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Topic: Desperate much?
OldCoot's photo
Wed 11/19/25 09:53 AM
Edited by OldCoot on Wed 11/19/25 09:58 AM
Okay, I'm at the point that I'll take any offer from any woman (or girl) with daddy issues who can get over the fact that I'm 72 and still not using a walker to get to the car.
Nope, I am not into "exercise", nope, I am not rich, nope, I'm not drop-dead handsome (any more-there was a time).

BUT, I have a nice car, a nice boat & a truck to pull it with, own my own home in a really nice and safe neighborhood with an extra bedroom if she doesn't want to sleep in my king bed with me, and I can actually cook, wash dishes, vacuum, & take out the garbage and recycling all by myself.
(I cheat and use the moto-cart at the grocery store because concrete floors give me a backache after an hour wandering around.)

I smoke, but I'm not a drinker, I am fairly intelligent and well-read on almost any subject but I'm not so full of hubris to think I know-it-all (aside from decades of being right almost every time - which is likely a result of what I was born with, not something I learned how to do.)
I will accept the dumbest "Box-O'-Rox" going as long as she is pleasing to the eye and doesn't mind if I just like to sit - or go places with her - and look at her while she does whatever she wants to do.
(Hell, I don't even care if she is involved the sex industry for a living - I used to know a lot of them when I was much younger and they were all really nice women.)

To me that's a fair trade - she gets material support & freedom to do as she pleases and I get to admire the artistry that is the human female form in motion.
So, how 'bout it ladies - any takers?

Honestly, I don't for a minute believe there are any attractive 50+ women on this site actually looking to make a connection, which is why I feel perfectly confident in making such a lopsided offer.
(PS: If it turns out she was to develop real feelings for me, so much the better, I'm ready now to give love another shot and be that mythical unicorn they all say they are looking for - honest to a fault, loyal, devoted, charitable, kind, - and a good time in public or private....that's not my opinion, it's the women I've hung out with that have said so.)

Gillian Machi's photo
Mon 12/29/25 03:13 AM
good luck

OldCoot's photo
Wed 01/07/26 08:56 AM

good luck
Never been the lucky type, which is why I've never ever purchased a lottery ticket.
In truth, aside from lightning striking me in love against enormous odds, the only thing I've ever won was the heart of my late wife.
I still don't understand WHY she ever adopted me but I consider it better than winning the $2billion powerball so maybe I was lucky - once.

oldkid46's photo
Sun 01/18/26 08:37 AM

sure sounds like a common condition for us older guys. I may not have much, but I'm certainly willing to share what I do have.

OldCoot's photo
Thu 01/22/26 04:00 PM
Ugh!
Another day, another hour wasted, sorting through empty meat suits looking for love in all the wrong places.
This profile seems to be working now - drawin' 'em in like flies to a corpse flower - but not in any way usable for somebody like me.

Lawdy Mighty JeBus on a pogo stick.....is just ONE too much to ask for?

OldCoot's photo
Thu 01/22/26 04:03 PM
Forgot my manners.
Thank you for the well wishes Gillian Machi. waving

Zee's photo
Fri 01/23/26 08:05 AM
Gentlemen.. you are not alone.. this applies to older women as well!

I gave up looking for love a long time ago.. I keep myself busy instead doing the things I love!

they say that if you stop searching.. it'll find you.. HA.. what a load of BS!

I don't have much either.. but.. I'm not willing to share!! pitchfork
bigsmile
laugh kidding aside.. I'd suggest getting involved in your actual community (where you live).. volunteer (if you're not doing those already).. do things that get you out of the house to meet new people.. who knows.. you might have some fun.. :wink: drinker

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Fri 01/23/26 10:35 AM

kidding aside.. I'd suggest getting involved in your actual community (where you live).. volunteer (if you're not doing those already).. do things that get you out of the house to meet new people.. who knows.. you might have some fun.. :wink: drinker

This is so true, get out and do something even if it is just to stroll around the neighborhood for exercise. You may nor meet a romantic partner, but you might make a good friend and you are out doing something rather that just waiting to find someone...

