Topic: love, but no sex.
Riad's photo
Thu 03/25/21 11:08 AM
I would call that a "companion", off it works then go for it.

yes

Niraj's photo
Thu 03/25/21 12:00 PM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

ohh this is what is going on in mind for last so many years I m attracted to girl but I dont get any sexual feelings for her but I like spending rest of the time with her.. so many years gone by but I m unable to make any decision at times I thought of visiting a consultant who can listen to me and help me make a decision..dont want to leave her mid way neither want to go ahead half heartedly.. so so confused like you very difficult to crack this for me.

Riad's photo
Fri 03/26/21 12:35 PM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

yes

Riad's photo
Fri 03/26/21 12:36 PM
You are a psychologist?

Are you sexually attracted to any other people?

no

oozerdood's photo
Tue 03/30/21 04:18 AM
Sex is supposed to be the physical expression of love, in a healthy universe (not this one, obviously). So, sex and love needn't be exclusive.

no photo
Tue 03/30/21 08:30 PM
You are a psychologist?

Are you sexually attracted to any other people?

I want you marry

yoda minch's photo
Tue 03/30/21 08:43 PM
A question by a psychologist,weird.

Shockz's photo
Wed 03/31/21 01:17 PM
A relationship without sexual attractions, desires, fantasies etc.
I just ended 10 years of that, masturbation played it's part but even that did not feed my desire for sexual urges that got worse over time, rendering my masturbation a tool to supress feelings that should be shared and enjoyed. followed shortly by depression and a rinse repeat process i let last far longer than i should have for the sake of love.



Isaiah's photo
Wed 03/31/21 01:51 PM
I'm new in this room, am I welcome ?

Jay's photo
Thu 04/01/21 11:24 PM
I would call that a "companion", off it works then go for it.

yes

Acquired Taste's photo
Sat 04/03/21 12:03 AM
the comedian said he found out at an early age he did not enjoy sex, so he married young...having been married twice, and watch the urge wane he has a point...

on the other hand my last gf was quite a looker and that does effect the urges...i had a friend since high school and we chatted a lot on the phone for years...recently she said she had a bf and that was it...

"when harry met sally" is a movie that answers that question...it looks like the answer is yes you can be friends without sex....and then they ****...after a long time...meaning the answer is ultimately no...

at my age i hope u can as it would be nice to have women to play poker or chess with..

Sanjay's photo
Sat 04/03/21 03:36 AM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

c Sinhagad road

no photo
Sat 04/03/21 09:14 AM
hai..:blush:

Jerimiah's photo
Tue 05/11/21 04:10 AM
absolutely love is something that's just design did not have any boundaries the infinite current time in space to be able to come at a moment's notice and affect you in the most disastrous way or the or the most blissful way how to make guns guns powerful unexpected unbound news 11 best friend you have somebody that you just met on the street or somebody that's just on the other side of the world are you talking to on the phone TV for a minute or for a lifetime and also be poison it's only based on your actions and how you choose to love another

Photo gallery Officel's photo
Tue 05/11/21 05:21 AM
Hello sakshi .. Psychology would tell you that sex is just a strategy humans use to meet psychological needs . It is not a need itself .

Why measure yourself against what is “normal”. What matters is what is important to you and your life partner . Have you talked about having children ???

Even within arranged marriages , there is an expectation of sex and children .

If you have no experience of sex it may be easier initially to overlook the importance of sex in a relationship .. However sex is fluid (literally and otherwise :wink: )

that said atleast 20% of marriages are sexless .

With you both the best of luck :wave:

hai

no photo
Tue 05/11/21 02:59 PM
Sex is natural is important so all people like sex

no photo
Tue 05/11/21 03:29 PM


Hello sakshi .. Psychology would tell you that sex is just a strategy humans use to meet psychological needs . It is not a need itself .

Why measure yourself against what is “normal”. What matters is what is important to you and your life partner . Have you talked about having children ???

Even within arranged marriages , there is an expectation of sex and children .

If you have no experience of sex it may be easier initially to overlook the importance of sex in a relationship .. However sex is fluid (literally and otherwise :wink: )

that said atleast 20% of marriages are sexless .

With you both the best of luck waving






Do the psychologists also think that the dog that humps your leg do it for psychological reasons as well?

To say it's not embedded in our DNA is a underestimation of our biology.
sorry bob .. only just saw your post ..

I am not sure dog and human psychology are comparable lol .. I would say the dog has a leg fetish, is young and inexperienced. (Virgin) or has an unmet need . Sure humping as a behaviour is instinctual, However in humans it is mostly under our control. waving

Photo gallery Officel's photo
Thu 05/13/21 06:47 AM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

hai

Imran pasha Imran's photo
Sat 05/15/21 01:14 PM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

hi how are you dear

Arsal's photo
Sun 05/16/21 03:36 AM
Hi everyone, is it okay to like someone with your whole heart but not be sexually attracted towards them? You like spending time with them, you are comfortable around them and you want them as your life partner. But you never got sexually attracted towards them or never ever looked at them as a sex object or in a sexual way. Is it still healthy and normal? I don't know if it will affect the relationship. (sorry for the weird question though).

Hi