Topic: Connected with someone
FarmGirl's photo
Fri 02/03/23 10:47 AM
Hi. Shortly after joining Mingle2 I connected with someone. In true faith, I deleted my account to prove i was not chatting to anone else, but not before sharing cell numbers. He then " needed time to think", so I reinstalled Mingle2 to find him. I know he's still a member but I can't find him. Please help me.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Fri 02/03/23 01:42 PM
The search by user name feature has been removed a good while ago. If you know where he lives, you might browse members by location to find him.

Mr Good Guy's photo
Fri 02/03/23 02:17 PM
The bigger question is why you would want to find a man like that so badly but whatever.

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 02/03/23 03:39 PM
If you have his cell number why not call him????

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Fri 02/03/23 03:44 PM

If you have his cell number why not call him????


That was exactly what I was about to ask. If you don't like to "talk" you can always text. The question Mr. Good Guy asked though is the one you should really be asking yourself. What's the point? It's not that difficult to just :notes:shake it off...:notes: (Taylor Swift).

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 02/03/23 06:30 PM

Hi. Shortly after joining Mingle2 I connected with someone. In true faith, I deleted my account to prove i was not chatting to anone else, but not before sharing cell numbers. He then " needed time to think", so I reinstalled Mingle2 to find him. I know he's still a member but I can't find him. Please help me.


Hummm my question is why not sign into your old account where you were chatting back and forth, to see if the emails are still there to see what his name is..

But then again if you exchanged numbers, did you loose his? It should be in your phone..

And well my final question~~~ WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU WANT TO CONTACT SOMEONE THAT GHOSTED YOU??

Seriously are you that desperate? Not trying to be mean but you need to gain some confidence within yourself. Don't let anyone scam you..

If he never contacted you again there was a reason, and it was due to he had no intentions..

I mean really someone tells me I have to leave a site for them, then don't call me ohhh hell no.. Myself if someone told me that I would tell them where to take it..

Sweetie if that is really you in the picture, why the heck are you chasing after anyone?

Hell I'm old and don't have the body I had back in the day...but if someone treated me like that I would tell them where to go... That is not the way you treat someone if you are really interested..

Most likely he is married or with someone..

Like TechFairy said shake it off and move on~~ :)



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Fri 02/03/23 07:51 PM
Sounds like you applied too much pressure too soon and his intentions /expectations did not match yours .

If he had any interest in pursuing a connection with you he would have made an effort to contact you and maintain the connection . He has made his choice . Leave him be :-) waving