Zee's photo
Fri 01/23/26 12:26 PM


kidding aside.. I'd suggest getting involved in your actual community (where you live).. volunteer (if you're not doing those already).. do things that get you out of the house to meet new people.. who knows.. you might have some fun.. :wink: drinker

This is so true, get out and do something even if it is just to stroll around the neighborhood for exercise. You may nor meet a romantic partner, but you might make a good friend and you are out doing something rather that just waiting to find someone...


during our last election I went door to door talking with people and reminding them to vote.. met a lot of great people.. now they honk and wave as they drive by while I'm out shoveling laugh

seriously though.. I met a lot of like minded people and made plans to meet up with'em once it's a tad warmer.. temps are running too freakin cold at -31F currently..🥶

Zee's photo
Fri 01/23/26 12:26 PM
Edited by Zee on Fri 01/23/26 12:27 PM
duplicated yet again grumble ohwell

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 01/26/26 02:20 AM

Okay, I'm at the point that I'll take any offer from any woman (or girl) with daddy issues who can get over the fact that I'm 72 and still not using a walker to get to the car.
Nope, I am not into "exercise", nope, I am not rich, nope, I'm not drop-dead handsome (any more-there was a time).

BUT, I have a nice car, a nice boat & a truck to pull it with, own my own home in a really nice and safe neighborhood with an extra bedroom if she doesn't want to sleep in my king bed with me, and I can actually cook, wash dishes, vacuum, & take out the garbage and recycling all by myself.
(I cheat and use the moto-cart at the grocery store because concrete floors give me a backache after an hour wandering around.)

I smoke, but I'm not a drinker, I am fairly intelligent and well-read on almost any subject but I'm not so full of hubris to think I know-it-all (aside from decades of being right almost every time - which is likely a result of what I was born with, not something I learned how to do.)
I will accept the dumbest "Box-O'-Rox" going as long as she is pleasing to the eye and doesn't mind if I just like to sit - or go places with her - and look at her while she does whatever she wants to do.
(Hell, I don't even care if she is involved the sex industry for a living - I used to know a lot of them when I was much younger and they were all really nice women.)

To me that's a fair trade - she gets material support & freedom to do as she pleases and I get to admire the artistry that is the human female form in motion.
So, how 'bout it ladies - any takers?

Honestly, I don't for a minute believe there are any attractive 50+ women on this site actually looking to make a connection, which is why I feel perfectly confident in making such a lopsided offer.
(PS: If it turns out she was to develop real feelings for me, so much the better, I'm ready now to give love another shot and be that mythical unicorn they all say they are looking for - honest to a fault, loyal, devoted, charitable, kind, - and a good time in public or private....that's not my opinion, it's the women I've hung out with that have said so.)


Please mention my name if you are oversubscribed. smile2

Charlotte Kaylee's photo
Mon 01/26/26 02:34 AM
:laughing::laughing::laughing:

oldkid46's photo
Mon 01/26/26 04:37 PM
interesting statistic: In the +55 age group, there are approximately 57 single men per 100 single women. When we are in public, social situations, it seems that men outnumber women by a vast majority. Where are all you ladies hiding??

OldCoot's photo
Tue 01/27/26 05:53 AM
Apparently Duttoneer is making a collection of them.
Maybe he stashed the other 43 in his wine cellar, where they are drunk & unconscious.

Duttoneer's photo
Tue 01/27/26 11:46 AM
Make it so.

William Alvarez's photo
Wed 02/18/26 03:12 AM
I understand where your gentleman are coming from. At 63 years old i'm not having trouble find me a woman on mingle.. If I was going to be mingle google whore. I get a lot of 30 year olds confronting me and they know my age. But what it's really about they pretend act like their interested. By calling me honey baby sweetie darling by soulmate. I love you within the first hour. I meet them. Delete pop the question they want apple cards game cards phone cards and money. They try to take advantage of that. Because I'm the older man. And that's b******* Because I did not give money out. The other majority of women are prostitutes wanting my business. And I don't do that stuff. So i have not found a decent woman. The type you'll be proud of bringing home to mother if you know what I mean.. I even googled their picture and they had their own p*** Site or site with naked pictures. Which I'm against. I'm looking for my true love 21 of fallen love without the head games.. I'm still looking






SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 02/18/26 04:28 AM
For me the reason for not finding love is -and you're probably not going to like it- most men being Beta men. Not rooted & anchored in their masculine energy.
Most men are so concerned with never investing, caring for, committing, and provided for a woman that they make it impossible. They shoot themselves in the foot with that mindset to begin with, but women aren't interested in such men either. It's not what we want as most women do have more to offer.

