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Topic: Why do men lie about their ages?
Olivia Calderón 's photo
Wed 01/10/24 01:20 AM
I've been so curious as to the rate of how some men who's be hitting me up lie about their ages.. It's so unbelievable.

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Wed 01/10/24 06:22 AM

I've been so curious as to the rate of how some men who's be hitting me up lie about their ages.. It's so unbelievable.


Due to an insecurity or maybe they think you're more likely to respond to a younger man? Deception is deception I wouldn't worry about it and just avoid them.

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Wed 01/10/24 07:21 AM
I've been so curious as to the rate of how some men who's be hitting me up lie about their ages.. It's so unbelievable.

WhO MEN Only??

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/10/24 11:27 AM
Edited by soufiehere on Wed 01/10/24 11:28 AM

Due to an insecurity or maybe they think you're more likely to respond to a younger man? Deception is deception I wouldn't worry about it and just avoid them.
Insecurity, indeedy, same reason they wear rugs.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/10/24 11:30 AM

I've been so curious as to the rate of how some men who's be hitting me up lie about their ages.. It's so unbelievable.

WhO MEN Only??

You silly person ;-)
Everyone knows women are allowed to change their
minds about their age on a whim.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 01/10/24 01:20 PM
:smile:

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Wed 01/10/24 04:38 PM


I've been so curious as to the rate of how some men who's be hitting me up lie about their ages.. It's so unbelievable.

WhO MEN Only??

You silly person ;-)
Everyone knows women are allowed to change their
minds about their age on a whim.


We don't lie we just stop counting at like 30.

Kamal's photo
Sun 02/11/24 03:22 AM
We don't lie we just stop counting at like 30.

Ha ha... hhaaa

Jonathan's photo
Sun 02/11/24 07:47 AM
What a horrible way to connect w anyone..by lying. I’ve been honest…it’s the only way

MarcF's photo
Sun 02/11/24 02:51 PM
How big a lie are we talking? Do you get 40 year olds claiming to be 20 something?

Larsson71's photo
Sun 02/11/24 06:09 PM
I see some women on here claiming to be far younger, than what they really are, or appear to be. Some of them it's so obvious, that I just laugh when I see them, as it's ridiculous! If men are lying about their ages, on here, then that's just as stupid also! Just be yourself and cut out the fibs! :thumbsup::100::sunglasses:

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Wed 02/14/24 05:38 AM
We don't lie we just stop counting at like 30.

And start to countdown after a while?

Jaan Doh 's photo
Wed 02/14/24 12:08 PM
When you're young, you lie and claim to be older...


Then you stop lie-ing...


When your older, you lie and claim to be younger...

Maybe it's from a sense of wanting to fit in..

It's the norm lol

Looking for sincere's photo
Wed 02/14/24 06:33 PM
Men lie due to lack of security in themselves. They are hoping to date people younger than themselves. So they lie, to try and get a meet. Hoping that they can convince the person they meet, that they are worth the lie.
It is a sad fact. I know my age. I know not to lie. If a first meet or talk is based on a lie, then it is why they are single. They are nothing but a liar or cheat.

Larsson71's photo
Wed 02/14/24 08:40 PM

Men lie due to lack of security in themselves. They are hoping to date people younger than themselves. So they lie, to try and get a meet. Hoping that they can convince the person they meet, that they are worth the lie.
It is a sad fact. I know my age. I know not to lie. If a first meet or talk is based on a lie, then it is why they are single. They are nothing but a liar or cheat.
Quick to judge the guys on this, but the ones who lie most about their ages is actually the women. I mean some even try to make it look like you've just committed a crime, by asking them what age they are? That's why it's women getting botox, fillers, facelifts, using excess make up, fake tan, trout pouts, etc? All in an effort to look younger than what they really are, that's why!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 02/15/24 03:09 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 02/15/24 03:10 AM


Men lie due to lack of security in themselves. They are hoping to date people younger than themselves. So they lie, to try and get a meet. Hoping that they can convince the person they meet, that they are worth the lie.
It is a sad fact. I know my age. I know not to lie. If a first meet or talk is based on a lie, then it is why they are single. They are nothing but a liar or cheat.
Quick to judge the guys on this, but the ones who lie most about their ages is actually the women. I mean some even try to make it look like you've just committed a crime, by asking them what age they are? That's why it's women getting botox, fillers, facelifts, using excess make up, fake tan, trout pouts, etc? All in an effort to look younger than what they really are, that's why!

