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You need to get a good rein on your clicker finger. I try.. but sometimes.. the site doesn't move as fast as I do lol.. OR.. ma finger does a twitchy dance LOL |
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To add to my post above ^^^^ What you then get is many women deciding to go and stay solo. I'm on the verge of doing that as well. Zee says she's done that too. Women are very good at living solo. Men not so much. This is also physical, I'm not 100% sure of the reason, but if memory serves it has something to do with a hormonal change in men. That's also why men often enter a new relationship directly after leaving a partner. Women generally cannot do that. We need time to heal. Again if memory serves, the reason we can go solo and lead a totally fulfilling life also has to do with something hormonal, the way we're wired. You see this happen more and more these days as there simply aren't a lot of quality men anymore who are rooted & anchored in their masculinity. I agree Crystal, for the most part, men these days IMO seem unwilling to bend.. we have to move to them, they've laid roots and ours don't seem to even come into account.. there is not even a discussion of compromise.. to me there's no balance in their masculine & feminine side.. yet the women I know seem to balance out.. I've always felt like a "she-male" (not speaking about sexuality, in that regard I am ALL woman) I'm speaking to my connectedness with my masculine side, that I can handle doing both types of work AND use both sides of my brain.. be it male or female oriented (old school descriptions).. and possibly one of the reasons why I make friends so easily with men.. I can relate on many levels.. however.. lots of men seem to not be able to relate on a similar level with women.. many do not seem to have the empathetic gene nor can they pick up on clues given by women.. also, in my experience, men who relate to my masculine side, seem blind to my feminine side.. all this to say YEAH, I've come to accept being single for the balance of my life because I have yet to meet ANY man that can live up to my expectations, even WITH compromise, of what a relationship shud be.. I've given quite a few the chance to prove me wrong but.. hasn't happened yet so figure it's not gonna..
When in touch with a potential partner you have to be in your feminine. A man cannot feel anything romantic nor fall in love when you're in your masculine. That's another problem these days: many women being too much in their masculine, oftentimes so much so that they don't even know and argue till they're blue in the face that they're not. You need polarity for romantic feelings to come up and there's no polarity when the woman is in her masculine. There are a lot of other things women tend to do that put men off. Especially now that we also have a lot of men in too much feminine energy. These men talk too much, can whinge, are needy etc. A quality man listens to the woman talk. The woman should talk more than the man. And she should talk about her feelings as that raises her oestrogen which in turn raises the man's testosterone. Men can smell oestrogen. Which is also why men often cannot fall in love with an older woman because she a) is too much in her masculine energy and B) doesn't have oestrogen anymore. He can then be friends with her but he cannot fall in love with her. Another thing women often not do is ask a man to do things for her. Not necessary big things. Just things that take a few minutes, and then show that you're grateful he did that. That raises his testosterone. Men need to do, give, serve (not on a 3D level). He should give to his woman. That makes him feel better. Thing is, most women don't ask anything of their man because she can do it herself, sometimes even better. Big mistake! And often women give or do too much for their man. Even go as far as to solve his problems for him. You know, there are a ton of things like that and most people don't even know! We were never taught any of this as in the past you married, stayed married. End of story. But the knowledge is out there. That's how I learnt, but most people cannot be @r$ed to educate themselves. Jake Woodard, excellent coach although he presents himself as motivational speaker, even offers webinars and/or courses for men so they can learn to become quality men & partners as opposed to lame @$$ed Beta men. He's really good, doesn't beat around the bush either. Stuff like, "If you do XYZ she doesn't want to F you anymore because...." Stupid thing is, a lot of women do do the work to grow & develop, also concerning being a good partner, feminine etc. And men... they fiddle with the remote? Then come on here to complain about women, hihi. |
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You need to get a good rein on your clicker finger. I try.. but sometimes.. the site doesn't move as fast as I do lol.. OR.. ma finger does a twitchy dance LOL I used to go out with a girl that was a good twitchy dancer. But she moved too fast for me. |
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You need to get a good rein on your clicker finger. I try.. but sometimes.. the site doesn't move as fast as I do lol.. OR.. ma finger does a twitchy dance LOL I used to go out with a girl that was a good twitchy dancer. But she moved too fast for me. they call that Twerking today
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She was a pretty good twerk too.
I miss that. |
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