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I'm just trying to see if I'm not thinking correctly but if I was just getting to know a new person a woman in my case the last thing I would want to do is ask her for money. that's the last thing on my mind. I'm just trying to get inside her head and try to get her in mind finances. I don't know how long it should be before you discuss money, but it's not a topic that is appropriate. I think when you first meet someone. am I wrong on this? can somebody help me?
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It seems natural that everyone would want to know what the other did for a living, fairly soon into any relationship. After that I do not think money should be a topic, one can do the math from the occupation. I would be more worried if they did not work at all. Or if one or the other had a feverish delight in your personal business. But if ANYONE ever asks for money, their reason for being on the site becomes more than clear. Be wise. |
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To me, the money issue needs to be talked about some time before moving in together. Otherwise you can just wait until a close topic comes around, like if she talks about buying a new car or something else expensive that she says she wants but can not afford.
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