Why do you need to have a go at women?
All the stuff you mention women do come from not being valued in society, which is still mostly masculine based, unless we have big and firm boobs, no wrinkles, great @$$, nice tan, slender waist, and so on.
In short: we're only good enough when we look young and have a great body.
No one stays young forever, nor does everyone have what is considered to be a great body. We come in all shapes and sizes, just like men.
Difference being that men don't get judged for it, women do.
It's been like this for thousands of years which is why we don't know any better, we've been brainwashed to make sure we keep looking as young as possible, no matter what.
It has always been normal that a husband seeks out a younger woman as soon as his wife shows signs of aging. Have you any idea how soul destroying it is? The man you love clearly doesn't love you as it's only skin-deep.
As soon as she started aging, she was obsolete? WTF is that about?

It so sad we have to basically maim our natural bodies in order to be valued!
And you blame women for trying to stay young in appearance?
It's YOU men who couldn't & can't keep it in your pants that caused this.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 02/15/24 03:15 AM
Men lie as they cannot handle aging.
Men generally have way more fragile egos than women and their egos can't handle it.
They notice at work they can't keep up with the younger generation of men, they notice their body isn't as toned and muscular anymore, his erection isn't as solid as it used to be and so on.
So he has a big problem with getting older and lies about his age.

It's not for nothing men get an ego boost out of having a much younger partner, or getting attention from much younger women.

Men are very sensitive to their status in the male hierarchy. That stems from ancient times, no longer the Alpha male. That stings.
(For women female hierarchy isn't important. For us it's sisterhood and oneness)

Anton's photo
Thu 02/15/24 05:59 AM
You silly person ;-)
Everyone knows women are allowed to change their
minds about their age on a whim.

🤣🤣

Rock's photo
Thu 02/15/24 09:51 AM

I've been so curious as to the rate of how some men who's be hitting me up lie about their ages.. It's so unbelievable.


:joy:
Oh! To paint an entire gender with such
a broad brush. Tsk, tsk.

I've only lied about my age once.
I was in a beer store when I was 14.
I was 6'4" and had a fumanchu mustache.
It was 1982, the drinking age was 18 in
the state I lived.
Got my rack of long neck bottles,
without having to show my motorcycle
license.

Motorcycle license age was 14 at the time. :joy:
"Borrowed" my mom's car for the beer run.

The '80s were fun.

Larsson71's photo
Thu 02/15/24 12:22 PM



Men lie due to lack of security in themselves. They are hoping to date people younger than themselves. So they lie, to try and get a meet. Hoping that they can convince the person they meet, that they are worth the lie.
It is a sad fact. I know my age. I know not to lie. If a first meet or talk is based on a lie, then it is why they are single. They are nothing but a liar or cheat.
Quick to judge the guys on this, but the ones who lie most about their ages is actually the women. I mean some even try to make it look like you've just committed a crime, by asking them what age they are? That's why it's women getting botox, fillers, facelifts, using excess make up, fake tan, trout pouts, etc? All in an effort to look younger than what they really are, that's why!

Why do you need to have a go at women?
All the stuff you mention women do come from not being valued in society, which is still mostly masculine based, unless we have big and firm boobs, no wrinkles, great @$$, nice tan, slender waist, and so on.
In short: we're only good enough when we look young and have a great body.
No one stays young forever, nor does everyone have what is considered to be a great body. We come in all shapes and sizes, just like men.
Difference being that men don't get judged for it, women do.
It's been like this for thousands of years which is why we don't know any better, we've been brainwashed to make sure we keep looking as young as possible, no matter what.
It has always been normal that a husband seeks out a younger woman as soon as his wife shows signs of aging. Have you any idea how soul destroying it is? The man you love clearly doesn't love you as it's only skin-deep.
As soon as she started aging, she was obsolete? WTF is that about?

It so sad we have to basically maim our natural bodies in order to be valued!
And you blame women for trying to stay young in appearance?
It's YOU men who couldn't & can't keep it in your pants that caused this.
Nah Crystal, you'll never see me with a Trout Pout and a face so rigid with Botox, that it would give a breeze block, a run for it's money! Only stating facts in my statement, that's all! 🤣🤣:thumbsup:

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