Topic: why do men go for booobs butt and stomach instead of persona
RealtyLady's photo
Thu 12/06/07 12:27 PM
2 funnylaugh

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Thu 12/06/07 12:45 PM
For the same reason women like certain physical traits in men. You like what you like.

welshboy's photo
Thu 12/06/07 12:49 PM
well i look at the eyes first, then the smile then i look at her figure afterwords

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Thu 12/06/07 12:54 PM
I look at faces, I'm a sucker for a cute face. Grr...

daniel48706's photo
Thu 12/06/07 01:59 PM

why do men go for booobs butt and stomach instead of personality?:(cause i have none exect personality


I am sory hun, maybe its a bad picture, but it looks to me like you DO have boobs, belly and a butt. I can definitely see two of them (boobs and belly) and I am assuming you are using your butt to sit on that gorgeous horse :smile: Hope your having a good day devil

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Thu 12/06/07 02:44 PM
Because they aren't men, they are boys. Just like the boys who have to have that "pretty face" crap. drinker

damnitscloudy's photo
Thu 12/06/07 02:46 PM
Because the belly is fun to poke! Just ask FallinAngel :tongue:

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Thu 12/06/07 08:58 PM
its simiple really personality and looks are important...if a girl looks good but has a ****ty personality all she gets is short term...if she got a good mix of both she gets a bit more assuming a lot of other factors

AlohaTEX's photo
Thu 12/06/07 09:00 PM
now that i think of it....

when i look at a man...the first thing i notice are his SHOES!
i guess it goes both ways...

KINDA SORTA:tongue:

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 12/06/07 09:02 PM
women are the same

i have to be attracted to a guy
personality is important also

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 12/06/07 09:13 PM
Edited by geektothetenth on Thu 12/06/07 09:14 PM
wow some people are bitter. You're born with what you got, make the best of it, deal with it and be secure in yourself. Hey I'd love to be 6ft tall ain't gonna happen so there's no use in me crying over women who want to only date tall men. I smoke, some women don't want to date a smoker, that's fine, they are entitled to their preferences. I'll admit it, I have no qualms about it, I like attractive independent women with intelligence, sense of humor, wit, who's loving, and caring.

What kind of message would it send to the women I'm conversing with if I just said, oh looks don't matter to me? Looks are just part of the equation. Pretty girls with empty heads aren't my cup of tea either. So am I discriminating against the girls who aren't smart? Why don't people make an issue about that too.

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Thu 12/06/07 10:15 PM

Y'all can deny biology all you want with the oft-repeated, "men/women should look at personality not looks," but the fact remains, we have been programmed to search out mates that have the greatest chance of surviving and passing on genes. For men that means a woman that is not too fat and not too thin, has good-sized (also not too big or small) breasts, a small waist and hips big enough to allow for child-birth.

I'm not saying this natural inclination is a good thing and/or can't be overcome. Rather, it's just how it is.

She speaks truth. Men select women for a high replication value and women select men for a high survival value.

That's what you get when you ask "why?" which is meaningless without asking a "how?"

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:21 PM
I'd ask yokoke but pua got her banned. Thanks.

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:24 PM


Y'all can deny biology all you want with the oft-repeated, "men/women should look at personality not looks," but the fact remains, we have been programmed to search out mates that have the greatest chance of surviving and passing on genes. For men that means a woman that is not too fat and not too thin, has good-sized (also not too big or small) breasts, a small waist and hips big enough to allow for child-birth.

I'm not saying this natural inclination is a good thing and/or can't be overcome. Rather, it's just how it is.

She speaks truth. Men select women for a high replication value and women select men for a high survival value.

That's what you get when you ask "why?" which is meaningless without asking a "how?"


I wouldn't call it biological imparitive though. Throughout time and between cultures people have different ideas of beauty. You can see how the image of beauty has changed by looking at art and the models used for art. A lot of women who are considered hot now would have been too thin back in older times. I cited other examples somewhere else in this post.

Chinese people consider light skin and tiny feet to be attractive traits. These are both disadvantageous in that low melanin increases sun burn and tiny feet make you easier to push over lol.

It's part biology, but society and class systems play a large role as well.

dcrdnk's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:27 PM
Probly the same reason women go for BIG GUYS

You can't grab hold of personality laugh laugh

Gustava's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:32 PM

I wouldn't call it biological imparitive though. Throughout time and between cultures people have different ideas of beauty. You can see how the image of beauty has changed by looking at art and the models used for art. A lot of women who are considered hot now would have been too thin back in older times. I cited other examples somewhere else in this post.

Chinese people consider light skin and tiny feet to be attractive traits. These are both disadvantageous in that low melanin increases sun burn and tiny feet make you easier to push over lol.

It's part biology, but society and class systems play a large role as well.

Yes, you are correct. However, the "ideal," as displayed by art, is an embracement of the construct of the artist's imagination by society rather than a true reflection of biological imperative.

Gustava's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:32 PM

Probly the same reason women go for BIG GUYS

You can't grab hold of personality laugh laugh

Don't like the big guys.

BlueskyJ's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:39 PM
Everyone has what I call their 'personal agenda'....otherwise known as Checklist 101....nothing wrong with that....hey there are plenty of fish in the sea....why swim with the sharks when you can have your Goldfish....

Personally, its a package deal for me & I want the whole package....looks, brains, personality....even if i sucklaugh

dcrdnk's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:40 PM


Probly the same reason women go for BIG GUYS

You can't grab hold of personality laugh laugh

Don't like the big guys.


damnit too young laugh laugh drinker drinker glasses

summertyme25's photo
Thu 12/06/07 10:40 PM
You have to have physical attraction some where other wise you will not satisfy there need see simple