See lots of women calling for men to be chivalrous again. Trying to guilt or shame us into acting like we did in the 1980s with common courtesy. The damage is done and all that goodwill and trust has been destroyed a long time ago. The destruction started in the 1990s and now once people can see it it's to late to reverse or fix.

A society works off of standards. We do have laws which are for major wrongs. Standards are for all the other things that matter. A universal standard I believe is waiting your turn or standing in line as an example. These social behaviors are mainly stewertid by women teaching them to children and reinforce by the rest of their society since everyone was taught the same standards overall. Mom telling you to, "Behave yourself".

Systems like this allow character and honor to be forge within a person. In it's simplest form, a person of character keeps their word and a person of honor pays their debts. Since everyone is equally subjected to clear rules with punishments a measure of trust and respect can be maintained. "Even if you hate each other's guts you're going to fight next to him on the battlefield together", was something I was told when I was a kid after beating the stupid out of someone and had to be stopped before doing major damage.

Women have given up their feminine and replaced it with selfish, self centered and narcissistic viewpoints in some measure or completely. It's all about their feelings and damn the standards when I choose to do what I please. Those standards I choose are the ones that matter and only apply the way I want them to. So using and abusing others is fine.

I have the blood of champions and kings in my veins from both sides of my family. I'll never be in line for the thrones because those kingdoms no longer exist. I do have my own code of laws I follow so possess "Chivalry". I'm never going to bend the knee to any woman telling be to "obey me" because she thinks she deserves special treatment because she's a woman. Respect is earned and never given freely.

NOTE: Since I have been asked to put links and other things in my posts and threads. Here are some.

https://youtu.be/LygKNa-xDW4

Here's an annoying THOT whining about it.

https://youtu.be/50xJE2gvsD0

Why should Strong Modern Independent Men be chivalrous? Haven't we done enough already? We built this entire society from the ground up and millions of young men who never had the chance to be fathers have died fighting in wars not of their making. I think it's time women held their own for once.

It's 2019!! ( Just the date should suffice for an argument )

Besides, women need men like a fish need a bicycle. That's pretty damn telling. Anyone not understanding that statement is a chauvinist pig.

Besides, I'll be chivalrous when I have a horse and armor

Topic .. men should be chivilarous again ....

Not if that is something they do not value . It is an individual preference .
Personally I prefer a man to be respectful rather than chivalrous .. a man who does not assume that all women have the same values or needs . A man who does not seek to demean all women to justify male behaviour .

There is no law or standard that says a man needs to be chivalrous . Be guided by your own morals and standards

Oh and as for .. "annoying Thot "., sorry but that is neither chivalrous or respectful language .. good work !!!

I’m curious spacecodet, why are you on a dating site if you have such a low
opinion of women? Does this help you in your search?

I have hope that there's women who still haven't been completely lost to being feminists. I'm guilty of being a sappy guy.

It's really incredible the number of men who have woken up to the feminists agenda and Woman Nature these past few years.
First there was Men's Rights Movement. But those guys were way too tamed and naive to resist against the feminists and their shaming language and threats of violence. They ended up letting women control their own narrative
But then the MGTOWs bust out onto the Manosphere around 2010, guys from ALL over the world started to chat and compare notes on their experiences with women and surprisingly - or not surprisingly, depending on which side you're on in the Gender War - some concensus was reached on the Nature of Woman and what had made them so hypergamous and self-entitled for the past 60 years.
Suddenly, men had some place to go to seek help and advice from other men after traumatic events like Divorce and False Accusations.
Then #MeToo shrieked onto the scene with hundreds of supposed victims going for the jagular - and wallets - of some of the richest men on Earth. Some had really been victimized and the perps only got what their Karma hadnin store for them but many innocent men found themselves accused and convicted in the court of public opinion and their lives were forever ruined.
Today, the MGTOW mindset is chugging along with millions of men waking up every year and realizing that they are not the monsters that the media and feminism made them out to be.
It's good news for Men around the world who now have the tools, if they so choose to use them, to protect themselves and their assets from financial vultures, golddiggers and would-be victims of illusory crimes.

Blondy,

Please just watch the videos. You wanted evidence and you just ignore it.

Do you like wasting your time?
Because you're doing it with that post

SpaceCodet
Wow! I feel sorry for you.
You generalize women all into one category. There is a broad spectrum
of women in the world just as there are men. Every person is an individual and has different different tastes and preferences. You cannot compare what you prefer (or think) to every man. Same with women.
There are lots of videos out there. Some people prefer an intelligent conversation over watching videos.
After all, this is a dating sight. How does that old saying go....
You'll catch more flies with honey than vinegar!

Good luck to you with whatever you are trying to accomplish....

Of cause I know better than to believe everyone is mindless drones. Everyone has been affected by this problem of feminist shaming and guite. This is becoming a major problem in western countries and the rumor is a major pushback is coming.

Just want people to think about what really matters to them so if they do meet someone they know themselves and can handle being responsible for their life. Nieve to be sure.

As for me? Have no clue what's going to happen. I only know I'll deal with it when it does.

What makes you think I stopped?

I believe in living life to it's fullest. I do not worry about everyone else and what they are thinking/doing. To each their own. Life's to short.
There's someone for everyone...

I wouldn't mind being chivalrous.
Chivalric Codes were an awesome thing.


Most folks,don't realize, their notion of chivalry
isn't based on historic fact. But, on the fictional
writings of 18th century romance novelists.
Who mistakenly based their notion of chivalry,
on the era of The Cavaliers.

When I was married, I had a minor surgery and needed support from my husband that I did not get. When I was a kid I had a lot of operations and I have a huge fear of hospitals. As an adult, when I was married, I felt alone because he sat in the corner. I had to go really, deep inside myself to talk to the nurses and doctors to get through it.

Hi Rock,

I think most women like a gentleman (at least now & then).

Hi Cat,

Sorry to hear that. You deserve so much better. Now if he would have been chivalrous (gentleman) he wouldn't have treated you so poorly.
I was previously married to a "real winner" too.

The last operation I went through, needed to feel strong, so I thought of Clint Eastwood and Rambo (I know Rambo is not a real person). It got me through.

More and more people like your husband are being created every day. Sad to say. When you get married you are taking on that other person's problems as well as their joys. Some are unable to do so because they never learned responsibility (or forced). A man needs to love, respect and cherish his wife.