hey just wondering if there is smth wrong with how i set up my profile or if its just me but i cant seem to find matches on this app

1) THIS IS NOT AN INTIMATE ENCOUNTER SIGHT
2) this site tends to be slow for finding real live nearby matches.
3) your profile is pretty barren
4) you best pic has you out with another lady

oh, i was under the impression that it was an intimate encounter site due to them providing the option of selecting that as what you're looking for.

I guess it is and it isn't
Meaning I guess it's not exclusively an intimate encounter site, but I suppose for some, it could fulfil that function
I haven't looked at your profile, and this is just my opinion, but for some reason I think you look deppresed on that photo that is your profile picture, which I doubt is helpful

I think that is there for the benefit of others,
so they know what you ultimately are looking for.

The forums are PG-13 so the subject of that option
is not discussed in the forums.

Pleasant profile, BTW.
Best of luck ;-)

ok I took a look at your profile so here goes...

Photo: you have several photos so that's good as it is one way of proving you are the person in the photos. However, none of your photos is good enough as main profile photo. Upload one that you are facing the camera for your main profile pic.

Title: "I need a milf" ... oooh women don't like this because it shows you are immature. MILF is "Mothers I'd Like to F**k" .. why? Some people have mother issues.. do you?

Interests: again you say "I need a milf" .. add more interests like watching porn, stalking women, or doing yoga

About Me: Nothing there, but dont't bother as your profile will get ignored anyway as you just want sex, specially noted, with mothers. Most women will avoid your profile like the plague.

And now, I think I love you!

You need to start again with a lot more effort ,TBH. I think this may not be the best site for your severely limited interest