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Topic: OMG! I made her feel good about herself
Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Tue 02/26/19 10:52 PM
Say it isn't so! I actually allowed her to feel good about herself. What's more, I instiganted it. Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! To top it all off, I;m not looking for a benny from this. Gawd, am I losing my manliness? I should at least get some sex from it! What the hell was I thinking?

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 02/27/19 01:39 AM
Lol, Tom you usually do do things for people and from what I can tell for the woman you're with without expecting anything in return... so this is no surprise to me. But... I have a feeling that isn't the point of your post It simply feels good to do so. And much better than tearing someone down... To me, that serves no purpose.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Wed 02/27/19 01:47 AM
Well done, now keep at it! A romantic relationship is all about making each other feel good. Why else would you be together?

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Wed 02/27/19 05:50 AM
Wow, Tom is a real man! There just aren’t many left who get it. I’m so lucky that I actually found one. Now if only we could teach the others. Grasshopper, you have much to learn from him.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 02/27/19 08:29 AM
Say it isn't so! I actually allowed her to feel good about herself. What's more, I instiganted it. Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! To top it all off, I;m not looking for a benny from this. Gawd, am I losing my manliness? I should at least get some sex from it! What the hell was I thinking? Don't worry, she's still going to think you wanted something out of it anyway.

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Wed 02/27/19 01:02 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Wed 02/27/19 01:05 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother His reasons don’t matter to me!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14448	Wed 02/27/19 01:12 PM
If a man cares about his woman, that is what he should do. Make her feel good about herself. However, she should also feel good about herself, herself.

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Wed 02/27/19 01:15 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother His reasons don’t matter to me! Oh are you the recipient? scratch that, makes no difference to me, I stand by my statement

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 02/27/19 01:29 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother I've heard of that Johnny... also that a true act of kindness is one that goes unnoticed. But I have a feeling he was talking about not promoting it to her. Guess we'll know more when he comments.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Wed 02/27/19 01:41 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother I've heard of that Johnny... also that a true act of kindness is one that goes unnoticed. But I have a feeling he was talking about not promoting it to her. Guess we'll know more when he comments. I agree with John and River Also, saying "I actually allowed her to feel good about herself." Holy cow! You ALLOWED this poor woman to feel good about herself? Boy oh boy! This poor woman must have a very low self-esteem and must feel so blessed that YOU are allowing her to be with you. How about eating some humble pie?

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Wed 02/27/19 01:55 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother I've heard of that Johnny... also that a true act of kindness is one that goes unnoticed. But I have a feeling he was talking about not promoting it to her. Guess we'll know more when he comments. Yes I've heard that too but I'd add: a true act of kindness is one that goes unnoticed and never goes unpunished Taking credit for NOT Promoting it to her would be one of the strangest thing I've ever heard, Tom?

Vera Joined Sun 03/31/13 Posts: 304	Wed 02/27/19 02:05 PM
....I actually allowed her to feel good about herself..... without promoting my own agenda..... not looking for a benny from this....I should at least get some sex from it! Honestly speaking, I hope this lady will never ever read your text!!!

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 02/27/19 02:23 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother I've heard of that Johnny... also that a true act of kindness is one that goes unnoticed. But I have a feeling he was talking about not promoting it to her. Guess we'll know more when he comments. Yes I've heard that too but I'd add: a true act of kindness is one that goes unnoticed and never goes unpunished Taking credit for NOT Promoting it to her would be one of the strangest thing I've ever heard, Tom? True! It does seem strange and a little arrogant... especially after seeing things from rosie's perspective... IMHO

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Wed 02/27/19 02:24 PM
Lordy be. I actually made someone I care about feel good about something that she care about without promoting my own agenda. Say it isn't so! One might consider this thread as "agenda" material Tom. If more than 2 people know of your good deed, you've done it for the wrong reasons IMHO. You have a nice day brother His reasons don’t matter to me! Oh are you the recipient? scratch that, makes no difference to me, I stand by my statement No I’m not the recipient from Tom but my bf makes me feel good every day and I do the same for him. That’s good for our relationship. During my marriage, hubby made me feel bad every day. Nice change!

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Thu 02/28/19 04:55 AM
You deserve that JBH, every day

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Thu 02/28/19 05:03 AM
You deserve that JBH, every day Thank you

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 02/28/19 05:57 AM
If a man cares about his woman, that is what he should do. Make her feel good about herself. However, she should also feel good about herself, herself. Right, YOU make yourself see your beauty. When in a relationship, your partner should acknowledge your beauty, but that does no good if YOU can't see it yourself.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Thu 02/28/19 07:55 AM Edited by luv2roknroll on Thu 02/28/19 07:55 AM
I;m not looking for a benny from this.

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Thu 02/28/19 10:58 PM
Seiously, do you REALLY think I care? This was a test to see where y'all would go with it. I know I treat women with respect. Whoopie ding. Most of you know I am not looking for anyone right now. So consider this as something other than me trying to boost my ego. Thanx for the comments.