Topic: All Must Reply do not run away from this question
Lily0923's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:23 PM

Yea well Im hot as hell, I know it, I love and Im only single because people are intimidated by my intoxicating beauty.


I am intimidated by your hotness. But I will take you out and take the wingmen.

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Sun 12/09/07 09:23 PM


I bet you are just ASSUMING that theyre judging you based on your looks when in reality they're just getting turned off by your desperation-scented cologne :tongue:


thats it, I'm changing to a new cologne:)

I recommend the fun-dangerous-and-aloof-scented cologne. The ladies really seem to gravitate toward that smell :wink:

italian_half's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:25 PM
Edited by italian_half on Sun 12/09/07 09:27 PM
We all have certain people we are attracted to physically.

Maybe most men, in general, are attracted to Jennifer Aniston, or most women, in general, are attracted to Brad Pitt. However, just because we are attracted to them, doesn't mean they are attracted to us.

The same is true of the (non-celebrity) women you are attracted to. You might be attracted to them, but they might not be attracted to you.

The best thing to do, is take it this way...

That girl must not think I'm her type. (maybe she likes white guys, or black guys, or indian guys). She must like another type, just not mine.

Once you accept this, move on to the next one.

jtip1977's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:27 PM
Aniston is ok but for some reason I am in love with Katherine Heigl......probably because she was in knocked up.happy

bbbutterscotch's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:27 PM
It's not really so much about looks as it is about confidence. You walk into every room all shy and insecure, people overlook and judge you. If you walk in like it's your living room, head high and ready to have some fun, they'll take notice of your prescence before they've even taken a look at your face.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:28 PM
everyone is different
beauty is in tha eye of tha beholder

theels08's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:28 PM
Edited by theels08 on Sun 12/09/07 09:30 PM
to be honest i have never ask a girl out since 2005
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to me is all about the freaking looks thats drive me crazy and i may not have all the thing that she want all i do is just listen to slow song and i dont know what to do

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Sun 12/09/07 09:29 PM
I'm not going to lie...


I am a Gorgeous Man. Seriously, I am.



but what was the question again?

italian_half's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:30 PM
Edited by italian_half on Sun 12/09/07 09:31 PM

to be honest i have never ask a girl out sinc 05


You've gotta get out of that bathroom more...

jtip1977's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:30 PM
Are you waiting for them to ask you out??? If so....There's your problem!!! Some times I wish I waited grumble grumble

But seriously, you need to make the first move....most of the time....

neanderthalDave's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:31 PM

to be honest i have never ask a girl out sinc 05
wtf r u waiting 4? practice at the bars hook up at a coffee shop

theels08's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:31 PM
whats the first move


tell me please


cause i know for one thing

i am not a attractive to no girls

italian_half's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:32 PM

I'm not going to lie...


I am a Gorgeous Man. Seriously, I am.



but what was the question again?



Now for me, just my prefernce here... This is not a gorgeous man. At first glance, I thought he might be a woman...

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Sun 12/09/07 09:32 PM
Take or leave this next line as you see fit.


it bothers me sooooo much


That.. in a nutshell is more your problem then anything else. It shows.

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Sun 12/09/07 09:32 PM

The best thing to do, is take it this way...

That girl must not think I'm her type. (maybe she likes white guys, or black guys, or indian guys). She must like another type, just not mine.

Once you accept this, move on to the next one.

NO NO NO NO NO!
That is the same exact mindset that says you are "getting lucky" if you connect with a woman!
PREFERANCE has NOTHING to do with ATTRACTION.
With the right mindset and skillset (mindset being the main determining factor), a man can create attraction within ANY heterosexual/bisexual woman, and even in some women who claim to be lesbians.
It's not about being lucky enough to have been born with whatever characteristics she considers her "type." It's about conveying yourself attractively though your body language, what you say, what you subcommunicate, the energy you radiate, etc.

jtip1977's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:35 PM
Well, the first move is to talk to someone you are interested in getting to know better. That's all. Talk about anything...the conversation usually goes from there.

italian_half's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:37 PM

whats the first move


tell me please


cause i know for one thing

i am not a attractive to no girls


As was said previously, self confidence is your friend. You've gotta believe in yourself, or girls will run....

Try a complement that sounds natural. (don't force it... like "nice shoes") Maybe you notice her watch and you have one like that, so you comment about it... Or maybe you notice her tattoo, and say "did that hurt?" Try something that sounds natural, like something you would say to a friend in conversation.

theels08's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:37 PM
i dont have much confidence

e69's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:41 PM
Women now a days don't care if you are "BUTT-UGLY" or prince charming. You have to have $$$$CASH$$$ my friend.

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 12/09/07 09:43 PM
i am not materialistic at all
i have my own $$