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It is difficult to stay loving for long time .
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who says love is hard...
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it's not so hard to love someone it's so hard to find the right one to love 🤣🤣
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mismo
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its hard to find the right Person pretty how are you
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Why love is so hard ? Because of human nature. Type in "types of love" in google. You'll get 4 types, 7 types, 9 types from the Romans (which is one of my favorites), etc. Then go to google and look up the biological process of love. And pair bonding. "Love" is the easiest thing in the world...there's a lot out there. If you don't really know anything about it, or even if you do, there's a natural tendency to try and shove, or cherry pick, as much from all into one valuedation meal, or lottery ticket, and if you don't get it when you want it how you want it from whom you demand, then it must be some kind of evil or hardship and the universe hates you and it's all so hard. It is difficult to stay loving for long time . Only if you expect too much. |
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Love is one of the easiest things a human being can feel.
What makes love 'hard' is all the expectations we put on top of it. |
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Edited by
Serious
on
Wed 02/12/20 10:28 PM
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Because many people do not know what love is/ means.
It's not a feeling - you do not "FALL" in love. That's affection. Love is what you do with that (feeling or no feeling), it's a commitment to someone else. That's why so many couples call it quits at the first onset when that "feeling" (affection) subsides, because the trials of life stream in and they get overwhelmed. Then you hear: - well, we just "fell out" of love - If you do not fall "IN" love you cannot fall "out" of love, quite simple... But I also answered that here: https://mingle2.com/topic/577318?page=5 - (bottom of page) |
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hi
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If you understand sacrifice, if you put your husband or wife before your own needs and you both are sacrificing for the other....you will succeed. There is no room for selfishness in love.
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Hiii
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If you understand sacrifice, if you put your husband or wife before your own needs and you both are sacrificing for the other....you will succeed. There is no room for selfishness in love. totally agree... 
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it is hard because we were looking for physical peasures.Love is all about spirtul pleasure and spirtual bond of two souls.
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I think. Because we each have a different conception of what love is or should be.
The word "love" is woefully inadequate at communicating anything significant, so to say "I love you" is basicly a short cut. To having to think or say inumerable other things. The individuals emotional understanding and needs are subjective. It takes time, emotional pain, to learn to see that it's not all about what you want or need. Possibly better (in my view) if the wretched 4 letter word didn't exist. Far too many different meanings. no wonder it takes years, and heartache, to get it. |
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love is not hard but it hard to find someone to be love to trust specially LDR situations
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no love is not hard
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Good
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ya
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Hello am looking for serious relationship from here
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