why do men go for booobs butt and stomach instead of personality?:(cause i have none exect personality

cause they r piggs??? thats my guess

400,000 years of evolution. It's biology m'dear.

personally physical attraction is a part of what i look for, but even the most beautiful woman can be physically unattractive if she opens her mouth and something stupid or ignorant comes spewing out of it. it's a huge turn off to try to have an intelligent conversation and keep getting asked, "what's that mean" or being told, "i don't get it." really annoying.

My theory on this is because the most important purpose for a lot of men when they get to a certain age is reproduction. Boobs, hips (not butt), and stomach show a woman to be a good candidate to carry a child. Hence, we look for potential mothers. Normally, you'd think that this would make men go for more heavyset women. However, popular media is making men see women who are WAY too skinny as "sexy". This is my opinion on the subject.

Bravo

its no that men go for it,
one, its most mens turn on
two, its sometimes a challenge for a man to get that, because women who have a model's
body, know that they can have most any guy they want, and push most of us to the curb.

But as for me, its all about the person. i dont play games, and i dont believe in liars.

at least some guys talk sense:p

Maybe cause it takes no time at all to check out someone's physique and have an instant physical attraction whereas it could take quite a while to pick up on someone's true personality.

Men who go for boob, butt and flat stomach are just physical, and that dies out...they need to start looking deeper, otherwise it's just a shallow relationship; Us women don't want that.

just dont let the other guys make us good guys look bad, there are good guys out there, keep your head up, good things come in time. ive been single for a little over 5 years, im not really lookin, back when i was lookin, i was lookin way too hard, it was frustrating, now that im not lookin, i have more women talking to me.

It probably has to do with the body type of ourselves a bit, too. People generally go for the same body type as themselves. Other people are just plain perverts. But whatever, let 'em be.

what a load of ballox
it about sex sex and more sex
and the visual aspect of sex
end of story

I blame the media for that one... Girls are portrayed to look slim, sexy, and brain dead per-say - beauty can only go so far when there's no brains to back it up.

Same goes for the guys... all muscle and no brains - not attractive...

Balance is what's missing in today's modern-world...

Sorry I feel opinionated today...

its not all men...im a big girl and i have alot of men who find me attractive. i dont focus or dwell on what OTHERS think is wrong with me...love yourself and it will reflect to others. sexy is all in the attitude i have said that many times. i love who i am, if someone else doesnt that is their choice, oh well...move on.

Why do girls go for guys with a nice butt and a great stomach!

Everyone is going to have desires for the "perfect" person no matter if it's the physical attributes or not and it's all about finding that person who views you as that perfect woman/man. Or something... I don't know...

But beauty, true beauty, really doesn't come from a way a person looks. Sometimes it just takes some people a little longer to figure that out.

If you feel sexy about your body, then don't worry about it; they will come to you....Different strokes for different folks...I think you feeling sexy makes others think of you that way...so flaunt yourself, love yourself and your body, be confident and you will lure men.

Y'all can deny biology all you want with the oft-repeated, "men/women should look at personality not looks," but the fact remains, we have been programmed to search out mates that have the greatest chance of surviving and passing on genes. For men that means a woman that is not too fat and not too thin, has good-sized (also not too big or small) breasts, a small waist and hips big enough to allow for child-birth.

I'm not saying this natural inclination is a good thing and/or can't be overcome. Rather, it's just how it is.

Men can be so superficial sometimes but they usually justify this by pointing out the fairer sex's superficialities like they're only interested in money etc. etc.

well phisical atraction is nice but its definitly not my main concern. but i hate that women ask whats with guys wanting all that, women are just as bad as guys when it comes to being lustful. tho im not saying all women.