Topic: Widows .(sexual intimacy after losing husband)
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Thu 04/08/21 11:23 AM
It is scientfic based established fact that women r choosy in partner selection unlike men..even in india males do second marriage easily after partner death but women cannot do so due to social pressure..
So question is straight and simple do widows too crave for sexual intimacy or they consider it a cheating with their dead partner..
Can they again enjoy if they find a new partner

Nick's photo
Thu 04/08/21 02:16 PM
Why should men be able to move on and find someone else, but a woman not be able to do the same?

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 04/08/21 02:29 PM

It is scientfic based established fact that women r choosy in partner selection unlike men..


Of course you will provide Internet links to the scientific data that supports your claim. Right?

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Thu 04/08/21 03:31 PM

It is scientfic based established fact that women r choosy in partner selection unlike men..even in india males do second marriage easily after partner death but women cannot do so due to social pressure..
So question is straight and simple do widows too crave for sexual intimacy or they consider it a cheating with their dead partner..
Can they again enjoy if they find a new partner


Every widow will feel differently, just as the grieving process is different for each of us, and it really depends on the relationship the widow had with her late husband.

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Thu 04/08/21 03:33 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 04/08/21 04:15 PM

It is scientfic based established fact that women r choosy in partner selection unlike men..even in india males do second marriage easily after partner death but women cannot do so due to social pressure..
So question is straight and simple do widows too crave for sexual intimacy or they consider it a cheating with their dead partner..
Can they again enjoy if they find a new partner

Why are you interested in a widow wanting or enjoying sex and not asking whether or not she could love another man?
Intimacy and love are very closely related for women and without love it is more difficult for many women to really enjoy sex. So the question concerning love is far more important.

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Thu 04/08/21 03:39 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 04/08/21 04:23 PM

Why should men be able to move on and find someone else, but a woman not be able to do the same?

I think you're too much thinking in Western terms.
In India marriage is not necessarily based on love but arranged marriages. Nevertheless a woman bonds very easily. This is inherent to being a woman, it goes all the way back to survival of the species.
It works different for males, also to safe-guard the survival of the species.
Knowing that, it would make sense that it is easier for a man to get married a 2nd time after losing his spouse of arranged marriage than it is for a woman.

Maybe think of this: a woman often bonds during/after sex with a man she has NO interest in at all. It happens nonetheless, due to release of oxytocin during sex, and even more of that bonding hormone is released when a woman has an orgasm.
This is also why it is more difficult for most women to engage in hopping from one bed to the next just for the heck, out of lust: we tend to bond too easily for that.

All this works different in men. Most men can sexercise a woman they want nothing with and hop to the next one and never think about the last one ever again.
We aren't wired that way. There are some exceptions since women these days operate too much from masculine energy, but it is not our natural way.

All in all... we naturally bond much sooner, easier than men EVEN when we aren't in love with him, so it makes sense a woman would find it more difficult to move on when her spouse dies.



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Fri 04/09/21 03:52 AM
It is scientfic based established fact that women r choosy in partner selection unlike men..even in india males do second marriage easily after partner death but women cannot do so due to social pressure..
So question is straight and simple do widows too crave for sexual intimacy or they consider it a cheating with their dead partner..
Can they again enjoy if they find a new partner

That is a lot of questions. It depends on the woman. Some seem to not be able to be alone and get involved straight away and some take their time.

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Sat 04/10/21 07:27 AM
I would label it as a best ans:slight_smile:..summarzied too well and shows that u have knowledge from the western socities to conservative ones:slight_smile:

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Sat 04/10/21 07:46 AM
Huh?

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Sat 04/10/21 08:18 AM
Widows ... Can they again enjoy if they find a new partner

Did you just watch Wedding Crashers, listen to Chazz Reinhold and think..."hmmmm...that guy has a winning strategy!?"

https://youtu.be/l4D5zScOFKU?t=180



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Sat 04/10/21 09:24 AM
I want a Widow lady who’s ready for serious relationship which may can lead us to marriage if anyone interested please call me or text me my name is saikou from Porto in Portugal

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Sat 04/10/21 03:35 PM
I want a Widow lady who’s ready for serious relationship which may can lead us to marriage if anyone interested please call me or text me my name is saikou from Porto in Portugal

Lol

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Sat 04/10/21 03:52 PM
me is dealing with a men who is a widow he love me but is 5miles aways meet him on here he askin me for help to get him to me but me not known if he real or just someone on internet tryin to entertain himself from across world tryin to buy me in and do what he doing now not replying to me weather i should let him go or take the chance what bother him is his widow wife he replace me for her want to see a real man loves a woman do what ever in power to take her on u side has me being married willing to do whatever it taken when you heart moves on to put a widow the reason why for me to care for one even more is when you no You take a lost for you to see The pain imagine no expecting To lose someone who mean The world to for Another to come on your side with care comforting You guide you it ok to love cherishing U that gift i front of you i the most precious to accept protect no matter what nothing can touch if you lock in your heart is kept safe you will not be 100 but you will be at ease

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Sun 04/11/21 03:33 AM

me is dealing with a men who is a widow he love me but is 5miles aways meet him on here he askin me for help to get him to me but me not known if he real or just someone on internet tryin to entertain himself from across world tryin to buy me in and do what he doing now not replying to me weather i should let him go or take the chance what bother him is his widow wife he replace me for her want to see a real man loves a woman do what ever in power to take her on u side has me being married willing to do whatever it taken when you heart moves on to put a widow the reason why for me to care for one even more is when you no You take a lost for you to see The pain imagine no expecting To lose someone who mean The world to for Another to come on your side with care comforting You guide you it ok to love cherishing U that gift i front of you i the most precious to accept protect no matter what nothing can touch if you lock in your heart is kept safe you will not be 100 but you will be at ease

If he’s asking you for help financially , then more than likely just a scammer . No decent person would be asking some person on a dating site for help. Sounds like he’s trying to just reel you in . Especially if he’s saying he loves you and you’ve never even met him . That’s definitely red flags .

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Sun 04/11/21 06:20 AM
Very well summarized the whole sinero

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Sun 04/11/21 02:05 PM
Some broad I was married to for three months,
thirty some odd years ago, died a few months
after my stalker did last year.

That makes me sorta a widower. Right?