Topic: Why can't I move on😭😭
Jaeshinlee's photo
Tue 07/03/18 11:04 PM
Can you give me some advice plss:broken_heart::broken_heart: the truth is my girlfriend broke up with me and I don't know anyone who can understand what I'm feeling rightnow:sob::sob:

soufiehere's photo
Tue 07/03/18 11:47 PM
Well pumpkin, tell us the whole story ;-)

Jaeshinlee's photo
Wed 07/04/18 03:20 AM
Edited by Jaeshinlee on Wed 07/04/18 03:21 AM
My girlfriend broke up with me this past few day and I know that it is my fault because I dont have much time to be with her cause I really am busy at work:sob::sob: she knows that I really love her and I really want to see her every day and every time that I have my free time I really love to surprise her :sob::sob::sob::sob:but the last time I did that she broke up with me :broken_heart::broken_heart: Ive been crying all night cause I really miss her and love her :sob::sob: I don't even know what to do :pensive::pensive: can you tell if it is really my fault or not :broken_heart:

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Wed 07/04/18 07:10 AM
Do you feel you work too much, or that she is not being supportive in what you’re trying to accomplish? The answer to that should help you relate better to what you’re feeling. flowerforyou

Jaeshinlee's photo
Wed 07/04/18 08:03 AM
Yes I know that I worked too much ang sometimes when I feel really tired I can't even get to text her but as a return when I have my free time I always go out with her and surprise her :pensive::pensive: but I don't know if really supports me in my career:pensive::pensive:.
And btw thank you

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 07/04/18 08:49 AM


Most people don't hurt the ones they love.

Try to realize that she is not the one for you.
Find healthy self-esteem and learn from the experience.
No matter what you do, what you say, you can't MAKE someone else love you.
You will never see from behind anyone else's eyes.

Depression is self-propogating.
Break the pattern by concentrating on things that YOU like.
Only you can take charge of your own emotional state.
Only you can change feelings you feel.
Take back your contentment, only you have the power to do so.

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Wed 07/04/18 08:51 AM
I dont what anyone can tell you man.

Break ups are hard, difficult and painful and a part of life.

if you dont have friends, family or colleagues for support, there is nothing strangers can tell you .

I wish you the best of luck.

Jaeshinlee's photo
Wed 07/04/18 12:57 PM
I want to say thank you all for giving me an advice it really helps me to motivate my self to start a new life without her, I think it's time to let her go even if it's hard , and yes maybe we're not really meant for each other and I hope I will find a girl here in this app , a girl that can understand me a girl that supports me in everything what I do , a girl who loves me as much as I do


And once again thank you guys for everything:blush::blush:

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Wed 07/04/18 02:31 PM
Edited by Nofearinlove on Wed 07/04/18 02:33 PM
Try and move on dear. I really know how hard it is i almost die years back because of brakeup. Is really painful but try and move on, the best is yet to come. God bless you

Jaeshinlee's photo
Wed 07/04/18 02:48 PM
Yes I will ma'am thank you:relaxed: