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Topic: Photo verication.
no photo
Sat 07/10/21 03:50 AM

So the New Photo Verification is a Finger < like in Pulp Fiction??? Seriously? I have seen so many of those types of Photos All the Time On Social Media Sites and by Tik Tokers and YouTubers and All Over the Place!

What does it Prove? Even the Scammers are Finding Photos of there Favorite People who they Steal Photos from can Find those kinds of photos from them. That it NOT proof!

Make them Make a Sign like Mine held Next to the Face and NOT Hide their Face in anyway! Who Ever is "Verifying" Photos is letting Know Scammers and Others be Activated Only for us to Report them. Nothing has Changed.

Now I have Seen SOME Females Starting to Make and Post Photos doing what I am doing. Why? Because they know it Works! If they Can't do it, they are Not the Actual person in their Photos. But this keeps getting Deleted every time I bring it up. It is Why I get So Many Pissed "Females" at me when I ask them to make a Photo like this, They Can't. Not Won't.. But Can't! Or they just Play Stupid and act like they don't understand why it's needed/requested and I tell those who I can to ask for the Same proof.

Serious a Finger < as Proof... HA HA HA HA HA HA


Have a little faith...I do not think all the verication pics are V fingers :grinning:.

ronboprime's photo
Sat 07/10/21 06:43 AM
I always ask for a very certain selfie... I wanna see your finger in your ear. they have tried and tried...

Rock's photo
Sat 07/10/21 07:09 AM
The "pose" just makes the verification process seem
ridiculously paranoid.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 07/10/21 07:11 AM

So the New Photo Verification is a Finger < like in Pulp Fiction??? Seriously? I have seen so many of those types of Photos All the Time On Social Media Sites and by Tik Tokers and YouTubers and All Over the Place!

What does it Prove? Even the Scammers are Finding Photos of there Favorite People who they Steal Photos from can Find those kinds of photos from them. That it NOT proof!

Make them Make a Sign like Mine held Next to the Face and NOT Hide their Face in anyway! Who Ever is "Verifying" Photos is letting Know Scammers and Others be Activated Only for us to Report them. Nothing has Changed.

Now I have Seen SOME Females Starting to Make and Post Photos doing what I am doing. Why? Because they know it Works! If they Can't do it, they are Not the Actual person in their Photos. But this keeps getting Deleted every time I bring it up. It is Why I get So Many Pissed "Females" at me when I ask them to make a Photo like this, They Can't. Not Won't.. But Can't! Or they just Play Stupid and act like they don't understand why it's needed/requested and I tell those who I can to ask for the Same proof.

Serious a Finger < as Proof... HA HA HA HA HA HA


In case some don't realize this, but the verification photo that they either approve or disapprove of remains on your Admin Profile therefore once it has been verified they just have to look at the photo you sent in and compare them with the photo's you post.. If they do not match then the account may be banned..

And they don't ask all members to do the same pose they have different ones and your pose must be just like the one they ask you to send or it will be rejected.. till you do..

It is a random pick by the system or if a member is labeled as a scammer then only way for them to get back in the account is to comply with the photo verification~~~~

SWM's photo
Sat 07/10/21 07:50 AM
"It is a random pick by the system or if a member is labeled as a scammer then only way for them to get back in the account is to comply with the photo verification"

Random by the system.. They System Picks a Random "Pose" but a Stock Type Pose Anyone who wants to create a account Can Google Search Someone Doing already and use as their own. System Random Picks: Pose with your Pants around your ankles Holding a Duck and a Beer while someone shoots a Apple off your head... Okay, Google that and guess what, I bet you can find 100's of Stupid people who have done just that.
Accounts being Deactivated after reporting have to Reconfirm?? I think not. I have seen sooo Many Countless Accounts being reactivated using the same Photos over and over and over.. Is there a Actual Human that looks at these before verification? Does the Computer do a Image Search before activation?
What about all the Underage ones that Delete themselves Admitting they are underage after being Reported and Deactivated, YET Somehow, they Manage to Verify by them sending in the Random Photo the site asks for but their Profile Photos has Not changed from their first account?
All the Photos with Children in them that are not allowed to be posted, they too sent in a Random Photo request? Yet their New Account has the Same Photo being used as the one Deactivated?
Random Photo Request, Yeah, I am betting the Asian Models that are Well Known here have done them all one time and that is why we keep seeing them and always the Same photos over and over.
Or how about the Multi Account Makers? How are they able to create soo Many accounts at one time if there is a Photo verification system in place? One I reported having just under 400 accounts active at one time and betting that is not the record.
I genuinely want to know. But instead I get a lecture or my stuff deleted for asking and pointing this stuff out. "Well if you don't like how the site is run, then why are you here?"

If it takes a week or so before a Account is activated to give it enough time to do a Reverse Image Search of itself and Google or Yandex (better than google), then so be it. Put all new accounts through a search of the site and see if there are any other people using that photo. Even with the Random Request.

Would Also be Nice to have a AGE Verification! Hold Up a Government ID and Keep that Photo for Staff Only! So as to cut down an all the Clearly Underage Girls Joining the Site, some as young as 9 I have reported but then they delete themselves saying/admitting that and now no longer get deactivated when reported, even using the same photos.

This site has so Much to Offer. But it is also So Frustrating. I have made friends here and am Thankful for it but at the same time I am Screaming WTF are you guys thinking. There has to be a Better way and I THINK I gave you guys one. Have them Send you a Photo Like MINE, and Use that as Proof and As their Vary First Photo on their Profile. Any photo after that they want to add, fine.. as long as it is Socially Acceptable. But again, The owners of the Site will do as they please because it is their site after all.

SWM's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:00 AM
I see Staff Deleted My Other Photos I had, that were APPROVED By STAFF When I posted them and They Thought Were Funny...

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:31 AM

I see Staff Deleted My Other Photos I had, that were APPROVED By STAFF When I posted them and They Thought Were Funny...


Just because your picture posted does not mean it was verified by anyone.. All pictures if correct size will upload, those that get reported are the ones that they focus on and at that time will look at all their pictures. If you happen to have 2-3 in front of a picture that can be used as a main profile then those will be deleted..






Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:32 AM

"It is a random pick by the system or if a member is labeled as a scammer then only way for them to get back in the account is to comply with the photo verification"

Random by the system.. They System Picks a Random "Pose" but a Stock Type Pose Anyone who wants to create a account Can Google Search Someone Doing already and use as their own. System Random Picks: Pose with your Pants around your ankles Holding a Duck and a Beer while someone shoots a Apple off your head... Okay, Google that and guess what, I bet you can find 100's of Stupid people who have done just that.
Accounts being Deactivated after reporting have to Reconfirm?? I think not. I have seen sooo Many Countless Accounts being reactivated using the same Photos over and over and over.. Is there a Actual Human that looks at these before verification? Does the Computer do a Image Search before activation?
What about all the Underage ones that Delete themselves Admitting they are underage after being Reported and Deactivated, YET Somehow, they Manage to Verify by them sending in the Random Photo the site asks for but their Profile Photos has Not changed from their first account?
All the Photos with Children in them that are not allowed to be posted, they too sent in a Random Photo request? Yet their New Account has the Same Photo being used as the one Deactivated?
Random Photo Request, Yeah, I am betting the Asian Models that are Well Known here have done them all one time and that is why we keep seeing them and always the Same photos over and over.
Or how about the Multi Account Makers? How are they able to create soo Many accounts at one time if there is a Photo verification system in place? One I reported having just under 400 accounts active at one time and betting that is not the record.
I genuinely want to know. But instead I get a lecture or my stuff deleted for asking and pointing this stuff out. "Well if you don't like how the site is run, then why are you here?"

If it takes a week or so before a Account is activated to give it enough time to do a Reverse Image Search of itself and Google or Yandex (better than google), then so be it. Put all new accounts through a search of the site and see if there are any other people using that photo. Even with the Random Request.

Would Also be Nice to have a AGE Verification! Hold Up a Government ID and Keep that Photo for Staff Only! So as to cut down an all the Clearly Underage Girls Joining the Site, some as young as 9 I have reported but then they delete themselves saying/admitting that and now no longer get deactivated when reported, even using the same photos.

This site has so Much to Offer. But it is also So Frustrating. I have made friends here and am Thankful for it but at the same time I am Screaming WTF are you guys thinking. There has to be a Better way and I THINK I gave you guys one. Have them Send you a Photo Like MINE, and Use that as Proof and As their Vary First Photo on their Profile. Any photo after that they want to add, fine.. as long as it is Socially Acceptable. But again, The owners of the Site will do as they please because it is their site after all.

Perhaps you are forgetting this is a free, open site.
They do what they want to do because they own it.

You could just use the site which is available or you could just go find another place which meets your expectations in all these areas you complain about.

When I was required to verify with my photo, I thought it was stupid too.
Then, as a person who wanted to use this site, I complied and it was a done deal. I realized if I wanted to use this site, I had to jump thru the hoops they required. Its theirs, not mine. Their photo verification shouldn't be an issue unless you are trying to run a scam of some type. Its a simple one time process which isn't that bad, actually...for a free worldwide open social site. At least they have some measures in place to keep the site useable and the mods work really hard to keep the forums cordial.

