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Topic: Met a woman.
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Sat 05/04/19 03:05 PM
I am married for over 20 years. My wife had a couple of affairs many years ago and I forgave her. This woman is seperated with a kid and beautiful. Lives a 100 miles away and we physically and emotionally connected. How guilty will I feel.

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Sat 05/04/19 03:45 PM
None at all if you keep justifying it like that.

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Sat 05/04/19 04:03 PM
Ask your wife

darkowl1's photo
Sat 05/04/19 04:15 PM
I met a human once... they're kinda mean it seems. So I ate the little bastard.

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Sat 05/04/19 04:21 PM

I am married for over 20 years. My wife had a couple of affairs many years ago and I forgave her. This woman is seperated with a kid and beautiful. Lives a 100 miles away and we physically and emotionally connected. How guilty will I feel.


Hi D. Married, Looking.
So you've been married for over 20 years and you say your wife had cheated on you a couple of times but you forgave her. How kind of you!

But this was bugging the heck out you so you figured, an eye for an eye. You are going to have sex with whomever da heck would have sex with you. And you are asking us how will you feel?

My opinion is you will feel vindicated. How dare your wife cheated on you huh?

Now, get a divorce.
happy

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Sat 05/04/19 04:29 PM
The people hardest on you are the ones who drive their spouses to do it. The best way to handle the situation is like this:

"If you have to ask, don't ask..."

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Sat 05/04/19 06:40 PM

I met a human once... they're kinda mean it seems. So I ate the little bastard.

You silly boy ;-)

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Sat 05/04/19 06:51 PM
Edited by Daisy on Sat 05/04/19 06:54 PM
You're really brave to stay with her but since you made that choice I think its really foolish to get back at her. You should have just divorced her in the first place. You'd definitely feel guilty if you only wanted to get back at her

Seakolony's photo
Sat 05/04/19 09:38 PM
Met a boy cute as can be
Whoa uh on a summer night
A wella wella
Tell me more tell me more
Like does he have a car
Tell me more tell me more


Oh nevermind what you do is your own business and on your conscious two lefts don't make a right but two rights lead you home.

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Sat 05/04/19 09:48 PM
I am sure the great sex you are searching for will make you forget your guilt ..
Most women are intuitive .. your wife will know ..prepare for the consequences .. she likely will not be forgiving no matter what happened in the past laugh laugh :wink:

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Sat 05/04/19 11:01 PM
Edited by crustyncross on Sat 05/04/19 11:02 PM
:smile: laugh smooched

None at all if you keep justifying it like that.

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Sun 05/05/19 12:29 AM
My opinion is you need to divorce her and start a new life, because she has cheated you for a long time and she hasn' t put you in her mind ever or how dare she living with others during the marrigae?

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Thu 05/09/19 09:26 AM
, I agree with this even once the cheat on you is 1 time too much but few times trust me **** that ***** and move on she doesn't deserve to be with you

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Thu 05/09/19 09:44 PM

I am married for over 20 years. My wife had a couple of affairs many years ago and I forgave her. This woman is seperated with a kid and beautiful. Lives a 100 miles away and we physically and emotionally connected. How guilty will I feel.


How guilty does your wife's divorce attorney
think you should feel?


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Sat 05/11/19 12:41 AM

I am married for over 20 years. My wife had a couple of affairs many years ago and I forgave her. This woman is seperated with a kid and beautiful. Lives a 100 miles away and we physically and emotionally connected. How guilty will I feel.


If you are looking for someone else then your marriage is really over because you can no longer love your wife in my opinion, maybe it's time to think about a divorce before starting a new relationship.

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Sat 05/11/19 03:30 AM
I am just wondering if the new lady knows your married, why would anyone want to be with someone that cheats

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Sat 05/11/19 10:10 AM
as guilty as you let yourself feel.... If you're doing it pay back to your wife it won't work. My advice is to end one relationship before you start another - it makes life easier ...Why stay in a marriage when you can't trust the person you're with ?

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Sat 05/11/19 08:10 PM
Edited by beenthere on Sat 05/11/19 08:20 PM
I am married for over 20 years. My wife had a couple of affairs many years ago and I forgave her. This woman is separated with a kid and beautiful. Lives a 100 miles away and we physically and emotionally connected. How guilty will I feel?


From the sounds of it not at all. You never really forgiven her and tried to make it work. Have you talked to her about how you feel in regards to sex? Have you tried really everything? Instead, you sneak behind her back, go on a dating site, and find someone else. Especially bad because kids are involved.

I think you show a great deal of cowardice and insecurity of facing life on your own. Getting out of a long term relationship and then straight into another (with the added bonus of a kid) is never a good idea and seldom works out.

Separate from your wife, since you clearly have no interest in the marriage anymore, spend some time living on your own, and figure out what you want in your life. Divorce is painful, no matter the reason, and costly. Besides, women are clever and they feel when something is amiss. If she can prove that you were looking at other women whilst still being married and she gets a good divorce lawyer, you are the one that will stand to lose a great deal.

You tell me how that makes you feel? Is it really worth it?

And if you are just after the sex - is Mingle2 really the right site? There are specialist sites out there just for that purpose, and more discreet. Chances that someone who knows you and your wife finds you on here are greater than you might realise...

In my personal opinion, you have your priorities all wrong and think with the wrong brain...

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Sat 05/11/19 09:06 PM
hi

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Sat 05/11/19 11:44 PM
Hai0

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