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Topic: Is this guy a jerk or what?
Pixiestyx's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:22 PM
I have been talking to a guy online and phone for close to 3 months. We were supposed to meet Saturday before New Years and spend New Years together. As of today he called me mentally retarded because the other night on the phone I wasn't really talking just kinda doing uhhhh. I was at work all week with no day off and tired. I am hard of hearing and don't do well on the phone, and when I am tired my hearing is even worse.
So when he said something I didn't understand I said uhhhhh trying to figure it out. For close to 20 minutes he kept calling me retarded and screaming in my ear. When I said all he does is mumble when he has been drinking he said "Don't try and turn the tables on me because you are retarded and I don't do that when I drink." Then he hung up on me.
So is this his way of saying I don't want to meet you or is he really just a 100% jerk.

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Sat 12/22/07 05:25 PM
Either way.. It sounds like your New Years dance card is open.

ZacharyRyan's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:25 PM
hmmm... I'm gonna go with jerk on this one, Alex

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Sat 12/22/07 05:25 PM
sounds like 100% d1ckhead to me

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Sat 12/22/07 05:26 PM
Why would you want to meet him after him calling you names?
I say forget about him...he does sound like a jerk!


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Sat 12/22/07 05:26 PM
i'm gonna go with jerk...100% and then some...and his drinking is no excuse for what he did...cut him loose!! it's not worth pursuing at all!!!

softshoe's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:26 PM
Communication is really important, however he sure went about it the wrong way.

Desertfox1962's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:27 PM
Be glad he showed his true colors....be happy

Pixiestyx's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:27 PM

Either way.. It sounds like your New Years dance card is open.

Yeah no way will I be spending it with him. At one point he even asked for my mothers number to call her and ask her if I am retarded.

ecbouton's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:27 PM
I dont think it really matters what it MEANS doesnt matter if he just got sacred and didnt have the balls to tell you he didnt want to meet - the point is that he was horrible to you. doesnt matter y - there is no excuse for him treating you like that.

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Sat 12/22/07 05:28 PM
No respect for you, therefore NOT worthy of your time my dear! You deserve better than that.flowerforyou

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Sat 12/22/07 05:28 PM
"So is this his way of saying I don't want to meet you or is he really just a 100% jerk."


Sounds like both to me....


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Sat 12/22/07 05:29 PM


Sounds like a royal Jerk. He had no right to call you a retard, You deserve better. Sorry hon, better luck next time.flowerforyou

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Sat 12/22/07 05:30 PM
SOUNDS LIKE A GUY THAT I MET HERE ON JSH.HE GOT VERY RUDE AND SAID A FEW MEAN THINGS,JUST BECAUSE I DIDN'T TELL HIM THAT I HAD A TEMPER[am a redhead].USE TO BUT NOT NOW.JUST FORGET HIM AND MOVE ON. I WOULD SAY 100% JERK.BUT IT ALWAYS DEPENDS ON HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM.DO YOU WANT HIM TO STAY AROUND?

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:30 PM
Ummm my question to you is- why did'nt you hang up on the JERK
when he called you retarded and started yelling? 2o minutes? Wow...

Looks like you should be going solo for New Years to me...

Zstratman's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:30 PM
Edited by Zstratman on Sat 12/22/07 05:33 PM
yea I'll go with jerk or mentally unstable If it was dr jeckel mr hyde. either way not worth your time and energy.

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Sat 12/22/07 05:31 PM
100% JERK!! No man (and I mean a real man) talks to a lady that way....you're much better off without him!flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker

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Sat 12/22/07 05:31 PM
Sounds like his loss, not yours.

Pixiestyx's photo
Sat 12/22/07 05:33 PM

Ummm my question to you is- why did'nt you hang up on the JERK
when he called you retarded and started yelling? 2o minutes? Wow...

Looks like you should be going solo for New Years to me...

I guess because I am not the type of person to hang up on people jerks or not. Yeah I probably should have hung up and won't answer when he calls back as I know he will.

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Sat 12/22/07 05:34 PM
he's no jerk....more like an ASS****..i wouldnt tolerate someone talking to me like that..noway

move on, sweetie..lots of nice guys out there..flowerforyou

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