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Not everyone is Crystal..... you may have very high standards, which may or may not work for you , but most serial daters, only do it for easy access to a man's wallet and all the free meals....otherwise why stipulate number of dates , before granting access to the world' most expensive property?
Now regular daters will only go on dates if there is a spark , a connection or an emotional charge. If that is not present after the first meet and greet, then forget the dates and the numbers....no leg spreading is required or warranted. I totally agree with you Slim... Who the hell tells someone they are getting to know they don't sleep with them till the 6th date then ghost them after the 5th date...Why even bring up the sleeping with someone?? Heck it either happens in the moment or it don't. 
Those are serial daters only out for a free fancy meal. Myself first meet is dutch and I let them know that from the start.. If there is a 2nd and they want to pick up the tab fine if not fine.. But there would not be a 3rd if no connection.. normally not even a 2nd date.. 
Maybe it is just me, but a date should not be dutch. If I ask a girl to go somewhere, then I expect that I am paying. It is nice for her to offer, but I will pay. That also means that we are going to a reasonable place...lol |
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Not everyone is Crystal..... you may have very high standards, which may or may not work for you , but most serial daters, only do it for easy access to a man's wallet and all the free meals....otherwise why stipulate number of dates , before granting access to the world' most expensive property?
Now regular daters will only go on dates if there is a spark , a connection or an emotional charge. If that is not present after the first meet and greet, then forget the dates and the numbers....no leg spreading is required or warranted. I totally agree with you Slim... Who the hell tells someone they are getting to know they don't sleep with them till the 6th date then ghost them after the 5th date...Why even bring up the sleeping with someone?? Heck it either happens in the moment or it don't.
Those are serial daters only out for a free fancy meal. Myself first meet is dutch and I let them know that from the start.. If there is a 2nd and they want to pick up the tab fine if not fine.. But there would not be a 3rd if no connection.. normally not even a 2nd date..
Maybe it is just me, but a date should not be dutch. If I ask a girl to go somewhere, then I expect that I am paying. It is nice for her to offer, but I will pay. That also means that we are going to a reasonable place...lol BEING an officer and gentleman, I will agree with you that a Man always pays for the date....number one or two or even three... But to make that kinda call, all starts with the first meet and greet...If she is not willing to go Dutch , it tells you plenty in silence, whats gonna happen if you decide to actually date her IMO |
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I have to agree with Slim and TG here. Most of the time you should know after the first date if you are interested in a person like that. No sense in leading someone on just for meals. It may not happen in everyone's world but girls do it around here also.It is bad enough that some girls will still want to go on another "date" even after you tell them that you do not think you see this going anywhere with them...lol Maybe it is just me, but a date should not be dutch. If I ask a girl to go somewhere, then I expect that I am paying. It is nice for her to offer, but I will pay. That also means that we are going to a reasonable place...lol I concur.. if after the first meet/date a person shud know if they want more or not.. on the YOU have to pay GRB..? I beg ta differ.. under the circumstanstes of no chemistry.. if there is none.. I'd feel weird letting the guy pay.. yes.. it's commendable.. but it just doesn't sit right with me.. makes me feel like I'm taking advantage of someones good nature or EXPECTing him to pay.. ya feel me?? lol now if there IS chemistry.. well.. different story, yes I'll offer.. but if he insists? I'll eventually, graciously accept.. I may not be looking.. but I ain't dead yet either 
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