We’ve all heard about “love at first sight”… but what about love at first chat?

You know that feeling when you’re talking to someone online for the first time and suddenly it feels different… like they just “get you”?

Maybe it’s the way they reply instantly… or the way they use emojis just right… or the way you end up talking for hours about absolutely nothing, but it still feels amazing.

I’ve experienced this once — started with a random conversation about coffee vs tea, and somehow ended with sharing life dreams at 2 a.m. We never even met in person, but it felt like I’d known her forever.

So I’m curious…

1. Have you ever felt a real connection with someone just through chatting?


2. Did it turn into something real, or did it fade away?


3. And… do you think online chemistry can be stronger than real-life chemistry?



Be honest — your stories might just make someone believe in it again.

Be very very careful. Scammers are very clever. And chat bots now are very good at seeming real.

As has already been said here, scammers are very good con artists, they will say what you want to hear. If you feel that sort of connection, arrange to meet them as soon as possible, or a video call, Scammers will not want that, doesn't fit with their hidden agenda, so better to move on. Until you meet them in the real world, don't be drawn in to the fantasy they try and create. Good luck min your search.

Online chemistry cannot be stronger than real-life chemistry. Still online chemistry has lot to do with the relief psychologically. This is true when we are living in this digital world. We can at least spend some time if fortunately get something relevant. Though precaution and little caution is important very much similar as while driving.

Can happen if you are lucky

This is still happening?

It happens but luckily

Yes I agree with that

Can happen.

I love how the logical and experienced people say no, be careful. Then all the could be Scammers say it could happen 🤣.

Being Naive will get you hurt every time. People have hidden agendas. Its almost 2026, You Should Know Better By Now...SMDH! Best Example-The Plandemic-Way Too Many Wolves in Sheep's Clothing!

Your chance of seeing a true love at first chat is real but 99 percentage of them are scammer

Yes, it can most certainly happen. You can feel a click & resonance via chat as well as in real life.
Nothing strange about it.
It's all related to energy and you can pick up on that any time, any place. It's not bound to personal encounters at all. If that was the case I'd never be able to do accurate readings for people I've never met or seen, and don't even know the name of.

Concerning love... I've had it happen twice and both times it led to more. First time turned a long-term relationship, the other a shorter one.

I think there is a difference between love and attraction. Attraction is what you feel at first sight, it pulls you to them to find out more about them. Love is a deeper feeling, it is what keeps you together even in the rough times.

I think you can be attracted to someone by just chatting with them, but it might be just a step above the feelings for someone in a good novel you are reading. Most people know that a character in a novel is fictional so they can pull back their feelings, but when you are chatting then you hope it is not a fictional character that you are talking to (scammer).

Yes, I have met girls online that I felt a connection with. But most of them did not last long because who they were online and who they were in real life did not match up. One did last for about four years, but unfortunately we just grew apart.

I do not think that an online chemistry is stronger than an in person chemistry because online you only see what they want you to see so it is not really real. In person, you can see all the good and the bad...if you love them after seeing all of them then it is a deeper connection.

Love is a beautiful thing, love can happen at first sight!. but because it happens doesn't mean the love is genuine, it could be infatuation.

It could be lust.

I have yes..


I did meet someone off this site years ago and dated for about a year.. it didn't work out tho.. it didn't fade.. he just wasn't for me..


sometimes yes.. then you meet in real life and see a different side of that person.. one that doesn't necessarily jive with the person you thought you got to know.. that's been my experience meeting men.. women on the other hand.. I met one when I first got here and we've been best friends for 20 yrs now..

what if... just throwing this out there.. their personality in real life matched up with theirs online.. am I to assume then that you've never met anyone like that?

you and I have clicked Crystal.. it's called Kismet

Personality differences I can understand, when you are typing out what you are trying to say it is easy to delete and rephrase. In person it can sound like rambling...lol Or you might have someone who is more outgoing online but in real life they are a little shy.
What was referring to was differences like physical or age wise. People will use a 'modified' version of their picture and when it does not look like them in person they claim it is just their avatar picture...lol Or when you meet someone who said she was 29 (back when I was 38) but as you get to know them in person that ages comes down a few years. Then you meet her mother who says she is only 19!...lol (She looked good for 29, but not so good as 19). I am sure I am not the only one with 'catfish' stories...lol

I can be a rambler.. sometimes.. when I'm really REALLY tired
this is true.. about outgoing vs shy.. we all have our moments but it is easier for some to hide behind the screen in order to be more "themselves"..
personally? I don't give a fug.. I'm blunt both online AND in person.. mind you.. I can sometimes nicer online

ah.. ok.. yeah.. that makes perfect sense.. putting up a pic of oneself at 40 instead of at ones true age of 60 can be a slight deterrent huh

I had one kinda like that.. his pic showed him all buff and in amazing shape.. met him in person and he was a good 40 lbs overweight, he said he rarely drank, turns out he was an alcoholic.. he said he lived in a 'grand place'.. it ended up being a dive apartment cuz he was a gambler.. so NO.. you are NOT the only one with 'catfish' stories.. sadly..