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Topic: Videochat so u dnt waste time
Sxy msg me to match's photo
Mon 06/05/23 02:05 PM
i think videochatting with someone is an excellent way to get a better idea what they're like fast! plus you immediately weed out fake profiles, and undesirables. So if anyone wants to videochat with me, i'm totally ok with it!!

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 06/06/23 11:00 AM
For some I'm sure Video Chat works out great..

It does not immediately weed out those that are fake... I'm sure it gives one more of a idea who that person is or what they look like..

Myself I'm one that will not video chat.. And if that makes one think I'm fake then that is on them..

The site has free e-mails.. in order for members to get to know each other a bit better till they are able to meet..

Myself the reason I prefer not to do the Video chat is because I don't do LDR's only those that are local.. I prefer a face to face meet within a couple weeks..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 06/06/23 02:29 PM
What she said ^^^^

Plus, too many men can't be bothered to spend time to get to know a woman. They want to know within 10 seconds whether you're what they want or not.
I do not play that game and ain't interested in such men.
I'm worthy & deserving and if a man doesn't see or feel that as he wants to go through as many as possible in as little time as humanly possible he's not for me. His loss, not mine.
I'm looking for a guy who's willing to invest in me and go the extra mile and is eager to get to know me. Not 100 other women. Me.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 06/06/23 07:29 PM
Anyone who asks me to go to video chat right away gets an instant delete.

Rock's photo
Tue 06/06/23 08:35 PM
I don't even do video chat with people
I know and like in person.

Sure as hell not doin' it for some
paranoid wackjob I don't even know.

no photo
Tue 07/18/23 09:18 AM
Hah Hah Hah ha ha ha ha, sighs - seriously ... ridiculous.

Danie's photo
Thu 07/20/23 05:46 PM
i think if you are really out here for love you should be able to have a video chat what's the point in talking to you without seeing or knowing if you are real

OriginalJ's photo
Thu 07/20/23 07:43 PM
Na video chatting is a no go sorry just not my cup of tea

Morticia's photo
Thu 07/20/23 09:07 PM
Video chats are a big no-no for me, because I don't wanna take the risk of a guy suddenly whipping out his little peepee asking if I like it

NotPay4Play's photo
Thu 07/20/23 09:36 PM
Edited by NotPay4Play on Thu 07/20/23 09:41 PM
Hell no i don't video chat. If I want to meet a person I'll ask them to meet at a local restaurant. If they flake out a couple of times then you know their fake.

If they ask to video chat right off the bat then report, block, and move on.

To each their own but it's just not my thing.


delightfulillusion's photo
Thu 07/20/23 09:37 PM

Video chats are a big no-no for me, because I don't wanna take the risk of a guy suddenly whipping out his little peepee asking if I like it


That’s exactly what happened to me! Now, I refuse to video chat.

Morticia's photo
Thu 07/20/23 10:31 PM
That’s exactly what happened to me! Now, I refuse to video chat.

Why do guys do that? It's disgusting

delightfulillusion's photo
Thu 07/20/23 10:42 PM

That’s exactly what happened to me! Now, I refuse to video chat.

Why do guys do that? It's disgusting


It sure is. They certainly lack maturity, respect and self control. Not someone I’d be remotely interested in.

SimplyMeDeborah's photo
Thu 08/03/23 03:26 PM
I think video chat could have a place after messaging someone for a period of time. But I'm new to online dating and dating apps.

HONEY's photo
Thu 08/03/23 03:31 PM
i also suggest the video chat i shows the intrest of person in relation and lot of things stop at the moment
no body bothered u again haha

Todor's photo
Fri 08/04/23 11:14 AM
We live in such modern times where the live video chats also might be faked... with fake different face, fake different voice, filters as filters might be for the video picture or for the sound too... Some people sometimes might not be prepared immediately to do this.

Poetrywriter's photo
Fri 08/04/23 01:10 PM
I am so ugly my computer refuses to video chat. Seriously, not everyone's computer is set up to do video chat.

no photo
Fri 08/04/23 01:16 PM

We live in such modern times where the live video chats also might be faked... with fake different face, fake different voice, filters as filters might be for the video picture or for the sound too... Some people sometimes might not be prepared immediately to do this.

It is not that hard to tell if a video chat is real or fake.

Will's photo
Sun 08/06/23 01:19 PM

For some I'm sure Video Chat works out great..

It does not immediately weed out those that are fake... I'm sure it gives one more of a idea who that person is or what they look like..

Myself I'm one that will not video chat.. And if that makes one think I'm fake then that is on them..

The site has free e-mails.. in order for members to get to know each other a bit better till they are able to meet..

Myself the reason I prefer not to do the Video chat is because I don't do LDR's only those that are local.. I prefer a face to face meet within a couple weeks..

yeah, but how often do those conversations continue for a couple weeks before you actually meet?

Will's photo
Sun 08/06/23 01:20 PM

i think if you are really out here for love you should be able to have a video chat what's the point in talking to you without seeing or knowing if you are real

preach brother

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