so last week i went on a date with this girl, got little too excited over text. did i MAKE her friendzone me or was this bound to happen? i mean i'm just speaking my mind on text and if she was receptive she wouldn't have friendzoned me, no? the date went great too, first date but we kissed n held hands n stuff.

her : Thank you for today. It was so nice to meet you!

me : Likewise
me : Ill probably miss u lol
me : *definitely
me : I feel insecure. Can u tell me something definitive? Lol

her : Sorry i fell asleep on the train

me : Nicr
me : Nice*

her : Still not home

me : Im still drunk
me : thats what u get for stayin out late

her : Emoticons

me : Wtf? Lol
me : Lets meet again soon i truly like u i wont screw this up

her : I’d like to see you again. But I have to be honest with you. I have too much to work through before giving anyone my heart.

me : I can help u work on that

her : It’s like this last relationship took something from me. It would be unfair to pursue something in my state

me : U call the shots
me : What do u want?
me : I know im messed up too

her : I just dont want to be like this anymore.
me : But i know theres hope

me : Like what

her : I can’t give anyone a million broken pieces
her : This is ****ed up

me : I saw beauty in u
me : Lol i was blinded
me : Uhgggg im drunk lo
me : Lol
me : Ima call u lol
me : No?
me : Ill let u be. Sorry


her : Just got home
her : Let’s talk tomorrow :)

me : Thank you
me : Good night
(bit of small talk here)
me : I wanna give you my best. I hope you give me a chance

her : You’re an amazing guy

me : U too
me : An amazing girl

her : I am just not ready for to give anyone my heart atm

me : So its a no..
me : U dont have to be ready. Id like to believe in miracles lol
me : U saw me. Im not ready either. Sometimes we need help
me : Give it a chance please. I know something really good can come out of this. I believe it.
me :(next morning) ...im sorry i was drunk. We'll take it slow

her : Hope you slept well
her : I can be your friend but I don’t want to give you the idea that it’s more than that. I’m not ready and you aren’t either.

me : I want it to be more than that and i think in time it should be
me : I felt happy. I want more of that. Id like to think i made you happy too..

her : Yes it was a great day but I have to be in love for this to be more
her : And my heart just won’t allow anyone in yet
her : So i am not goin to waste your time

Jesus H. Tap dancin' Christ!


How many versions of this very
same topic, do you need to post?


Your questions were answered in
your last thread about this very same
topic.

i just wanna get to the bottom of this so i can learn

You come off a bit needy and sounds like she's not interested.

oh shes definitely not interested at the moment. i wanna know if me being drunk and spilling my bean was the cause.. i mean does my texting look really bad? its hard for me be objective about it.

Already in progress:
https://mingle2.com/topic/565239