Topic: sunglasses hide you
pearljack's photo
Sat 05/19/18 02:31 AM
Keep searching for that one, read profile seam ok, look to profile, plenty of other things, his profile-hes wearing sunglasses, cant see what he looks like properly, smacks of something to hide or thinks he looks cool. Not doing himself any favours cos I just skim across them then. Men say they want to see the real ladies, well we want to see your faces too. Sunglasses are not cool, nor are photos taken 15 years ago, I met someone recently for coffee, he needed to upgrade his photos big time, I was shocked.....still looking

Easttowest72's photo
Sat 05/19/18 03:06 AM
Guys need to take off sunglasses, caps, etc. People trying to date should always post recent pics and pics from different angles.

singer80918's photo
Sat 05/19/18 03:24 AM
Why does appearance mean so much? Isn't there more to a person than just what they look like? It seems fickle to base whether or not one likes a person based on the date stamp of the picture. Very fickle. And yet, men are criticised for objectifying women this way, when it goes both ways.

no photo
Sat 05/19/18 04:34 AM

Keep searching for that one, read profile seam ok, look to profile, plenty of other things, his profile-hes wearing sunglasses, cant see what he looks like properly, smacks of something to hide or thinks he looks cool. Not doing himself any favours cos I just skim across them then. Men say they want to see the real ladies, well we want to see your faces too. Sunglasses are not cool, nor are photos taken 15 years ago, I met someone recently for coffee, he needed to upgrade his photos big time, I was shocked.....still looking


I saw that guy too.. the one with the sunglasses. Certainly hiding something, I'm going out on a limb and will spread the rumor that he's a perv

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 05/19/18 10:47 AM
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Sat 05/19/18 10:49 AM
Make-up also hides you.
Extreme hair styles also hide you.
Clothes hide you.

I agree, pictures with sunglasses are not suitible for a dating profile.
I also realize that not everyone that is a member at M2 is looking for a relationship or even a date.

In most cases, it IS the profile picture that attracts the inital contact.
That's just a reality and it is a reality in the real world too.
You don't normally approach someone that doesn't appeal to you.
Some will argue that they are interested in the personality first but to get interested in the personality you still have to be able to tolerate their appearance enough to take time to get interested in their personality.

As for the guys that wear sunglasses in their main profile pic...
Thank You...
You are making it that much easier for the rest of us.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 05/19/18 12:52 PM
Sunglasses aren't cool. Men should post update photos unless they plan not to meet in person. laugh

Zuglo65's photo
Sun 05/20/18 06:21 AM

Guys need to take off sunglasses, caps, etc. People trying to date should always post recent pics and pics from different angles.

Everyone should do that.
:thumbsup:

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Sun 05/20/18 09:49 AM

I think it’s up to the person if they choose to have A PIC with sunglasses :sunglasses: on...but they need to
have a few other ones without them! :wink:. I have a pic with sunglasses on,
but don’t normally use it as my main pic...I’m also NOT here for dating either, so it doesn’t matter anyway! :blush:

WilliamsNEEDSlove's photo
Sun 05/20/18 11:04 AM
I would like to see your face cos I’m in want of a good woman for a serious relationship...

pearljack's photo
Mon 05/21/18 09:46 PM
you can see my face and the rest of me too. very conscious that lots of men don't like bbw, so can see on profile what to expect. But there is more to me than the outer shell, but I don't have sunglasses on in any photos. and where my photos may be 2 years old,they are no older, certainly not 20 years ago as I recently found out to my shock......he was an old man....was not impressed

pearljack's photo
Mon 05/21/18 09:47 PM
could be, but cant class all of the guys who wear sunglasses in the same cast, some just have no idea, a woman wants to see your face,your eyes, will have them on when you wake up in the morning by her side,well be mature and serious,if you intend to be I reckon

no photo
Mon 05/21/18 09:51 PM
My very first online photo was a pic of me wearing a pink baseball cap with sunglasses .. it was taken at the beach ...I didn't know what kind of site mingle was and I was happy to be anonymous .

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 05/22/18 06:16 AM
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