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Topic: What am I doing wrong?
Unknow Joined Sat 02/17/18 Posts: 27	Sun 05/13/18 10:20 PM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong.

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Sun 05/13/18 10:30 PM
Your counting chickens still in the shell. If you truly matched, did you message any of them? If you want to get a womans attention, message her. You cant leave it up to the site to take the steps for you.

EngelbertQwerty Joined Sun 05/13/18 Posts: 16	Sun 05/13/18 10:36 PM
There are a great number of scammers in here, Sir! As a free site, you cannot expect the "cream of the crop". Most people in here are no doubt just "messing around". Awfully sorry I cannot be more encouraging.

Devo1974 Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 12179	Sun 05/13/18 10:40 PM
Stop hitting yes on the obvious fakes, I know you want them to be real but c'mon dude, you know they ain't. 800 mutual matches? I bet 785 are fakes and the 15 that aren't you didn't message cause they aren't as hot as the fakes.

iam_resurrected Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 985	Sun 05/13/18 10:47 PM
how about instead of waiting to be matched, you actually do a search on your own and then contact them. yeah yeah yeah, we like the drive thru menu and get it to go special. technology has created a reason to be lazy. but every woman i have been with or knew/know hates a lazy man!! j/s

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 05/13/18 11:55 PM
Contact them. Read the profile. Unheard of i kniw. Then start a conversation.

princess2450 Joined Tue 09/20/16 Posts: 115	Mon 05/14/18 04:08 AM
All the replies I read have very valid points..... Most of all, read the profiles, and I mean actually read them carefully.... You will gather a lot of information about your lady of interest.... I noticed that a great many gentlemen do not provide much information about themselves they put the vague I will tell you later, or even worse nothing at all.... That for me is a total negative and I will not reply.... Contact us, we like it when you say hello.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Mon 05/14/18 04:22 AM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. Uh, your profile says that your marital status is Separated. That alone will keep women away from you.

maxsand Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 52	Mon 05/14/18 05:21 AM
These woman are beauty queens.....lol

StL1 Joined Sun 01/03/10 Posts: 94	Mon 05/14/18 07:28 AM
how about instead of waiting to be matched, you actually do a search on your own and then contact them. yeah yeah yeah, we like the drive thru menu and get it to go special. technology has created a reason to be lazy. but every woman i have been with or knew/know hates a lazy man!! j/s Iam_notgoingtohavetolookatyouruglykisseroverherenowami?

sariw Joined Mon 05/14/18 Posts: 10	Mon 05/14/18 07:53 AM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. Be careful with scammer! 🤣🤣

sariw Joined Mon 05/14/18 Posts: 10	Mon 05/14/18 07:53 AM
Stop hitting yes on the obvious fakes, I know you want them to be real but c'mon dude, you know they ain't. 800 mutual matches? I bet 785 are fakes and the 15 that aren't you didn't message cause they aren't as hot as the fakes. Ahahahaaa... Good response!

sariw Joined Mon 05/14/18 Posts: 10	Mon 05/14/18 07:57 AM
I have done a mutual match with over 800 ladies and I have not got even one person to reply that's serious about a relationship. I need some help from someone to give me some advice of what I am doing wrong. Uh, your profile says that your marital status is Separated. That alone will keep women away from you. Ahahahaaa

undrboss Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 522	Mon 05/14/18 08:08 AM
the problem is any woman who is seriously looking for a man for a long term relationship will be turned off by certain things in your profile. the one poster that mentioned your "separated" status is right and the other is the age that your looking for? When a woman sees a man at your age looking for as young as 26, throws up red flags. Its nice to be honest but sometimes that honesty may cost you. I dont know what your separated status is but you should work on getting divorced and maybe upping your age limit.

sariw Joined Mon 05/14/18 Posts: 10	Mon 05/14/18 08:16 AM
the problem is any woman who is seriously looking for a man for a long term relationship will be turned off by certain things in your profile. the one poster that mentioned your "separated" status is right and the other is the age that your looking for? When a woman sees a man at your age looking for as young as 26, throws up red flags. Its nice to be honest but sometimes that honesty may cost you. I dont know what your separated status is but you should work on getting divorced and maybe upping your age limit. Aha! Right.. ️️️️️️️

sarah123q Joined Mon 05/14/18 Posts: 3	Mon 05/14/18 09:00 AM
Wow you're in desperate need of a woman. 800 and not even 1 response. that's a new record LoL. perhaps you're looking in the wrong places. you wanna have a chat text her not flirt her.

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Mon 05/14/18 09:11 AM
What am I doing wrong? Everything and Nothing... 3 months on a free dating site. A world-wide dating site that potentially could have 7.5 BILLION other members. Each one here for their own reasons. At what point does optimism for your goals turn into gullibility in your perception of success in attaining those goals? Do you live in a world where you always get what you want right away? *"If you buy a diamond ring for a dollar, chances are high you own a diamond ring not worth a dime."*

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Mon 05/14/18 04:43 PM
I am having real conversation with men on emails. However, I search for certain areas and then I message them. I am a woman and. I will contact those in the right states and my Age group. Some women do not do that. But I am seeking.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14437	Mon 05/14/18 05:17 PM
the problem is any woman who is seriously looking for a man for a long term relationship will be turned off by certain things in your profile. the one poster that mentioned your "separated" status is right and the other is the age that your looking for? When a woman sees a man at your age looking for as young as 26, throws up red flags. Its nice to be honest but sometimes that honesty may cost you. I dont know what your separated status is but you should work on getting divorced and maybe upping your age limit. I agree!!

GearGrinder83 Joined Sat 04/28/18 Posts: 50	Mon 05/14/18 06:31 PM
Probably nothing. My brother met his wife from a free-to-use dating site. Just have fun and be yourself. Pursue it if that's what you want... but not like a freight train at first. Once you've been dating, then you can run after her taxi cabs and get run over like on Hitch. But too early on before she knows you then it's scary.