I am a core feminine energy woman and with a core masculine energy man I can shift into that energy, which is heaven on Earth!
With a Beta man I can't do that. I'll still have to carry the masculine load which is exhausting to a woman, causes physical stress as it upsets her nervous system. It forces her to shift into masculine energy which we do have but it's not the idea that we live in that 24/7.

Don't believe me, want to argue about it? Then educate yourself first. And once you've done that, use your new knowledge while you read men's posts. What they say, how they say it etc.
Then you'll quickly see what I'm talking about. Most say they are good men and they want love, yet they aren't ready or willing to go the extra mile for a woman. Or if they (think) they do, they don't do it the right way but still the Beta-man way.

I'm 100% convinced this is the reason many women cannot find a partner.
Women are further along in the process (this is always the case, no judgement) and don't want a whingy, whiny, demanding, needy man by their side.
So many men demand everything yet offer nothing (much).
Men demand everything of a woman, her giving up everything (when moving house for him for instance), risking everything. She must be all in, while in the meantime he makes dammed sure he always got an 'out'.

Women might have gone for that 50 years ago, but not anymore. We want a man by our side, not some wimp who's afraid to go for love.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 02/18/26 04:36 AM
To add to my post above ^^^^
What you then get is many women deciding to go and stay solo.
I'm on the verge of doing that as well. Zee says she's done that too.

Women are very good at living solo. Men not so much.
This is also physical, I'm not 100% sure of the reason, but if memory serves it has something to do with a hormonal change in men.
That's also why men often enter a new relationship directly after leaving a partner.
Women generally cannot do that. We need time to heal.

Again if memory serves, the reason we can go solo and lead a totally fulfilling life also has to do with something hormonal, the way we're wired.
You see this happen more and more these days as there simply aren't a lot of quality men anymore who are rooted & anchored in their masculinity.

Zee's photo
Wed 02/18/26 10:07 AM

To add to my post above ^^^^
What you then get is many women deciding to go and stay solo.
I'm on the verge of doing that as well. Zee says she's done that too.

Women are very good at living solo. Men not so much.
This is also physical, I'm not 100% sure of the reason, but if memory serves it has something to do with a hormonal change in men.
That's also why men often enter a new relationship directly after leaving a partner.
Women generally cannot do that. We need time to heal.

Again if memory serves, the reason we can go solo and lead a totally fulfilling life also has to do with something hormonal, the way we're wired.
You see this happen more and more these days as there simply aren't a lot of quality men anymore who are rooted & anchored in their masculinity.


I agree Crystal, for the most part, men these days IMO seem unwilling to bend.. we have to move to them, they've laid roots and ours don't seem to even come into account.. there is not even a discussion of compromise..

to me there's no balance in their masculine & feminine side.. yet the women I know seem to balance out..
I've always felt like a "she-male" (not speaking about sexuality, in that regard I am ALL woman) I'm speaking to my connectedness with my masculine side, that I can handle doing both types of work AND use both sides of my brain.. be it male or female oriented (old school descriptions).. and possibly one of the reasons why I make friends so easily with men.. I can relate on many levels.. however.. lots of men seem to not be able to relate on a similar level with women.. many do not seem to have the empathetic gene nor can they pick up on clues given by women.. also, in my experience, men who relate to my masculine side, seem blind to my feminine side..

all this to say YEAH, I've come to accept being single for the balance of my life because I have yet to meet ANY man that can live up to my expectations, even WITH compromise, of what a relationship shud be.. I've given quite a few the chance to prove me wrong but.. hasn't happened yet so figure it's not gonna.. ohwell

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 02/18/26 10:22 AM

duplicated yet again grumble ohwell


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