I'm here on my own volition. I choose to be here. I can stop using this site at any time. Nobody is making me use/frequent Mingle2.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:36 AM




had to do that three days ago .... boy was it hard to take a selfie with one hand ... but thrilled with the added security!!!...
lets hope that cuts down on the amount of scammers on here , not to mention fake pictures and profiles!!!


Ha ha, I did it today. Yup, so hard to do the finger V like pulp fiction with a camera. Was fun though. Poor mods, having to do all that work. Bless them x


yes , i think the Mods deal with alot more crap behind the scenes and sometimes I wish I was privy to that information.... probably make for added laughs or drama!!!!


Meh, gossip is not good. I try very hard never to mention other Minglers with others. I think I have done it twice.



You are so right Ladywind; private should stay private so good job for being that way sweet.................flowers

SWM's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:51 AM


I see Staff Deleted My Other Photos I had, that were APPROVED By STAFF When I posted them and They Thought Were Funny...


Just because your picture posted does not mean it was verified by anyone.. All pictures if correct size will upload, those that get reported are the ones that they focus on and at that time will look at all their pictures. If you happen to have 2-3 in front of a picture that can be used as a main profile then those will be deleted..



No, I even Asked a Staff Member if I could post them or not. I will not say who but they said they were perfectly acceptable.

"All pictures if correct size will upload" Meaning, NO One is looking at any Profile before it gets activated to see if those photos are acceptable or not and if they are already being used on this site by 100's of others using the same one or of the Same Person. That is my whole point.

All New accounts should or be required to Wait until Photos can be Verified and by having them do what I do in Mine, because it it harder for scammers to photo shop it without making it look photo shopped. But as it stands, I can make a new account and post ANY Photo as long as it's the Correct Size and Format and it will get Automatically Activated, Until it gets reported and then have to verify. How does that make sense?


SWM's photo
Sat 07/10/21 08:54 AM
Also, What happened to the rule of NO Children allowed in Photos?

SWM's photo
Sat 07/10/21 02:00 PM
Here is another one for you. WHO Decides What Name, Age, Location a Person Has, of those using the Same Photo For Multiple Accounts? "Everyone is Allowed One Account". So Who Decides the Females ( or males) Name if they are using say, Joyce, Anna, Sherrie, Frank, Wanda, Asian Characters. They Live in England, Scotland, USA, Africa... And are Ages between 18-40?
Or they use the Same Location in all, but are still Different Ages and Named? IMO ALL Should Be Deactivated. But they Don't, One gets to Stay. WHO Makes that decision of who this person is and their age and location? OH, then they Make Even More Accounts Later Using the Same Photos. New Names, Locations and Ages.
OR the One Person Uses a Few Different Photos to Make Multiple Accounts and Uses Same Name, Age, Location. Gets Reported, and Continues to Make More Accounts.
Who Decides Which Account Stays? When they (staff) Know Damn Well, they will just continue to keep making more.

no photo
Sat 07/10/21 03:12 PM
I don't take selfies, so I guess I'm out.

SWM's photo
Sat 07/10/21 03:29 PM

I don't take selfies, so I guess I'm out.

I don't have a Cellphone and have to use a Webcam. I also refuse to stick out my tongue if that came up as a Random Suggestion. Suggestions coming from the Forum List of "Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles?".

no photo
Sat 07/10/21 09:59 PM

Hello everyone, where is the option for me to do photo verification? I would love to be able to add that to my profile, and show that I'm real :nerd:


So if you open the app on an Android device there is a icon in the bottom right that looks like three horizontal lines, tape it. Scroll down to where it says Your Popularity and tape that as well and there you go the third option down is Verify by photo.

I haven't found a way to do it on PC and I don't own any I junk.

no photo
Sat 07/10/21 10:04 PM
So if you open the app on an Android device there is a icon in the bottom right that looks like three horizontal lines, tape it. Scroll down to where it says Your Popularity and tape that as well and there you go the third option down is Verify by photo.

I haven't found a way to do it on PC and I don't own any I junk.

Thank you so much !! :blush:

no photo
Sun 07/11/21 12:39 PM

So if you open the app on an Android device there is a icon in the bottom right that looks like three horizontal lines, tape it. Scroll down to where it says Your Popularity and tape that as well and there you go the third option down is Verify by photo.

I haven't found a way to do it on PC and I don't own any I junk.

Thank you so much !! :blush:


No problem pretty lady.

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