like a jackhammer? Fainting? Maybe both? blushing