Topic: Are you looking to talk or actually meet??
larkygal's photo
Thu 01/03/19 10:36 AM

Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women.

larkygal's photo
Thu 01/03/19 10:45 AM
I resent that remark. I do not look for a man with resources that i can steal. I do look for ones who can resource himself as well I do myself.
Most of the men I have talked to on these sites wants money from me since they seem to think since I am an old single American woman then I have to be rich.
Scamming is gender nutrial so please do not lump all women into one group. I don't do that to men.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Thu 01/03/19 11:04 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Thu 01/03/19 11:05 AM

I resent that remark. I do not look for a man with resources that i can steal. I do look for ones who can resource himself as well I do myself.
Most of the men I have talked to on these sites wants money from me since they seem to think since I am an old single American woman then I have to be rich.
Scamming is gender nutrial so please do not lump all women into one group. I don't do that to men.



Me too...

I may not have *much*...but I don't want someone who has less than *I* do...

Not interested in these guys who "walked away from " everything and are living in a camper...
Who the h**l "walks away" from everything you worked hard for all your life?

Or guys who claim they "lost everything" in a the divorce..and are living in a camper...
*I* have been divorced..if you "lost everything" at your age (no child support, kids are grown)..either you had a bad lawyer..or you got caught cheating or something..

I suspect many of these guys who claim to have "walked away from" everything or "lost it all" in a divorce actiually had some other reason for that..

Gambling...maybe..

Sadly....many of the guys in my age range seem to be looking for a "nurse or a purse"..as I overheard a woman say last week at an evcevt I went to...noway

Cooter91's photo
Fri 01/04/19 12:41 AM
I'm real an looking for some fun got to be close to my area either sex or both massage me an just so you know I'm new at this

no photo
Fri 01/04/19 03:16 AM


Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women.


And that’s a load of BS! I don’t need any man’s resources, I have everything I need.

noway

every thing accept handy man skillstongue2

no photo
Fri 01/04/19 04:14 AM

I resent that remark. I do not look for a man with resources that i can steal. I do look for ones who can resource himself as well I do myself.
Most of the men I have talked to on these sites wants money from me since they seem to think since I am an old single American woman then I have to be rich.
Scamming is gender nutrial so please do not lump all women into one group. I don't do that to men.



Absolutely - I agree scamming is gender neutral!laugh

JustBeHonest's photo
Fri 01/04/19 05:39 AM



Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women.


And that’s a load of BS! I don’t need any man’s resources, I have everything I need.

noway

every thing accept handy man skillstongue2



Shhhh why would tell them that? Besides, I got you for that.

no photo
Fri 01/04/19 05:41 AM
Looking for a real people :nerd:

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 01/04/19 06:50 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 01/04/19 06:51 AM


Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women.


Not true! I'm self sufficient, own my own home and car and retired 6 yrs ago. I certainly don't need a man to 'keep' me



I am self sufficient, financially blessed and I desire a serious Partner to have the same.




Bob K's photo
Fri 01/04/19 07:06 AM
Of the past ten likes or nudges or whatever, the average age of the girl was 27. Which is cool if I was, say, even 40. But at 62 I’m thinking alterior motive :)
Having said that, I recently met a nice lady here, we have just started talking. She is obviously real and I think wading through all the scammers to find her was worth it. I don’t know if we’ll have a friendship or relationship, but at least there is a real chance that could happen :)

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Fri 01/04/19 08:40 AM

Of the past ten likes or nudges or whatever, the average age of the girl was 27. Which is cool if I was, say, even 40. But at 62 I’m thinking alterior motive :)
Having said that, I recently met a nice lady here, we have just started talking. She is obviously real and I think wading through all the scammers to find her was worth it. I don’t know if we’ll have a friendship or relationship, but at least there is a real chance that could happen :)



Here's the thing that irritates me..

Just what you said...we ALL get inundated with fakes/ scammemers, so..when you are actually messaged by a real person, your natural instinct is to assume it is another fake/ scammer...
So, you ask them some things to verify they are real and live where they claim...and THEY get an attitude....don't like to be questioned, tell you you have "issues"...

Damn, skippy....I'm sorry I don't have the crystal ball to tell that YOU, as oppossed to the previous 128 people that messaged me..that *you* are actually for real/ legit..
Instead of getting an attitude, try understanding, and working with me here...

bonne's photo
Fri 01/04/19 09:33 AM
I beg to differ. There are women who are self sufficient and DON'T NEED MENS RESOURCES. Its unfortunate for the ones that are like that, they are ruining it for us good women

bonne's photo
Fri 01/04/19 09:34 AM
for sure, makes us honest ones look bad with the gold diggers out there

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 01/04/19 10:57 AM

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That had you tongue-tied for a bit ...................... laugh

mysticalview21's photo
Sat 01/05/19 09:30 AM
both ... talk then meet local ... if possible ...

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 01/05/19 11:03 AM

oops meant to say only looking to get laidlaugh



laugh

marie's photo
Sat 01/05/19 02:58 PM
I'm new here but I hope I will have some luck ,so far so good :wink: :wink:

olivepit's photo
Sat 01/05/19 03:08 PM

oops meant to say only looking to get laidlaugh


Dat be true but you left out over and over. Oh and over again.

🍫 KitKat 🍫's photo
Sat 01/05/19 03:12 PM


oops meant to say only looking to get laidlaugh


Dat be true but you left out over and over. Oh and over again.


You going to come and show me how it's done?:wink:

olivepit's photo
Sat 01/05/19 03:31 PM



oops meant to say only looking to get laidlaugh


Dat be true but you left out over and over. Oh and over again.


You going to come and show me how it's done?:wink:


I'm scared I'd never want to leave.smitten